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Anonymous users2024-02-10Unacceptable.
Probably because of the difference in thinking between the two generations. When they reach a certain age, parents will be anxious about the problem of their children starting a family, and as children, we often feel that it is too early, not in a hurry, and can take it slowly. So some anxious parents began to ask for their children's marriage, usually all kinds of pimping, hoping that you will definitely marry tomorrow the day after tomorrow.
It's like clearing inventory at the end of the year, and it's almost a sign of selling at a loss at a jumping price.
This is a scene from the blind date corner in Shanghai, and it can be seen that the conditions of the children who are conscripted for marriage are quite good. Height 175, bachelor's degree from Peking University; Bachelor's and Master's Degrees; The real estate company has a house and a car ......It can be seen from this that there are some high-quality or extremely high-quality singles, which are the standard for ** bachelors, but in the eyes of their parents, they are older leftover men and women.
Personally, I can't stand being sold by my parents as a clearance goods that need to be sold urgently, so shouting everywhere for me to go on a blind date, making me feel that I can't get married. I have made it very clear to my parents that if I have the financial ability to support myself and support them in the future, I may never get married for the rest of my life, and marriage is not a necessity for me, so they should not rush me, and at the same time have to be mentally prepared.
Besides, parents go on blind dates for their children and let my parents go on blind dates for me, should I marry or do they marry? After all, life is lived by oneself, and the person who lives the life has to be chosen by oneself, which is a major event in a lifetime. The object of marriage should be a love match, can't you say that this era is over, and give me a whole arranged marriage, counting on me to cultivate a relationship with him after marriage?
Impossible.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09My parents were like this, of course, not for me, but for my younger brother, and I still couldn't understand their thoughts, and I was deeply skeptical.
My brother and I are the same age, but my brother didn't go to school after graduating from high school, and I'm still in college, maybe it's because of this, my family doesn't worry about me at all, but every day I arrange all kinds of blind dates for my brother. The most I see at home every day are all kinds of matchmakers......
My brother is now twenty years old, and he is only nineteen years old, and I can't count the blind dates my parents arranged for him, because his first blind date was when he was 17 years old! I really can't imagine what it was like for two teenage kids to go on a blind date, when I was still in high school and my brother ......went on a blind date
I asked my parents why, and they said that because there are too few girls now, the probability of boys beating singles is too high, but in my opinion, marriage is a major marriage event that can't solve the problem at all with blind dates, blind dates just let him know one more girl, mainly in himself.
But my younger brother hasn't been in a relationship since he was a child, and my sister and I have been in love early. I don't know if my brother will be in love or not like he will be in love. If not, then he needs to accumulate experience little by little.
But if he didn't want to, then what my parents were doing was actually persecuting him.
Although I communicated with my parents, it didn't seem to play a big role, because my brother's blind date was still not broken, and my parents' anxiety made me think that my brother was very poor, so I had to sell it quickly, but my girlfriends all agreed that my brother was a good man with perfect looks and a warm man, so he just didn't meet the right person, I hope my parents don't be too anxious, this kind of thing is in a hurry.
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