How do I deal with a relationship that is a thing of the past?

Hehe, is it useful to hurt a person just hate?

As the saying goes, the deeper you hate, the deeper you love......

You're thinking too much about yourself, does he have to keep chasing you when he talks to you? I'm afraid you don't have that much charm! (Sorry to insult the noble word "charisma").

The key schools are amazing?! What kind of arrogance are you, maybe people think that he has done something sorry for you and compensate you to behave ...... you very wellOtherwise, ......Cut.

You deserve to study badly, you deserve to be distressed, and you deserve to suffer by yourself! Despise!

Everyone experiences a thrilling love affair in their life, drains all their passions, and then they can live their lives peacefully.

The past feelings should be slowly forgotten, after all, people still have to move forward, when you meet another person you love one day, you will heal, and feel very naïve and stupid.

Why do you have to let someone hate themselves? How painful it is! If he looks for you, you don't care about him ( Lalala, if he really likes that girl, it's not bad for you!)

It's good that you should be transparent to him! After all, high school is a very important time! If you ignore him, he will think that you still like him!

It's better for you to ignore him completely and be comfortable yourself

Indecision is the fatal point of every girl.

You don't want to say it because you can't say it and you're afraid of hurting him.

But you don't say it, you have a lot of disgust with him in your heart.

You don't need to say it explicitly, you just ignore him, hit one**don't pick up two**don't answer, after a long time, everyone will understand.

These are the words you should say to him directly.

I know that she has a bad temper, she is a monkey, but her temper is like a cow, she likes to say anything on weekdays, and she never speaks with good anger. I can accept that, too, because she is the same tone to you and grandma. Although I don't think it's right, it's a person's personality, and it's not so easy to change.

I have a mild temper (I can only describe it as mild and not good, and only those who get along with me know whether this temper is good or not). I was able to tolerate her temper.

In fact, we don't want to remember all the past feelings, and we can't forget them all, we want to remember the growth and love experience that a relationship brought me, and we want to forget the heartbreak and hurt.

In the match I commented, the players on the right side found an interesting angle: we need to keep the semantic memory of the relationship, and forget the episodic memory of the relationship.

In other words, we want to keep what a relationship has taught us: how to love and be loved.

And you can forget those touching moments, remember a friend of mine, who had to leave a city because of a broken love, and her reason is those scenes: we have been together for too long, we have been to too many places, so we can think of him when we pass too many places, and it is too painful.

For those who have suffered emotional betrayal, this experience is probably the darkest period of their lives, and compared with emotional betrayal, those contradictions and differences in marriage are just trivial things.

After experiencing emotional betrayal, it is really not just as simple as deciding whether to divorce, but in fact, whether to divorce itself is not a simple matter. Needless to say, emotional betrayal, hurt a person, may be a lifetime, even if this matter eventually passes, even if it is divorced, in fact, the whole thing is still there on you, and it may always be - the so-called letting go, is only occasionally when you think about it, you can try not to immerse yourself in it, and want to forget this past, want to eliminate the pain of this past on yourself, is actually a very difficult homework.

The relationship I am experiencing now is in a state where I have been married for seven years. The relationship is very stable now. My husband earns money to support the family, and I take care of the children at home. Housekeeping.

Yes, I'm going through an ambiguous period, and it's both people watching each other, and neither of them wants to take a step forward, they don't want to get hurt.

As someone who has come over, I will give you some advice:

1.Accept reality: Everyone has their own past, including emotional experiences. If you choose to be with her, accept all of her, including her past.

2.Don't interpret maliciously: Don't be prejudiced or discriminated against because of her past, thinking that she is an immoral person. Everyone has their own reasons and experiences, don't jump to conclusions.

3.Communicate honestly: If you have confusion or doubts, don't hide it from her. Instead of guessing, it is better to ask her directly about her emotional experience and attitude, and communication is the key to maintaining a harmonious relationship.

4.Focus on the present: and erase the past is in the past, and the present is the most important thing. Pay attention to her attitude and actions towards you to see if she is really dedicated and honest with you.

Finally, remember that "the past is not the future", everyone is slowly growing and changing, and maybe you can be her future happiness.

There is always some past, and there are some past feelings, almost no one can get married on the first time they fall in love, this is too little and too little, not that there is none, but that most people can't touch it, so you always have some past feelings, what is your attitude towards him, everyone is different, and you know best in your heart.

The past feelings, you have to lower its position appropriately, gradually forget it, not to say that you should completely forget the past and forget the bits and pieces of that person and you get along, but to say that you should be clear about the direction of your life, not here you have separated, no matter how much you miss the past, no matter what benefits the other party has, you can't go back to that state, so don't think about it so much, life still has to think about it, you have to believe that better, you deserve a better other half to keep moving forwardand you will come across one that suits you better.

Don't say anything about cherishing the past feelings, people are essentially an animal that can't control themselves, the more you cherish the past, the other party gives you a **, your emotions will collapse immediately, this is not worth a good horse not to eat back grass, the experience summed up by the ancients hundreds of years ago, it is still right to this day, as the saying goes, the former cry and the current must lose, in this case, the man's psychology is not firm, he also cherishes the past feelings, you have all separated, the original trouble was so undignified, In the end, the two people fell apart, and now the other party says I miss you, and you want to get back together with each other, so you have to remember it for a long time.

After all, for you, you should take the initiative in your heart to occupy this relationship, that is, you can control this relationship, you remember the good of the past, and you gradually forget the bad of the past, because you don't plan to continue contact with the other party, but in any case, you have always been together for a while, and people's memories are not forgotten if you forget them. So you can keep some of the good stuff.

Forget about the past. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

I'll never ask the owner, why was it at the pet store that day?

A past relationship is an experience in life, and it's time to leave after it has taught you something, so there's no need to dwell too much.

The past relationship is a good memory of oneself and will always remain in one's heart. But what is past is the past, and it will not come back.

Don't think about the past anymore, it's just an experience on the road of life, and it's also a memory, which won't affect your future life.

The past is the past, and it can be an unforgettable memory, but it cannot be a factor that affects the future.

I feel that past relationships are a valuable experience in my life, which has made me stronger and more mature.

Since it's a past relationship, then you have to learn to let go, it's very boring to keep dwelling on the past feelings, and I think I'll let go.

The past is gone, and people always have to look forward. It is just a memory in your life that enriches your life experience.

Past feelings are things of the past, and they are no different from anything I've experienced in the past, just a small part of my memories.

The past is already in the past tense, there is no need to care too much, you must learn to forget, forget the past feelings, it is conducive to starting a new relationship.

The past is in the past, never deliberately remembered, and it will not be forgotten, it is an experience of oneself in the past, the past is the past, and it has nothing to do with the present.

For the past feelings, we have to learn to let go, everyone will have emotional ups and downs in their lives, but a better future is still waiting for us.

Sometimes, for various reasons, you give up the person you once loved deeply, and start to continue your life, get married, have children, be busy, live an ordinary and simple, happy life, don't cry, don't be sad, isn't this your greatest wish? I hope he lives happily in some corner of the world.

You will never cross paths again, your relationship has ended and frozen in the best of times, forever, and you will never lose him again. You will no longer be miserable, you will no longer be depressed, you will only occasionally think of the past, and still believe that good things are waiting for you in the future.

Now many of us because of the injury, the past feelings will always deliberately avoid, force themselves to forget, and even ruthlessly destroy those witnesses to each other's love "evidence", of course, to be free and easy, dare to let go of the best, but in fact, the more you try to do those things, the more you show that you can't forget, can't let go. If you really love someone, those things, those memories, how can you bear to delete them!? Just seal it in a corner of memory and become an eternal secret.

We all know that nostalgia is a feeling that many people have, and the same is true in terms of feelings, once the sea is difficult to water, and I always feel that what I can't get is the best, so even if I meet the right person in the later relationship, I always hesitate and even resist because I feel that it is not as good as my ex.

Or take the current as the shadow of the ex, and as a result, you can't always find the initial feeling when you look for it. In this way, it can only be said that the relationship in the past is not for growth but harmful, very unfair to him now, and not for your future life at all.

Love to be brave and calm, in order to have no regrets, this is what every man and woman in love should strive to do, but because of the complexity of love itself, sometimes we have to endure the pain of love and can't, love in the heart, love but can't be together, if you have tried your best to finally can't get the love you crave, then gently let go, turn around and leave may not be a good choice.

Don't dwell on memories, stop disturbing other people's lives, and try to find the love that truly belongs to you.