What are you most afraid of when the Chinese New Year is approaching?

I am especially afraid of the New Year. At this time of year, no matter what you do, your parents will say that you will count me down on everything, and then since you came home, you have been nagging and always urging you to find a partner.

The most fearful thing is that being asked, are you born, are you there? Or why don't you give birth yet, it's not too big I used to like to go out with my mother to buy New Year's goods, buy couplet lanterns and the like, but now I don't go out When I return to my hometown, I basically stay at home Because my mother basically knows everyone in the town, and I have to say hello to many people when I go out, and then I will say, your daughter? When did you come back?

Is there a good thing (pregnancy)? I didn't have a grandmother I asked too much, and I felt annoyed

For people who are just over 20 years old and have no achievements, the Chinese New Year can be described as an absurd life and a year older, the most afraid of the New Year, afraid of the Spring Festival, no tickets, or too crowded, afraid of people mentioning their age.

It's going to be the New Year, and I'm really afraid that my parents will urge me to get married, because there is really no way to solve the problem in a short period of time that has not been solved for several years. As time goes by, I feel that many things are becoming more and more passive, and I was not in a hurry before, and I persuaded my parents not to be in a hurry. Now I am also anxious, seeing that my classmates, colleagues and friends who are younger than me have entered the palace of marriage, I feel that I am lonely and pitiful.

When I was young, I liked to have relatives, because I could get New Year's money and eat a lot of good things, and I was very much looking forward to it at that time. But as I got older, I hated going to my relatives more and more, mainly because every time I visited my relatives, they always asked me about my grades. When I was in junior high school, my grades were not very good, but every year during the Chinese New Year, they always kept asking me about my grades, and they still had a sarcastic tone, in fact, this was just pouring salt on my wounds, and every time they wanted to avoid this topic.

If I didn't have them, they would say that the older I get, the more rude I become, which is really annoying.

What scares me the most is that my family starts asking about my partner again, even though I'm only in my twenties.

But because my cousin, who is two years younger than me, is already a mother of two babies. Therefore, when I went home for the Chinese New Year, I became the object of discussion among the seven aunts and eight aunts, and they all said that I was not too young.

But what happened if I didn't look for a partner, and I didn't eat their rice.

I'm from a rural area, and my grades are pretty good compared to my peers. When I graduated from high school, some of my elementary school classmates started getting married; By the time I graduated from college, my peers in the village were basically married. My parents always wanted me to have an iron job, but I never thought of going the civil service route.

After graduating, I worked 2 jobs and created 2 jobs, but both failed. At present, he is a planner in a company, he is 29 years old, single, has no house, no car, no savings, and his only assets are dreams and momentum. It's just that every time I go home for the Chinese New Year, I feel like I went to the battlefield to fight a battle.

I really couldn't face the disappointed eyes of my parents.

When I was a child, I was most looking forward to the New Year, there were new clothes, delicious food, and firecrackers, and now I am most afraid of the New Year, my age is getting older and older year by year, and then my parents are getting older and older.

A group of people who don't usually communicate with each other suddenly become very enthusiastic, chattering in your ears with a high octave voice, discussing and caring about your studies, your salary, your object, your future, your weight, your dressing style, and even because there is a thread three centimeters up the knee of the left trouser leg of the jeans you are wearing, you can conclude that young people just can't buy things, and they are very well deceived by merchants.

When I was a child, my relatives would ask me during the Chinese New Year: How old are you? How did you do on the exam?

Wait a minute. But now, what are you doing? How much money do you make?

Is there a target? Wait a minute. All of this may be the reason why I don't want to celebrate the New Year.

As a college student, every year when I go home during the winter vacation, I will face different torture from my family, and the questions are also "colorful", such as study, love, life, and future. Especially during the Chinese New Year, the seven aunts and eight aunts tortured us, and it was a headache!

After a year of hard work, I want to buy myself a few new clothes, buy some gifts for my parents, and give my little nephew and niece a little New Year's money. It's not a few days before the Chinese New Year, so I'm waiting for the year-end bonus to be procured one by one, but it's uncertain whether there is a year-end bonus!

I am most afraid that my husband will seriously flip through the old yellow calendar, and then say to me excitedly, wife, I will get up at four o'clock in the morning tomorrow to say goodbye!

If you have money, you don't have money to go home for the New Year! The Spring Festival is approaching, and many people can't wait to embark on the journey home! The parents at home haven't seen each other for a long time, the relatives in the hometown haven't moved around for a long time, and the brothers and sisters who grew up together haven't gotten together for a long time! Everything is so beautiful!

But now, this kind of nostalgia seems to be less urgent, and many young people are beginning to be afraid of going home for the New Year, and going home for the Spring Festival has become a thing of anxiety for them! This situation, which we call Spring Festival anxiety, mostly occurs in young people who work outside the home, and you and I may be one of them. How much do you earn each month?

How much did you get in the year-end bonus! "I was happy to come back for the New Year, but the relatives at home asked how much a month to get, how much the year-end bonus was issued" This is a problem that many young people will encounter when they go home for the New Year! In the special period of the Spring Festival, it is essential to move between relatives, relatives ask you, say too much for fear of people worrying, say less of their own face, afraid that their parents will not be able to raise their heads!

In today's society, the wage level is a reflection of a person's face! So whenever relatives ask this question, it is easy to cause anxiety among young people!

I only have a year-end bonus, and it's a good year! All red envelopes have been distributed.

Calling uncle" "Uncle Happy New Year" "Good, uncle gives you a red envelope" Giving red envelopes for the New Year is a traditional custom of the Chinese! However, I don't know when it will start! Giving red envelopes has become a burden for young people to go home for the New Year, children at home, you have to give a red envelope, and the elderly at home, you have to give a red envelope!

My year-end bonus, I went home for the New Year, and I gave out all the red envelopes! ”

Got an object? No? You've got to hold on to that! When I go home for the New Year, I am most afraid of encountering something that is not about spending some money, but about the endless urging to get married!

Many young people go home for the Chinese New Year, thinking that after giving red envelopes and receiving relatives, they will be able to spend the New Year comfortably! But this needle is only for those young people who have a partner, for those who are single, this year is not so easy to pass! Some people can meet more than ten or twenty relatives during the Spring Festival!

Either sit at the blind date table or sit in the blind date car! Endless urging to marry and endless blind dates have become the source of anxiety for many single young people! I don't know when it began, having a partner, getting married and having children, became the standard for measuring a person!

To be honest, I'm most afraid of class reunions, I don't have a topic at all, and I only see them once a year. These are all played from childhood to adulthood, and they are slowly moving away from the circle.

I'm afraid that my waist bag will be hollowed out.

Adults spend a lot of money on the New Year, but they don't spend much money at home. Buy some food, drinks, etc., and get some delicious ingredients, which is generally less than 10,000. But what I am most afraid of is human contact, especially for the flourishing big family.

A family, a lot of nephews and nieces, are waiting for your New Year's money? How much does a person give, it's too embarrassing to give less, a person still gives more than 600, ten is 6,000, and 100 is 60,000.

For some big families, basically tens of thousands of yuan are gone.

In addition, I have to go to my mother-in-law's house, there are a lot of relatives and friends over there, the family sends a bottle of Moutai wine, a box of fruits, and a child over there gives a red envelope. Well, all the money I earned this year is gone, and I have earned a lonely one.

There are a lot of relatives when I go home for the Chinese New Year, and I have to deal with them hard, and sometimes I really feel that it is not as ......easy as going back to work overtime

Especially parents with children, they are most worried about having "bear relatives" to tease their children, and the following 10 kinds are the most complained about in the parent group, see if you have such relatives or acquaintances around you.

The most hated type of relative by parents is the first type of indiscriminate feeding.

For the Chinese New Year, food is the standard. All kinds of big fish and meat, mountain and sea delicacies on the dinner table; All kinds of melon seeds, peanuts, candied fruit jelly and other snacks on the tea table.

However, you say that you can eat it yourself, and there are always some relatives who owe it to our children, like little monkeys in the zoo, and feed them all kinds of snacks.

Although, some relatives may be out of kindness and love for their children, but they are too ignorant, and not all of these New Year's snacks can be eaten by children, such as our common jelly and peanuts, which must not be eaten by children who are too young, and it is easy to suffocate.

There is even more annoying, let a child of a few years old drink, don't let it drink, he will say that you are "really boring", "children should develop guts" ......

Cultivate you as a ghost! When you encounter this kind of person, don't politely refuse it directly!

"Bear" index: Solution: Parents should always pay attention to their children, and when they find that someone is feeding inappropriate snacks, they should stop it in time, and patiently explain the danger and the reason why they can't eat it to each other, so that ordinary people can understand and resolve each other's embarrassment.

For many people, the Chinese New Year is a festive and joyful event. But there are also some people who don't like the Chinese New Year, and even feel a little bored. So why do these people think this way? Perhaps the following reasons may explain this problem.

First of all, Chinese New Year is a very busy and stressful time for some people. In traditional Chinese culture, Chinese New Year means a lot of preparations, including cleaning, shopping, cooking, and more. For those with families, there are also various things to consider when relatives visit.

Not only do these things take time and effort, but they can also be stressful and uncomfortable.

Secondly, the Chinese New Year may also make some people feel lonely and lost. For those who don't have family or friends to keep them company, Chinese New Year can become a lonely experience. Especially in the case of young people leaving their parents to work in big cities, they may feel more distant from their families, which makes it even more unbearable for them to endure the Chinese New Year.

Thirdly, there will also be an increase in social activities during the Chinese New Year, which may make some people uncomfortable. For those who are introverted and prefer to be alone, interacting with family and relatives can be uncomfortable. At the same time, during the Chinese New Year, there are sometimes some more complex social issues, such as gossip among the elderly, disputes between relatives, etc.

These questions can be embarrassing and uncomfortable for some people.

Finally, the Chinese New Year can also cause some financial burdens. In traditional Chinese culture, the Chinese New Year requires the purchase of various gifts, food, decorations, and more. These expenses can put some pressure on the finances of some people, especially those whose families are not well-off enough.

To sum up, the above reasons may explain why some people don't like the Chinese New Year. For these people, we should respect their choices, and we can also relieve their stress and discomfort through some measures, such as providing psychological support, reducing social activities, etc. In any case, the Chinese New Year is a celebration and reunion, so let's welcome it with a positive attitude and an open mind.

Before the Chinese New Year, you have to start preparing all kinds of big bags and small bags of things, during the New Year, you have to go around relatives, send gifts, red envelopes, good wine and good food to entertain relatives, the whole Spring Festival, the body and mind are very tired, and spend a lot of money, spending money is small, the most important thing is tired.

During the Chinese New Year, except for going home to see your dear parents, no one else wants to see them, because there are some relatives who are particularly annoying and will always ask you a lot of questions.

The most annoying question of the post-70s generation is, how much is the deposit? Is the child promising? The post-80s generation is most afraid of being asked, do you have a house or a car?

Are you married? The post-90s generation is most afraid of being asked, how are the results? Worked in**?

Don't seem to be rude, during the Chinese New Year, there are a lot of parties, every meal is big fish and meat, often many people will overeat, I don't know how many meals a day, and eventually lead to gastrointestinal problems.

Usually relatives have not seen each other for a long time, and when the Chinese New Year comes, they will get together to play cards and chat, and this chat is all night, which has seriously disrupted the usual regular life and rest time.

I don't know whose home to go back to.

This situation is aimed at the husband and wife are people from different regions, one party may be in the south, the other party is in the north, due to regional differences, the south may not be able to stand the New Year customs in the north, and the north may not be able to stand the New Year customs and living habits in the south, at this time, the husband and wife will have differences and it will be difficult to make a decision.

I can't stand the party full of comparisons.

During the Chinese New Year, friends and classmates must be indispensable, but now the party is no longer the kind of party that used to exchange feelings, but has become a party where my family has many luxury cars, how many mansions, how much monthly income, and compares with each other.

Due to the above five reasons, some people now would rather travel than celebrate the New Year, but there are still people who like to celebrate the New Year, after all, everyone's ideas and choices are different.