How did your ex influence you?

My ex taught me how to tolerate and respect each other, because I didn't know much about it before, and then she asked me to buy it, which is very thorough. It was he who taught me how to care for a person, and in the process of getting along with two people, I must learn to understand each other, only in this way can the relationship last longer.

The more impact is probably that sometimes you need to pay some by yourself, because in the past, your girlfriend may have paid unilaterally and felt too tired, so she chose to break up. When looking for a boyfriend again, you must be cautious and choose someone who pays for yourself, rather than for yourself, so that you don't feel tired in your later life.

I can't help but wonder if he has a new person he likes, he has a new person he trusts, so jealous, so uncomfortable, very sad every day, cranky all day long.

The ex is a past that cannot be mentioned for everyone, if you can, please don't miss that failed relationship too much, let yourself withdraw as soon as possible, and naturally there will be a different life.

To experience a good relationship, unless you are particularly lucky, you must be prepared for psychological growth, because many people, the first love is ignorant and naïve, and they often become the one who feels hurt.

For example, as the relationship develops, your expectations of the relationship may be inconsistent, which can also become contradictory**. Some people feel that their other half is perfect at first, and they also want to have a beautiful relationship in their fantasy, but after experiencing many conflicts and even breaking up.

It is reasonable that his expectations for the next relationship will be much lower. Sometimes when you meet an ex who is not good to you, you can also make yourself more vigilant, knowing that no matter what, you should not be too centered on your own feelings, and sometimes reasonable doubts will make you more able to grasp happiness.

The fall of a relationship, for both parties, is a sting that goes deep into the bone marrow. The past is eroding their hearts all the time.

Walking past the places we have stayed together, we will stop to remember. Seeing the token of the love I once loved, my thoughts were like cotton threads, entangled with myself. These former beauties have become their own weaknesses, which cannot be touched, and once touched, tears burst instantly.

A good ex will shape your view of love. It will make you feel that love is what it is when you were with him. You will try to find his shadow in the love that follows.

And in a wounded relationship, you repair your broken heart countless times, wipe away your tears and want to start over, and want to avoid being hurt again in future love.

In fact, everyone will have their own criteria in their hearts, but this criterion is not fixed and will change chemically, and the factor that depends on the change is nothing more than your emotional expression of that person.

You are willing, and you want to be able to get close to each other, feel the enthusiasm of the other party, and feel the warmth and touch brought by the other party. That's the best criterion for choosing a mate.

The biggest hurt that an ex can bring: making a person overdraw too much enthusiasm and sincerity, so that even if there is an idea of starting over, there is an impotent heart. After despair, crush you and exhaust your best.

After an unforgettable relationship, they know deep down that they like to face pain alone. Don't dare to take the next step, don't dare to like others easily.

<> the damage that your ex brings is not that he doesn't love you, but that he destroys your basic trust in people and your beautiful yearning for love. When you are with the present, don't forget about the ex, but the ex has caused you harm. It prevents you from being open to people, from being completely honest.

You wonder if he will do these things like his predecessor did. You don't dare to love someone, you don't dare to give that kind of sincerity and loyalty. The ex ruined the security of a lifetime, and this is the greatest harm.

The biggest impact is that the core of love is not borderline. It's bad to be unconfident in yourself for a long time, to feel like you're not good enough, to do anything badly. The positive effect is that when I meet the right person later, I will cherish, be satisfied, and be grateful, and I will get better and better in every way, so I am happy in my life now.

Thank you. Thank you for the pain he brought me, and thank you for allowing me to grow up and become a better person and have the good life I have today.

There are probably a lot of people like me who are eager to find a partner with whom they share their lives, but for various reasons, they are increasingly afraid of falling in love. However, even though I've always had this trait and I'm frustrated, I also have another trait that I never despair when I'm down. I have a crisis of trust and other love issues that are hard to deal with.

But I still have most of the time to practice.

I think there's going to be some influence, really, sometimes you put them together and make comparisons, no matter what it is, in short, when you get along with your ex, you see some of the influences that come into your life, it affects your mood and your habits, and the longer you spend together, the deeper the impact becomes, and it's a terrible feeling.

My ex will influence my current criteria for choosing a mate. As the saying goes, eat a trench and grow a wisdom, and the ex will definitely have a great impact on the criteria for choosing a mate.

The biggest reason why women can't meet good men is their own view of choosing a mate. Many women think that as long as that person is good to me, I don't need him to be rich, but what you don't know is that at first a man is good to you, it can only mean that you are attractive to him, and it is normal for a man to be good to you when he asks for a woman the most.

If it is not good to you at the beginning, and it will not catch you, it is also because his good will slowly fade with the passage of time, if you want to be his so-called good to you, then you will really lose, lose a lot, and the woman who doesn't want anything will have a miserable life in the end, and the other party may not cherish and treat you well because you are not disgusted and sensible, but think that you have the ability to rely on him.

When choosing a woman, she must consider comprehensively: the other party's original family, three views, character, economic ability and other issues. Girls must not feel that they are very ordinary, as long as you have a positive outlook, education, filial piety to parents, love life, maintain self-confidence and self-discipline, and quietly strive to make yourself excellent, you are qualified to choose, to be autonomous, so that you will not compromise on yourself.

In the process of getting along, if you find that the three views do not agree, don't give up, you will only delay yourself, and finally you will find that due to the problem of the three views, the invisible gap between you will get bigger and bigger, until one day the two sides will be out of control because of the dissatisfaction accumulated by each different view, and the trivial things in life will become more and more brotherly.

Most exes have an impact on themselves, both in their relationship and in their lives.

Everyone is different, although I still can't forget my ex, but I just can't forget it.

The impact is great, especially if the ex is the first love or the time of the relationship, and the process of getting along with the other party is good, you will definitely learn a lot of things, and there are a lot of good memories.

The ex has little influence on himself, and the hail is not the relationship between the ex and himself in real life, so it will not have any impact in this case

My predecessor still has a big influence on me, because sometimes I feel like my income is not the same as before, and I feel stronger.

It should have a certain influence, but it can't be said to have a great impact, it will affect the mood and the perception of feelings.