My husband caught me on my most vulnerable side and quarreled with me

It only proves that your husband has no empathy.

The so-called empathy is to be able to think more from the other person's point of view, not only to sympathize with the other person, but also to understand and help more.

If "quarreling is like this, how to relieve anger", then none of you should think about having a good life in the future, because that will hurt the other person's heart and make him feel disappointed in you. Once you feel disappointed, you will think in your heart: cut through the mess quickly, and forget about divorce.

Or: broken cans, make do.

It's okay to choose divorce, but once you choose to break the can, coupled with the daily hot and cold wars, big and small quarrels between the two people, the damage will be greater and greater.

A person with low emotional intelligence does not understand the reasoning of the world and the psychology of others, and he is desperate to drill the horns of the bull ......

I hope you can develop more emotional intelligence. Cultivating emotional intelligence is good for everyone in this world. To be a person with a high IQ, it is better to be a person with a high emotional intelligence.

You better communicate more, ask him why he always treats you like this, if he still doesn't think so, or even worsens, then redeem me and say it bluntly, your marriage is a tragedy.

Communication is the best way to understand, exchange each other's feelings, let him understand your distress and sorrow. Regardless of empathy, a person with a little compassion should be able to change his attitude.

Also, if your husband has nothing to do with you, then you'd better take him to see a psychiatrist.

Quarrels are like this, how to relieve anger and how to come.

Such a man should be the kind of person who is cautious, and he must be treated well.

Everyone's vulnerability is different.

But the taste of no money is the hardest.

Things can only be resolved through discussion. Quarrels are just a way to vent grievances, and they will only hurt feelings, not solve problems. If you have troubles, why should you hurt your beloved?!

It would be nice to sit down and communicate more.

The day of the quarrel is good, and it can't be overnight.

Why is it bad to get into this habit all the time you quarrel especially in the first few years of your marriage.

The main reason may be that there is less communication between the two of you, in fact, many things will be untied as long as they are said, and the premise of communication is that we have to have a listening heart, we have to chat with friends, not with emotions, if with emotions, the more you talk, the more angry you are, and in the end it can only lead to another quarrel.

It's not easy for the two to come together! Quarrels are not necessarily a bad thing, the key is communication, because of what, if it is because of one thing always quarrels or because of many things. It's just that you didn't negotiate well and didn't settle the matter, and the two of you must be honest and convinced of each other.

There is nothing that cannot be solved, it just depends on whether you are willing or not, and it has something to do with your personality.

Is it because the control is too strict? Sometimes, men need space alone.

Quarreling is a way for husband and wife to live together, of course, it depends on what the reason, if it is due to a matter of principle, divorce.

Quarrels really hurt feelings, what are the problems to calm down and talk about it, I believe that all problems can be solved!

Go back to your parents' house for a while. Let both sides calm down.

When two people get along, someone must make concessions, and neither wants to admit defeat, which can only intensify the contradictions.

Quarrels hurt feelings, it's best to talk calmly, even if you don't shake your head and leave after a quarrel, no matter how angry you are, you can't say anything that hurts the other person's feelings.

It's also a way of life.

Why can't you have self-confidence?

Everyone has strengths.

You have it too. Don't lose faith.

I feel vulnerable when a man is disappointed and unmotivated.

It's also very unproductive.

Failure to trust others can destroy a person's will.

No house, no car, no career, no love.

Self-confidence is nothing but an emotion, and it's okay after the emotion, it's not a big deal.

The most painful time for me was to do something for my girlfriend, I did it very dedicatedly, and everything I did was just for her good, but she didn't accept it, but in turn found fault with me, which was not good and that was not good, it was very painful.

The most painful thing for a man is not being able to let others know about his suffering.

When you are alone, you will drink and you will be sad. Cry when excited.

I'm a man, and I feel as if I only drink, eat, smoke, sing, and sometimes cry silently alone.

Men are strong on the surface, but they are actually very fragile on the inside.

It's all people, it's no different, they need to understand, they need love, they need help, they need to be sincere, they all have a fleshy heart!

Men love each other's words very much. But the other person falls in love with someone else. And then fell out of love. That's vulnerability.

The most painful thing for a man is not being able to let others know about his suffering.

It's so classic!!

I can't say it here, the old man has a place to vent.

Sister, you are wrong, can you still be fooled by these little tricks in this era? A man crying in front of you proves that he is useless, he is incompetent, a real man, no matter when he will cry in front of his beloved woman, he will bear any difficulties or sadness by himself, and will not let you know, I am afraid that you will also be sad, this is a good man.

Don't believe the tears, although they may be true! However, in today's society, men are too good at cheating, and women are too easily deceived! I'm a boy! So, it's very pertinent to tell you, don't believe in tears easily!

There are several possibilities: one is that he is incompetent, he needs someone to help him, he needs someone to take care of him, he is unwilling to take responsibility, it can be said that he has no ability to take on big things.

One is pure**. Hehe, such men are extremely clever, and they take advantage of human compassion, especially female compassion. He will carry out different attacks according to the different characteristics of the women he faces.

The third is that he doesn't want to live anymore, he is tired of living, he wants to die, confess before he dies, and summarize his life.

I can tell you that no matter what it is, he definitely doesn't love you, because to love someone is to make the other person happy, and to keep the pain to himself.

First of all, if it's your own fault, just admit it, men have machismo.

If he's considerate enough, he knows he's wrong, and he'll apologize to you.

It can be seen that when you post like this, you must care about your feelings. I wish you all happiness.

As long as your husband doesn't abuse you, there will always be one who has to bow his head.

Hello! There are few husbands and wives who do not quarrel, quarrels are to vent the dissatisfaction in their hearts, but after the quarrel, it will also enhance the feelings between husband and wife, and deepen the understanding of each other, which is not a good thing, compared to those who are angry and do not vent to each other, people who are depressed in their hearts, easy to get depressed, angry and angry, not easy to get sick, and the anger is sprinkled away, people will be much easier, not angry, not vomit unhappy, of course, when quarrelling, it is inevitable that the language will hurt the other party, then it is necessary to make up for it, whose fault it is, Whoever should apologize, husband and wife quarrel without holding grudges, bedside quarrels, bedside and, you don't have to worry, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and after a while, the unpleasantness of the quarrel just now will disappear. It's going to be reconciled again.

In front of the girls I like, I will show my vulnerable side.

This kind of vulnerability is not the need for sympathy from the other party, but the vulnerability that is shown when the other party is empowered to be harmed. It's the kind of fragility when you want to protect each other but feel very helpless.

A man sometimes behaves like a child in front of a woman ...

Maybe it's because I'm not deep in the world, but I don't have any weakness in my decision... #

Yes, there is - I cry when I see something touching. And more sensitive than anyone else ...

I feel bai

I don't think so. Everyone wants to show their best side to the people they like, and women are extremely needed.

Isn't it counterproductive for those who want to feel safe to show weakness? But not necessarily, he shows you the truest side of humanity to show that he treats you as his own. The person you're asking is someone you like, right? You have hope.

I feel like keeping my personality and being the most authentic.

Learn...I'm a bit of a coward...Ay. ``

It's better to cheer yourself up now. Start anew...Learn from the new...

Yes, it will make him feel that you are important.

First of all, it's very boring, your husband doesn't have any grace at all. But it is also possible that you have a conflict, you have gone too far, or that you are more at fault. Judge for yourself:

1. If your fault is relatively small or almost the same, and the next time you quarrel, you must resolutely not take the initiative to reconcile, and don't wash his clothes. You are a woman, and men should let you. Second, if you have more mistakes every time, then you can handle it yourself.

Some people are like this, they will not take the initiative to reconcile even if they die during the Cold War, even if their opponent is a woman. But this is like Fan Ranran, although he is morally wrong, but the law can't help him. It's a little sad that if he doesn't accommodate you much when you don't have a fight, either he has a very strong personality, or you are too weak, or he doesn't love you very much.

Okay, the situation is listed for you. Let's see.

What you're doing isn't a long-term solution! Your husband has lost his affection for you and will move further and further away from your ......And what you did was very wrong, one was not to take the initiative to apologize to your husband, I hope you will be more tolerant, more understanding, and more confused.

You give in not because you are weak, but because you love him more than he loves you. Cherish what you have. Bless you all!

I feel like it is.

How can a man always let his wife bow her head and pinch it first.

I guess your sister and brother are in love haha.

Be careful, it'll get bad.

It depends on what the situation is, if it is related to emotional problems, then you can't give in, if it's life, economic, interpersonal relationships, you must give advice and guidance, don't put your point of view strongly, life is still working interpersonal == to be humble to men, but not blindly humble, if you do something wrong, you must take the initiative to admit it, because every man is more or less machismo, so most things still have to be humble 70-80%, women should be flexible.

Marriage is for two people to run together, and one person's power is limited.

When you blindly give in and accommodate, one day you will get bored.

And will spoil him.

Maybe you love him a lot, maybe you're not a good fit at all.

It's not good for such a man, it's too ungraceful, and I personally don't think he's a good man.

Your husband's heart is a little small, and it's not a way to keep him, and you yourself are wronged.