In college, what to do when love and study conflict?

I guess you're a girl, right?

I think in college, only girls will ignore anything for the sake of love.

Boys.,It's all dota.。。。 Or love and study are all soy sauce past...

You can say to that guy that we're going to study in the library together, okay, and I personally think it's romantic when you go on a date at the library.

While studying, face your lover.

And you can also go to the library to see if the other party is self-motivated.

Because you study hard, it means that he wants your future to be good.

How can love and study be in conflict.

The class is learning, and the two are tired of being together after class.

I don't believe in each other, I don't study, I get tired of being together every day.

Now it seems that you yourself are not properly timing and ordering.

A true lover will not let the other half leave aside and learn to be worthy of only himself.

They will encourage you to learn with you and work together for a happy future.

Love is a dandelion in the hand, and only by giving freedom can you grow with peace of mind. Therefore, grasp a degree of love in college, give yourself a space for love, and also give yourself personal space. Since the two are in love, enjoy this good time.

Don't care about morning and twilight, a little distance is still necessary. Take this elective course.

Just think about it, if you don't study hard, you won't have love when you're out, and you won't be affected by love because of love.

Let's focus on academics, and put love aside for the time being.

Many people feel that they should study when they are in school, so they can't fall in love. So do you think there is a conflict between falling in love and studying? Let's discuss it today.

First, we don't think there is a conflict between falling in love and studying. In the process of going to school, many people often meet academic tyrants who study well, but also fall in love at the same time, and they will not affect their learning status at all when they fall in love, so we feel that falling in love and studying are not conflicting. Falling in love is a real idea that everyone expresses during the hormonal burst of puberty, so this idea is very correct.

We can't suppress our feelings, we can be happier when we're in a relationship, and if we can find a very good student to fall in love with, then both of us will improve. We can see that there are many top students who fall in love together when they are students, they have good academic performance, and they also have a good relationship, and both of them can have a good relationship after being admitted to college, so we are very envious of this state. So let's not be afraid to fall in love, I think it's very normal to be in love.

Therefore, we feel that falling in love and studying do not conflict.

Second, we feel that there is no contradiction between falling in love and studying. Many people feel that they will affect their studies after falling in love, so they will suppress their feelings, they feel that they can't use feelings to cover up their learning, we feel that this kind of thinking is more one-sided, many people need to express their feelings seriously when they are young, but we don't let love affect their learning, so that they can get a good relationship, and they can also have good academic performance, we should not be afraid to fall in love in the stage of adolescence, and we should not be afraid to fall in love, because in this way, it is the suppression of our own feelings, and our whole person will be more sad, if there are people who don't fall in love, then they will also be very sad. Therefore, we feel that falling in love and studying are not contradictory.

There is a conflict between falling in love and studying. It is best to focus on learning first, and then pursue your love after you have achieved academic success, and you must not make any distinction between the importance and the cart, or even put the cart before the horse.

I think that falling in love and studying are not in conflict, and they can be both; As long as we balance love and study, we can get spiritual satisfaction and at the same time let our studies improve steadily.

Love can be talked about later, but if the opportunity to study is missed, it will be difficult to have another chance. And for emotional people, they may be more inclined to fall in love, they feel afraid that they will miss the person they like, so they should cherish the present and cherish the person in front of them. Or for sensible people.

If a good relationship and study will not conflict, and two people will progress and grow together; I feel that it varies from person to person, and if it were me, a proper relationship would have strengthened my academic performance.

Dealing with love conflicts:

1. As a man, the man should be more tolerant of the woman.

2. Although the man must have rational thinking, he must also have emotional thinking, not everything can be handled with rational thinking, at least not with love.

3. Care more about the woman, when there is a conflict, you must find out the reason, and then solve the problem. Contradictions should not be left alone.

4. Correctly deal with the problems of friends of the opposite sex around you and give your girlfriend enough security.

Love is a matter of two people, when your love conflicts, whether it is a man or a woman, we must pay attention to the contradictions in love, in order to solve the contradictions, we must first understand the reasons for the contradictions in love. After collecting and sorting, it is believed that the reasons for the occurrence of love conflicts are none other than the following.

The first type: the woman or the man belongs to a more aggressive personality, often close to the opposite sex friends around them, and then causes the woman or the man to be jealous, for this kind of people, they often do not understand why the other party is jealous. They think it's just friendship between friends, and they think that the other person should understand them.

Second, the values of women and men are different. For example, when buying a thing, the man has the man's idea, and the woman has the woman's idea, and then there is a difference in thought, and she is angry and anxious for a while, and then they quarrel.

This happens more often in modern relationships.

The third way: the woman or the man always wants to make the other person what he wants. Impose your own ideas on the other person and let the other person live according to their own ideas. This has caused constant friction between the two sides.

Fourth: After being in love for a long time, the man and the woman begin to have aesthetic fatigue, and then begin to be less attentive to each other, which will cause mutual suspicion of the other party and worry about whether the other party no longer loves me. Over time, love conflicts erupted.

First of all, look at what the problem is, generally there is a contradiction should be found to solve, deal with it calmly, and must not be cold and violent or always quarrel. The two sides should be more tolerant, understand each other, and refrain from escalating the problem. If you can handle it well, deal with it well, and if you can't handle it, calm down, and then find a way after you calm down.

Solve it slowly, and consider all aspects.

College students are in love to deal with the learning is to promote learning, in love everything must have a degree, such as when in love do not fall behind, in love should also urge and encourage the other party to learn, the encouragement between lovers will make lovers more motivated to learn.

We say that falling in love during college is actually a normal physiological and psychological need of people, so it is actually a normal development, there is no such thing as early love, in fact, falling in love if you deal with it well will promote learning.

Then we also see that many lovers in college are both sides of the common progress, that is, a win-win process, so in this process you have to have a moderation of everything, so when we are in love, you may abandon everything else, feel that as long as the lover is the best, it is enough to have a lover, but after all, love has to go through a process, it will be quickly extinguished, just like we smoke, at the beginning you use the fire to light, after lighting the cigarette when you smoke hard, it will light up.

But when you don't smoke for a long time, the smoke is in a state of half-inhalation and half-extinguishing, in fact, this is the process of our love, that is, when we go from love to a more calm and rational process, love is a very short time, that is, the rational time will be longer, then when you are in love, I feel that I only have you in my eyes, and you only have me in your eyes, this is a process, in fact, it is not very long, very short, more time we are in a rational state.

At this time, we have to look at our life background more rationally, such as what I am more important in college, the main learning skills, not only to learn knowledge, but also to learn a lot of life skills, and then how I invest in feelings, and then how to get this feeling from others, this ability to improve is actually to promote learning, that is, we not only learn books in college, but also learn these things, but also learn how to be disciplined, how to adapt to society, How to deal with different people, in fact, they do not clash with each other, in fact, they can play a role in promoting each other, but it is very important that we pay attention to the degree, that is, any period.

In fact, the grasp of this degree is very important, and this is also a point that we college students need to learn, like many lovers in this process, they have to help each other. I think we can see from the TV series "Why Sheng Xiaomo" that in fact, their love state in college did not affect anyone's studies, and it also had a promoting effect on a boy.

Because the boy thinks that I want to support each other in the future, then what kind of ability I must have, I don't want to rely on the family, I want to provide a good material condition for the other party, then at this time it is actually more motivated for him to study, so in my opinion, I think love and study are actually not in conflict, and they promote each other after dealing with it.

Then there is only a trade-off.

It's good to follow your heart, you feel that learning is more worth learning, you feel that love is more worth falling in love, don't worry about making some wrong decisions at some stage of your life, people's lives are made up of countless regrets, you will regret not falling in love because you have studied well, and you will regret not studying well because you have fallen in love.

If college students fall in love and affect their studies, then they should stop falling in love and study with peace of mind.

1. Correctly handle the relationship between love and study.

The college period is the best period of human development, and in this period it is also a period when students should work hard to learn professional knowledge, and college students should focus on their studies, because learning is the main purpose of college students, and they must distinguish which is more important. But don't think that love is a stumbling block to your career, if you handle it well, love can also play a catalytic role in your career.

2. Be rational at all times in the process of falling in love. Although college life is relatively relaxed, there is more free time, and it also provides convenience for college students to make friends, so during this period, you must seize the opportunity to understand how to love in the right way, and at the same time, you must learn to refuse when necessary, so that you can become more mature, but this does not mean that you have to do something out of the ordinary in the process of love, many girls give each other the first time in their lives, I don't think this is a wise choice, there are still a lot of scumbags in the reality of jujube limb grinding, always remember this sentence, "Online dating is risky, investment needs to be cautious".

3. Have the courage to take responsibility and face reality. In a relationship, both parties should understand each other, respect each other, and take the initiative to take responsibility when encountering problems, rather than escaping the difficulties of the relationship, the more you try to escape the problems in the relationship, it will lead to the accumulation of more and more problems, and finally the relationship will break down, so it is necessary to solve it in time, if the other party does not take the initiative, you must dare to take responsibility, and under your initiative, the other party will also be infected by you.

It's important to manage the relationship between love and study in college, and here are some suggestions:

1.Set priorities: Make your studies a priority. Make sure your academic performance and academic progress are not distracted by romantic relationships. Make a sound study plan, set goals and work towards achieving them. Make sure you have enough time and energy to focus on your studies.

Create a clear schedule that balances time for studying, class activities, social activities, and relationships. Allocate your time wisely and avoid over-committing to one aspect and ignoring the other.

3.Communication and reconciliation: It is important to have an open and honest communication with your partner. Talk about each other's academic pressures and goals, and how they can support each other together. Understand and respect each other's time and needs, and resolve potential conflicts through communication.

4.Find common ground: Look for some common interests or activities to be able to better integrate into each other's lives and save time. For example, participating in study groups or sports activities together to support and motivate each other.

5.Learn to work in a team: Studying with classmates can improve efficiency and reduce stress. Join a study group or find a study partner to supervise and help each other to make progress together.

6.Self-management: Maintaining good time management and self-discipline is a key factor in successfully handling romantic and academic relationships. Develop good study habits and avoid procrastination and wasting time.

7.Seek support: If you're feeling stressed or unable to balance love and study, don't be afraid to ask for help. Schools often have counsellors or counselling services who can provide support and advice.

The most important thing is to find a balance between love and study, and to maintain your physical and mental health. Remember, mutual support and understanding are the foundation for a healthy relationship and successful academics.