How to deal with a husband who has a low income but spends more than 10,000 yuan a month playing gam

Updated on Game 2024-05-14
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, arguing is not a solution to the problem, it may just be the trigger for any of your future angers.

    Secondly, as a man, I am also working now, but I am not married and have children, I am also a person who likes to play games, playing games, after all, I am a boy, it is not a bad thing to have a pastime, and it is not too much to charge money into the game, but if you are an adult man, especially if you are married and have children, it is too much to do this kind of thing in the case of your own financial situation, but the reasons for this phenomenon are all wrong!

    First of all, he didn't realize himself correctly, he didn't have a correct goal and values, you may be kind every time, it doesn't matter if you think about playing, after the two of you are so catalyzed, he doesn't realize his mistakes, and you don't help him correct his mistakes.

    In fact, there are many ways to solve it, you can try to communicate with each other first, maybe which of your words can move him and he changes his values, the specific content of your best not to revolve around raising children, paying off the mortgage These two things have been said, so that it will not have any effect on him except for putting pressure on him, it is recommended that you can try to help each other between the two of you to correct the problem together, which will give people a very relaxed chat environment, and naturally two people will make changes after understanding each other's ideas.

    If a friendly and serious conversation doesn't change him, I think you can try to get him to try his life after losing you, such as going back to his parents or a good friend's house, which is extreme and not very recommended, but if it works, it must be very effective.

    Finally, I wish you a happy life, two people get married together, which means that you should help each other through this life, correct each other's shortcomings and correct them, so that your children's education is also very good.

    If you have any questions to ask me, I am an enthusiastic netizen of the legend.

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since you choose to get married, you must have the courage to face life.

    Since you have chosen him, you must have a heart that contains all his faults and bad habits.

    If you can't change him, then you can only leave him.

    It's as simple as that.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course not.

    Games can really bring us a lot of fun, and they can also relieve a lot of stress in our lives. If you just treat the game as a kind of idle entertainment, of course, there is nothing wrong with it, and some games can also develop our intelligence, everyone is very immersed in the quality of the game's graphics and effectiveness, and some games are really well designed, so that everyone can't stop, and you have to play a few games every day when you stay up late, otherwise you will feel uncomfortable.

    Some low-end games don't need to eat RMB, but some high-end games are like eating RMB, and they need to be constantly charged to play. Personally, I don't think it's really necessary to play such a game anymore, because even if you play at a high level, it's useless, it won't help you in real life, and you have to spend a lot of money to keep playing. A person's consumption level is proportional to the money he earns, and if he exceeds his ability because of his own pleasures, it is a manifestation of naïve thinking.

    In fact, such a person is really immature, and a woman with him will also feel that the road ahead is full of fog, and men should continue to work hard for this family. Such an irresponsible man is actually a woman, because he has sunk into the game and can't extricate himself. He doesn't give you money to spend, but is willing to spend it on game equipment, which shows his attitude towards you.

    For us, games are really just the spice of life, and the focus of our lives should still be on work and family. A man who already has his own family should take responsibility for himself and not let his woman live a poor life with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Such a husband suggests not to ask for it, you can't be responsible for the family, and there is Internet addiction, if you really want it, it will drag you down for a lifetime.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, because as a husband, he has to bear all the responsibilities of the family, including the support of financial ability, and he has lost the basic responsibility of being a husband!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a husband is really annoying. It stands to reason that such a husband should not be wanted. But considering that people are not perfect and will make mistakes, it is necessary to give people a chance.

    If only he was occasionally this time ghostly. Then he can be forgiven, money is not a problem, as long as the person is still there. If he is such a character and will do it again in the future, then such a person really can't be asked again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    can't want it, for an adult to play games all day and burn money, then he will be a wasted person, and get a divorce as soon as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is a psychological problem, you can be enlightened, or you don't love your family, or you have poor self-control, you can also enlighten, method: the salary card can be broken, communicate with him, let him realize the seriousness of the problem, and take a two-pronged approach.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Will such a husband stay for the New Year without divorce? I don't know how to live a hard life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't do it, such a husband has no sense of responsibility.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes, this is his personal hobby, and you can persuade him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as the husband walks alone for a day and dies without repentance, what is there to hesitate about? Parting ways as soon as possible.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Such a person really can't be asked if he doesn't repent.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What do you want him to do, wouldn't it be better for you to live by yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't lose it, do you still keep it for the National Day?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This situation is not good, my husband is still playing games and has lost more than 100,000 yuan, do you think it is interesting to keep such a husband? He doesn't care about the life and death of the family, and he doesn't care about the expenses he needs to spend in life, he just blindly plays games, he himself is having fun, but the burden on the family has become heavier, and it's useless to keep such a husband, leave him and choose again.

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