I m about to get married, but my parents have a conflict with each other s parents, what should I do

In this case, you must first be clear about your own thoughts. First, who do you spend your life with? Second, will this happen after marriage?

In general, the quarrel between the parents of both parties is caused by the escalation of the situation, what is the reason? The contradiction lies in the fact that these are the keys. If the two are sincere and want to live together, it is best to talk to their parents by themselves, if it is only for economic reasons, the two sides will definitely still have the opportunity to sit together, it is nothing more than who retreats, how many steps back, to what extent, it's just that.

Parents don't want their children to be good, I believe that as long as they show their attitude, as long as both parents can sit together, even if there is a problem, it will not be too serious.

But the most important thing is how to deal with such problems in the future. As children, they should think about themselves as well as their parents.

In the end, an unblessed marriage will not be happy. As a woman, you also need to know more about the man's parents, and the same is true for the man.

Caring too much about money? If you get married, you still have to spend it, and I don't know if you are a man or a woman. I'll be bold enough to say it about a third party:

You're not married to your parents, right, the two of you are the key to living a life, both parents should agree to your marriage, since you agree, why postpone for such a trivial matter? It's better to get married first, and the relationship between the parents of both parties must be eased by the children, take your time.

It's not because your parents didn't like them... It's not fun to talk about money.

If you are rich and handsome, you may say: It doesn't matter who spends money, it's all your own children.

It's easy to do anything if you have feelings, but you have to talk about money if you don't have feelings.

The idea is in yourself, see if it's worth paying, it's still not enough.

Hehe, it's hard to decide, is it too much of the landlord's bride price, hehe, or how do you know that the south cares about money?

Whether you are a man or a woman, the man is a little too powerful in money, and the woman is interested in money can be understood as valuing her daughter, depending on your actual feelings. Communicate well and sincerely.

Postpone. Discuss with your partner, and both of you will do the ideological work of the parents.

After convincing the parents, see what the problem is. Mediate conflicts according to the problem and give the daughter-in-law a channel. It's normal to have conflicts with your elders.

As a junior, if you are a little more tolerant of your elders, after all, your parents are quite old. You can't let your parents be wronged, and you can't let your daughter-in-law be wronged. If you enlighten me like this, my daughter-in-law will be considerate of herself.

It is better to find a good husband than to raise a good husband yourself. You have to communicate well with him so that he learns to think about your feelings from your point of view.

At the same time, you should also understand why there is such a problem. If other parents are too nervous, sometimes the more nervous they are, the more mistakes they make. You young people need to communicate well so that your parents may not be so careless.

Sometimes the two of you have to learn to nip the conflict between your parents in the bud, and sometimes it is necessary to talk a little panic. Ha ha. If we understand each other, things will be easy.

Never doubt the other person. This will only make the contradiction more and more difficult to resolve. Two people living together will go a long way.

You two should learn to grow up. Only by learning to face problems together and fight side by side can we achieve ultimate happiness. The main thing is that you have to figure out why they are in this situation.

I discussed this with the male ticket. Personally, I think his handling is not bad. Maybe you can refer to it.

He doesn't think it's a good thing to quarrel with his parents, either with himself or with his partner. If you can, try not to argue. After all, they are our parents, not anyone else.

If there is a disagreement, he thinks it is better to talk to his parents (both men and women tell their parents). We should be a bridge of communication with each other's parents, which is the role of lubrication.

After arguing face-to-face, you have to get along well. Too many arguments will always hurt your feelings, not to mention that you have robbed each other of their precious sons and daughters. So he said that this uncontrollable scene, he would pull me into the house first, and he would explain it to his parents.

Hopefully he doesn't mind coaxing his parents before coaxing me. Personally, I feel that this is a test of emotional intelligence, because if you don't do it well, there is a good chance that both parties will be offended, or get along worse. But I also feel that this is what I should do as a boyfriend, not two people arguing, hanging high, or watching the hilarious things in an attitude that is not convincing in any way.

When there is a conflict with the other party's parents, I will not clash with the other party's parents head-on, I will leave for a while, and then wait until the object comes back, let him help analyze, if it is my own mistake, then apologize, if it is the other party's parents are wrong, then invite the other party's parents to have a meal, even if the two people are reconciled, no matter what, there must be respect for the other party's parents and elders.

Then you need your other half to coordinate, because you may have backfired in the past, after all, the other party is an elder, and you can't quarrel with him, even if you are reasonable, it's not easy to say, but the other party is his child, if you explain and coordinate with his parents, it may improve your relationship.

Deal with it aggressively. Sit down and explain the matter, try to negotiate it, avoid it later, and make sure that it doesn't happen in the future.

First of all, I will communicate well with my other half, let him act as an intermediary to adjust the conflict with his parents, as a young person, there is no need to just worry about the other party's parents, because their thinking is backward than ours, and all aspects are more thoughtful than us, so it is very important to get along with each other.

If there is a conflict with the other party's parents, the most important thing is to look at the emotions of both parties, the contradictions, and whether they can communicate and solve it well, so that the relationship between the two parties may be more stable.

When you get married, it's best to try to be tolerant, and the other party's parents can't resolve the conflict for a long time, they will resent you, you can endure as much as possible, if you have any dissatisfaction, don't clash with them head-on, let the object communicate with the other party's parents, as long as you stand up for the object, you will definitely speak for yourself.

If you have a conflict with each other's parents after getting married, you can choose to move out and live alone, don't live with them, and at the same time take the initiative to give each other a little step, after all, it is your own parents.

If there is a conflict with the other party's parents, and the marriage is going to continue, then you must pull the other half, make an appointment with your parents, sit down and have a good talk, talk about the problem, and solve the contradiction, so as to solve the knots in your heart and allow you to coexist peacefully in the future.

If there is a conflict with the other party's parents, then I will not confront them head-on, the best way is to tell my spouse, let my spouse come forward to solve it, if the other party's attitude is particularly resolute, then the best way at this time is to separate from each other, live far away, and go to see each other once in a while, which will make the relationship better, not easy to conflict.

After getting married, you should take the initiative to apologize to them when you have a conflict with your parents, after all, the other party is also an elder, admit that you did something wrong before, so as to ease the relationship between you and make them not mind you.

Personally, it is normal to have some contradictions, but don't go to your heart, let alone expand the contradictions, and also reflect on your own problems, whether your own way of dealing with them, and there are inappropriate places in your speech and behavior. Lips and teeth are still fighting, not to mention the relationship between people, everyone is an adult, and they get along rationally.

If you have a conflict with his parents, then you can communicate with your partner and let your partner communicate with his parents. Be a mediator between you. Then you can get along with his parents.

I will try my best to compromise, because the other party's parents should regard him as their own parents, even if there is a conflict, I should tolerate a little bit, for the sake of the other half, I can't make him too embarrassed. If possible, try to avoid contact with them.

In fact, parents don't care too much about these things, the best way for a family to get along is to live separately, there will definitely be conflicts when they are together every day, and they will miss each other after living separately for a long time.

If you have a conflict with your wife's parents after you get married, you should first let your wife help say something good, and then buy a gift to apologize, after all, it is a family, and it is still necessary to ease the relationship.

Hello, no matter what, the other party is a parent, even if they are wrong, you can't be too strong, for the sake of the other party's face, for the sake of family harmony, you must uphold the principle of taking a step back and opening the sky.

If I have a conflict with my parents, as long as it doesn't involve my own principles, I believe I will make concessions, because they are the ones who gave birth to me after all, and I should be more tolerant of them.

I will look at this issue with respect. I believe that younger generations should first respect their elders so that they can have the opportunity to communicate with each other. I will also take the initiative to ask for the resolution of the conflict between the two people.

I will find my husband to deal with this problem, of course, if it is really my fault, I will also choose to apologize, but this matter will definitely bring estrangement to both parties.

At this time, after all, I am a junior, and he is still the parent of my object, I will definitely bow my head and admit my mistake and buy some gifts to go to his home to take the initiative to apologize to him, at this time, he will generally take a fancy to me as a junior, and he will forgive me.

First of all, let yourself calm down, think about whose problem it is, and let your husband help mediate the conflict in the middle, everyone in a family should pay.

If I have a conflict with my parents after I get married, I will choose to treat it coldly, and I will also ask my husband to reconcile it.

First of all, I will talk to the other person's parents, and secondly, I will solve the problem on the surface, and then propose a reasonable solution and reach a consensus.

In fact, after marriage, whether it is a boy or a girl, they are not very familiar with each other's parents, and sometimes there will be a conflict on something, which is very normal, at this time, you have to actively solve the problem and resolve the contradiction.

I think if it's a small conflict, then it's all the same as your own parents, isn't there no contradiction between you and your parents, the family should live in harmony and understand each other.

Summary. You can't argue loudly with your parents. When there is a conflict, we must find a way to solve the problem, and arguing with our parents will not only fail to solve the problem, but will also provoke each other, intensify the conflict, and affect family harmony. Even if you and your parents disagree, your voice should be as smooth as possible.

You can't argue loudly with your parents. When there is a conflict, you have to find a way to solve the problem, and arguing with your parents will not only not solve the problem, but will also provoke each other, make the spear skin laugh and shield intensify, and affect family harmony. Even if you and your parents disagree, your voice and tone should be as flat and soft as possible.

Be humble and listen to your parents. Fathers in the world wear out their mothers' hearts, but many times we can't understand how deep their love is. Parents are getting older day by day, we are growing up day by day, don't wait until the day when you are old to understand your parents' painstaking efforts.

Calm down your emotions and ease the atmosphere first. Don't tremble and quarrel with each other, beat and scold. You can talk about Bu Sun and listen to it properly, think of some happy things, etc.

When the mood is stable, think more about the problem from the perspective of your parents, think about the good times together, and be more considerate and tolerant of your parents. After all, it's not easy for parents.

1. Control your emotions, calm yourself down and apologize to your mother. 2. Find out the reason for the quarrel and prescribe the right medicine to resolve the conflict. 3. Usually communicate with your parents, communication is the fastest way to solve conflicts.

4. Learn to consider problems from the mother's perspective and experience her inner thoughts.

If there is a conflict with your parents, you should apologize to your parents, and have a good exchange with your parents, if you feel that there is a generation gap with your parents, you can seek common ground while reserving differences and do not quarrel, you should respect your parents and be filial to your parents.

I wish you a happy and happy life!

How should I deal with conflicts with my parents?

Hello! I'm glad to have your question about the question you asked, "What should I do if I have a conflict with my parents", and my opinion is this: First of all:

As a child, filial piety to parents is a natural thing, but life is not easy, it is inevitable that there will be times when there is a disagreement with parents, once there is a conflict with parents, the first thing we have to do is to calm down with both sides, and then, take the initiative to communicate with parents and resolve it peacefully. Secondly, no matter who is right or wrong, as a child, you should admit your mistake first, if you really can't say it, you can take a message to apologize, or write a small note to apologize, as long as the attitude is sincere, and the effect of apologizing in person is the same. Again:

Even if it is the parents who are at fault, after apologizing, it is better to find a suitable time to tap the parents on the side and ask them not to do what they did last time. Finally, I wish you a happy family and a harmonious family!