How about the relationship is light, do I not love her like this 20

If it's you who likes her and not what you fantasize about in your head, then be sure to stick to it.

You take her kindness to you for granted, so you find out you can't live without her when you lose. This kind of problem is very common

Maybe it's aesthetic fatigue, or it's getting used to it, if it's not for falling in love with other people, it's okay to go through this period in the past.

There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it. Feelings can't be forced.

Maybe you just got along with each other at the beginning, or maybe friends added a little bit of love. Not true love; This is my guess that is not necessarily accurate.

Two people really love each other, it is a kind of collision between souls and souls, the distance of time and space, can only make two people different, but they are always concerned about each other; The distance of time and space will deepen the closeness of the two even more;

If you propose to break up after a separation, then such a man does not really love you, why bother falling in love with someone who does not love you? In the future, everything will be tolerated, everything will be obedient, but you will not be cared for and cared for, do you think this is what you want?

Sometimes the emotional things experienced are indeed unforgettable and unforgettable; But people have to learn to give up and learn to refrain from it; Dare to love and hate, can afford to let go, such a life is meaningful enough; If you are always unsettled, it is at least a kind of torture for yourself, a kind of irresponsibility, and you will not talk about the people who care about and love you. yes.

In life, it is so difficult that there is nothing else to think about except feelings, can you do it? Life is short, are you willing to spend your time and energy always on these broken things? I think you must know: there is something to do, and you don't want to be like this all the time.

Okay, that's it, what to do, make more friends, have nothing to do shopping, and even have time to ask a friend or family out to have fun; In his spare time, he surfs the Internet, reads books, and even works out, combining work and rest; Over time, you will forget about him.

In the world, there are many people who love you, those who are suitable for you, and those who are better than him, like the stars in the sky; As long as you're confident enough!

Wishing you happiness!

The reason why the relationship is often weak is that one party pays more, and the other party pays too little, the more party cherishes it, and the less party does not cherish it much. If we could all love each other, I think, it can't be like this, after all, I have experienced a lot of ups and downs in love. It's not that I don't love it, but I'm too tired.

You also said that it is light, not that you don't love, but that love is retreating, and you need the two of you to start again and find the feeling of love!

If the relationship fades, it is also love, because you don't know if the relationship will still be hot.

A relationship from meeting and knowing each other to being extremely hot, this is the process of gradually merging the lives of two people. But all the vigorous will eventually return to flat, but this love is still love, and the weakened feelings also exist, but sometimes some people don't want to admit it.

Every fading relationship has been vigorous. Every time I talk about love, I think of my first love. That relationship can be said to be the most vigorous and tragic love in my life, and it has had a huge impact on my whole life.

Having love that makes me dig out my heart and lungs, and crying when I lose it. But even after the loss, I still don't want to admit that I have no love. It's just that this love becomes weaker and weaker as the two people go away.

Time never gives anyone a fluke, and in the blink of an eye, many years have passed, and our feelings have long faded to the point that they are not noticeable. But no one can deny that there was once a vigorous love.

Feelings are always hard to fathom, and no one knows if a love that has faded will rekindle again. I talk about my past feelings, and of course those relationships don't hurt me anymore, because I know we're no longer possible. But there are always many couples in life who have not yet separated, and the two of them just feel that their relationship is a little weak, life is a little boring, and they are on the way to break up, but they are still a little reluctant.

Of course, love has always been there at this moment, even if the relationship is very weak, but as long as two people are willing to save this relationship, they can still exist happily.

We don't know if the person we don't love now is really no longer loved, and we can't be sure if the future will be better after losing this person. Everything is like a gamble, and maybe after the loss, the love will become stronger.

At that time, all that will be left to us is guilt and remorse.

As long as a love has existed, it will always exist until you forget it completely. Even if the relationship is very weak, as long as the two of them meet again, who can be sure that everything will not come back?

Love is always incomprehensible, and we can only follow our hearts to move forward.

There is still love when the relationship is weakened, as long as we all continue to maintain this relationship and invest a lot of energy and time, the relationship will slowly get better.

Love! Plain is true, life is not film and television works, there are not so many dramatic conflicts, and all love is mostly dull.

The fading of the relationship does not mean that there is no love in each other's hearts, but it may also be that the love has become family affection.

If the relationship is weak, then it is definitely not love, because it means that two people have problems and their feelings for each other have begun to change, and if they are not solved in time, it is likely that the two people will part ways.

I think that the affection is still love, but this kind of love has been transformed into a form and has become family affection.

The process of emotional run-in is the most intense stage, and the sweet in this process can be very sweet, and the bitter can be very bitter.

I don't know what stage your relationship is in, if you have only been together for a few months, no matter how open your view of love and marriage is, I do not recommend you to live together.

At this time, your relationship may not be able to go through this stage, and you think that living together is to let two people have more time to be together and more time to be sweet. However, true cohabitation is nothing more than exposing all the shortcomings in front of the other person, and all the living habits go through a stage of integration.

When you first started your relationship, you see each other's eyes are bright, and you spend a lot of time dressing up when you go out on a date every day, and the image of the other party in your heart is not very real. There is really no need to let cohabitation speed up the process of the relationship, just enjoy the current period of love. Choosing to live together during the love period may shatter all the expectations in your heart.

If your relationship is already stable, and two people want to take their relationship further by living together, this is understandable. At this time, they already have a certain understanding of each other, and the decisions they make are no longer carried away by a wave of love. You may feel that the other person is the person you want and can't wait to get involved in the other person's life as soon as possible.

Whatever the purpose, you should make a decision based on the whole thing.

My boyfriend and I chose to live together after five months together, and I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to be with each other every day.

From the beginning of the stir-fry of how many chili peppers to put in the quarrel, now he can accompany me to eat extra spicy, I can also accompany him to eat slightly spicy.

However, today I realized that I could not accept the practice of cohabitation, and my perception did not keep up with my behavior. I think I've done something wrong, so I'm tormented from time to time.

Living together made me love him more and more, but my mental burden also became heavier.

If you want to live with your boyfriend, you have to figure it out for yourself.

Can you afford to take the risk of cohabitation? Is this what you want for yourself?

If you don't have any doubts, just do whatever you want.

What should I do if my feelings fade? That's proof to the age.

Learn to be proactive. It is normal for two people to be together for a long time, and the relationship has weakened, so at this time, there must be someone who takes the initiative to give some care, so that the other party feels warm and makes the other party feel better.

Let's just say that! Even when you are in constant contact, your feelings for him will not be very strong, you are very conflicted now, if your relationship is not very good, break up! If you have been dating for a long time, my advice is not to give up, you should cherish it!

Feelings are going to be like this.

Doesn't he contact you?

Feelings need to be cultivated.

Love over time, understand?

You don't love him enough.

If you don't see him for a few days, you'll miss him a lot.

Plain is true, it depends on how you define this love, will love easily fade, if it will, then it should be defined as like, and it is a short-term like.

Not loving him comes from the heart of existence subconsciously. Love him because he has an extra companion, and someone to be happy with you feels love, but in fact, you don't love him.

You don't love him at all, otherwise you wouldn't have been feeling it for a few days

After a long time, it will fade when you understand it, and there will always be an injured one of the two people who work hard to operate.

Actually, it's your own empathy.

Don't know why? Can you make it clear?

Two people who have been together for a long time are like left and right hands, although they see each other every day, they don't treat each other, and even fight, and over time, their feelings will fade, they will drift apart, and even eventually part ways. Nowadays, with the acceleration of the pace of work and life, two people are often very tired after returning home, often after a hasty meal, they do their own things, you follow the drama to play games, completely ignore the existence of the other party, it is strange that there is no problem after a long time. In fact, it is completely possible to avoid such a situation, when she is chasing dramas, she might as well put down the game and chase with her, and when he plays games and relaxes, she might as well play with him, even if she sits next to him and accompanies him, and is familiar with each other's hobbies, so that you can have a common topic and not have nothing to say.

Even saying a love word to him before going to bed and a kiss before going out in the morning can keep the relationship from fading. ‍‍

I must first make it clear that in the process of getting along in marriage, two people must have problems and need everyone to work together and change. After that, find a day to sit down with your lover and talk, you must make it clear what your lover says, how to say, or what dissatisfaction you have in the process, and the parties must hold back and remember. After all, those are all minor problems, or misunderstandings, or indifference derived from anger, and they are not yet at the stage of cold violence.

As long as you understand his dissatisfaction and try to change yourself, obey him, satisfy him, or negotiate with him about the future attitude and try to do it, do well, he will no longer be cold to you in the future. ‍‍

In my opinion, more understanding is the best, everyone will encounter difficulties and setbacks, there are unhappy times, when the other party is sad and sad, learn to understand each other, do not be indifferent, to comfort in time, give each other more care, try to understand the situation, more enlightenment, coax each other to be happy, let the other party feel your love. You know, a hug of yours may give each other a lot of encouragement and courage, two people should understand each other, support each other, respect each other, how can the relationship fade. ‍‍

Carefully maintain feelings, not willing to be bland, and appropriately create freshness and mystery. If you are tired of being together for a long time, you will get tired of it, and make a new self every day, so that the other party can always see a new side of you, never see through you, be attracted to you, and be fascinated by you. In this way, you will always maintain your gender charm and personality charm, improve your attractiveness, and stay together for a long time without being too boring.

It is best to always maintain the attitude when you are in love, so that the other party feels that their pursuit of you is far from successful and over, and you will chase a lifetime on the road of love. ‍‍

Don't let go of the people who have been with you because of the novelty, if you want the two to get back together. It will take the two of you to be together for a long time, and the two of you need to sit down and communicate well. And it's better to give each other some freshness appropriately.

In addition, when there is a problem between the two sides, do not complain in vain, but understand and tolerate each other.

You can talk and communicate, calm and smiling, I don't like to have a straight face before I speak, put on a quarrelsome look, if this is the case I will not say a word, I will talk well I will push the heart to the heart of the sincere communication, as long as I quarrel I will only go directly away, will not ignore, because my nature is to like to be quiet and not quarrel, very disgusted and disgusted by quarrels.

If two people have been together for a long time, it will be easy to have a period of emotional burnout, two people are unhappy living together, it is better to find your feelings again, travel together, share each other's black history, try to make each other laugh, I feel good. ‍‍

I'm an introvert and a bit of a cold person in the eyes of others. The way I maintain a relationship is to say good night and good morning to my friends on QQ every day, and I will share fun things with each other, even if sometimes they don't have time to reply. Maybe they are all emotional people, so everyone thinks that someone is worried about it as a warm thing, and they don't feel annoyed.