How did your ex influence you?

Probably let me know my shortcomings, I can correct it after the breakup, although it has become a thing of the past, but really, thank him.

Maybe everyone will meet that person in their life, who will make you laugh a lot, but also make you sad, only you know that it is because you care, otherwise you don't care about the slightest bit of how they are, right?

Recently, the movie "The Predecessor Three" was staged, and the box office was very high, even surpassing some movies that set box office records, but why? Probably, it's because most people are experiencing it, and most people feel the same way.

When I was young, I always felt that my ex would be the one who guarded me all my life, although I said that I was not very old now, but I really felt that I was very mature, mature enough to accept someone else, but there was no way, I still had to grow, I had to go through this life, and the things that my predecessor taught me also had a rule: cherish the current person, don't die. In fact, we can sometimes be very willful, sometimes even not grasp the proportion, resulting in some small frictions, but it doesn't matter, if you can, the word ex I hope not to appear in your life forever, the word first love, the first love of this person has been with you until the end of your life.

If my ex had the biggest influence on me, it probably taught me how to love someone.

In love, we are all insecure children, vexatious again and again, just trying to make the other person coax us and prove how important we are. But we are all hard-mouthed children, obviously in love with each other, there is an estrangement and we want to keep each other, but when it comes to our mouths, it becomes our breakup. In the previous relationship, I rarely said my love, and let the other party guess my mind again and again, so it caused a break in the relationship over time.

After the breakup, I thought a lot and reflected on myself. I finally understood that feelings are between two people, and it is unequal and unreasonable for a person to blindly give. Thankfully, I have learned how to love someone.

As said in the now popular Predecessor 3, my mission is to accompany, and her mission is to make me grow. Growth doesn't necessarily gain something, but it does have something to lose. Life is a train to the grave, some people get on the train, some people get off, it is good to be able to accompany you to the end, but those who get off the train halfway, we should also thank them, because everyone appears in life, there must be a meaning of his existence.

My ex made me realize that it is better to find someone I like than to find someone who loves me, because you are very happy in the process of love, and you will not feel bored because the other party sticks to you.

Like most girls, I look forward to love, but when love comes, I feel at a loss, my ex is a person who likes to stick to me, he is very warm, but it is not my thing.

He made me realize that touching is not love, nor can it replace love, such feelings should not be together from the beginning, which is unfair to another person. <>

Because two people will have friction in the time of their relationship. I remember when the two of us were just together, even if the shoelaces were scattered, he would carefully squat down and tie my shoelaces, the better he was, the more burdensome it made my heart feel as if I had done something sorry for him, and later found out that the real reason was that I didn't like him.

The better he treats me, the more guilty he feels. Then began to alienate and began to exclude his good. His love makes me feel so tired, and when I can't have my own time to do what I want to do, he will restrain me, he will stick to me, and he will make me feel at a loss with him.

It turns out that not loving someone will only make each other more miserable. He made me understand that if you don't love, don't promise to start. Love is a business that requires two people.

I've heard the saying that there are always people in your life who come up and leave, and they show up to help you grow. The biggest influence my ex had on me was that he taught me how to grow. To put it mildly, it is to change me from an innocent young boy to the more mature man who knows how to think about and take care of others.

I will have a better relationship with my trusted girlfriend. Most of the time I will coax her, get used to her, let her, and do whatever she wants. When she wasn't happy, I tried to make her happy.

But I didn't know before, I didn't know that I didn't understand people, tolerate people, and even coax girls. But in many arguments with my ex, and in the final breakup stage, she told me that sometimes she just wanted me to coax her. I'm going to like my girlfriend more now.

It was my ex who made me realize clearly and deeply that if I only relied on the amount of love I had for her, we would not be able to make it to the end, or if I was too naïve to think that as long as I truly loved each other, nothing could be solved. Only now do I understand that it is impossible to have no ability, and in layman's terms, it is impossible to have no money. So I will study and work hard, work hard to earn money to support my family, and give her the happiest home.

Ex is a thing of the past, and now I love my girlfriend.

My predecessor had a lot of influence on me, both good and bad. Let's talk about some good influences first, he let me know how to fall in love, how to express my thoughts to the opposite sex. In the past, I was actually quite ignorant about these things, and I didn't quite understand why I wanted to fall in love, and I didn't quite understand what was good about falling in love.

But he let me know the joy of falling in love, and also made me understand that everyone can't lack love. Let's talk about the bad influence, the reason we broke up was because he split his legs. I couldn't accept such a boy, but I still liked such a boy, and I was sad for a long time, thinking how could I be so stupid.

I didn't notice these things earlier, and if I had noticed it earlier, maybe I wouldn't have loved him so much. During the breakup, I even hated love, felt that there was no long-term happiness in love, and felt that lovers were dispensable and would leave you at any time. All in all, he had a lot of influence on me, but it's all gone.

My ex is an important 'life coach' on my life path, he has more or less influenced my current personality, my ex is Pisces, the scumbag of all my boyfriends, and it is also the first time in my life that I have fallen behind, but it can make me remember a love in my life.

My ex's favorite thing to do was to go through my phone and come for an impromptu check once a week, which made me very helpless and very unhappy, and I mentioned it to him many times but he didn't change. Because at that time, I was studying abroad and I was not familiar with the place, and I was entangled by a man, and the man even found the school to pester me, which made me very embarrassed, at this time he stepped forward and drove the man away, although he didn't have a good impression of him at the time, but I felt that he could protect me, I think if I wasn't familiar with a person abroad, I might not be with him. Later, a lot of things happened that proved that we were not suitable, but at that time, I connected gratitude and love, which led to my meeting of a scumbag, and until now I feel that falling in love is a terrible thing.

I don't want to talk about other scum things about him, but he has changed my view of love, and I will no longer be able to get together with a person easily, and his personality has become suspicious and cautious, and he even has a slight paranoia of victimization.

Because the original ex was a very person who liked to read, so when I was with him, I gradually developed the habit of reading, at that time, the best communication between the two people was in the library, each person found a book they liked, sat silently and looked at the book for a while, and then looked at his handsome face, I felt that at that time I wanted to freeze here for the rest of my life, but life is cruel, the two people have a deep relationship, and with the discovery that there are actually a lot of shortcomings, So at this time, they slowly separated, and in the end, the most left for themselves was the scar, although at the beginning of the breakup, I still felt a little heartbreaking, but now I feel that it has become light.

In fact, life is like this, that is, we have experienced so many things, so we let us slowly mature, and then find a person who has experienced the same thing after maturity, so that two people can live a good life, so never regret or be afraid of what kind of feelings they have talked about, because every relationship is a rich stroke of life for you, that is, these passers-by in life, let you understand the true meaning of life. That is, they have taught you what responsibility is and what is commitment?

In fact, my ex was not mature, or even as mature as me, his family situation was quite complicated, his parents divorced, and he lived with his grandmother. He didn't have an impact on my three views, but he told me that when I got married in the future, I must see people clearly before getting married, and I can't have a complicated family relationship like theirs. That's really the biggest impact he's left on me.

It is said that two really suitable people are together to improve each other, and that is the right couple, but we are only left with regression. His academic performance is not very good, he is basically the bottom in school, my grades are better, and he is also very high in school, and the teachers and classmates around him say that they don't let me get close to him, and I still don't listen to being with him. It was really after we were together that my grades dropped so badly, I really didn't realize it at the time.

waited until after the breakup to think about it carefully, and it was really inappropriate for him. <>

The influence of my ex on me is that I will never look for someone like him in the future, we have different views, and our attitudes towards life are different. The environment in which they live is different. If you are looking for a partner, you must find someone who is right and has similar views, so that you will not be very tired.

My ex was a boy who loved to travel. He was a poor student who saved up for a month. He would take it to the beach to play and see the scenery by the sea.

He will send a lot of seaside **, and the scenery in his space is beautiful. So I also fell in love with traveling, and I also fell in love with taking trains. I also fell in love with meeting different people in strange places.

My ex was still a very emotional person. He had a particularly good friend, although he didn't go to school together. But the two of them are in constant contact, and he will also call his friends **.

He would tell his friends to take care of themselves and take care of themselves. So I also learned to cherish the people around me and learn to care for the people around me.

My ex was still a gentle, gentle man. He said that the breakup was also very gentle, and he said goodbye very gently. He left gently, and he disappeared gently.

I think maybe I wasn't good enough to lose such a gentle boy, so I also learned to be a gentle person. Learn to be gentle with everyone around me, to live a gentle life.

The ex is a past that cannot be mentioned for everyone, if you can, please don't miss that failed relationship too much, let yourself withdraw as soon as possible, and naturally there will be a different life.

To experience a good relationship, unless you are particularly lucky, you must be prepared for psychological growth, because many people, the first love is ignorant and naïve, and they often become the one who feels hurt.

For example, as the relationship develops, your expectations of the relationship may be inconsistent, which can also become contradictory**. Some people feel that their other half is perfect at first, and they also want to have a beautiful relationship in their fantasy, but after experiencing many conflicts and even breaking up.

It is reasonable that his expectations for the next relationship will be much lower. Sometimes when you meet an ex who is not good to you, you can also make yourself more vigilant, knowing that no matter what, you should not be too centered on your own feelings, and sometimes reasonable doubts will make you more able to grasp happiness.

The fall of a relationship, for both parties, is a sting that goes deep into the bone marrow. The past is eroding their hearts all the time.

Walking past the places we have stayed together, we will stop to remember. Seeing the token of the love I once loved, my thoughts were like cotton threads, entangled with myself. These former beauties have become their own weaknesses, which cannot be touched, and once touched, tears burst instantly.

A good ex will shape your view of love. It will make you feel that love is what it is when you were with him. You will try to find his shadow in the love that follows.

And in a wounded relationship, you repair your broken heart countless times, wipe away your tears and want to start over, and want to avoid being hurt again in future love.

In fact, everyone will have their own criteria in their hearts, but this criterion is not fixed and will change chemically, and the factor that depends on the change is nothing more than your emotional expression of that person.

You are willing, and you want to be able to get close to each other, feel the enthusiasm of the other party, and feel the warmth and touch brought by the other party. That's the best criterion for choosing a mate.