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To be honest, I'm afraid of such a problem, but I sympathize with you, say something of my own thoughts, love may be very important to you, but it's not all of yours, life is just a few decades, you're wasting your life, calm down and think about whether you really care about him, there are a lot of details, if you really have fate or worthy of your love, try again and try your best to cherish, if you feel very entangled, let it go, there is a loss, there is a gain, a brave breakup is good for you and him, in short, you must calm down, Don't let yourself fall into this entangled complex, don't do anything stupid, face life confidently and you will be rewarded with what you deserve, believe in yourself, and don't let others see jokes. Hope it helps. Good luck.
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Our experiences are still very similar, he likes you, but he doesn't necessarily love you, to be honest, if you want to continue this relationship, it's not easy, what your parents don't approve of, it's difficult if he doesn't insist on you, even if you walk together now, there will be a lot of changes. I also know that it is very uncomfortable to let go, but the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is much happier to find someone who loves you than to find someone you love. If he comes to you again, you can ask him directly, record it with his mobile phone, and give you a promise, if you can't even do this, is it necessary to contact.
Go with the flow.
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It's hard to say, and I can't talk nonsense. Anything is possible. If you feel it is necessary, you can cut ties with him.
Let's talk to your parents and friends.
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I think he's just venting that you don't want to put together a bunch of things.
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You can go to the carefree psychological network to find a health nurse to do a physical examination for psychological problems. If you really have a problem, then consult it!
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Obviously, it's just a matter of releasing the fire before leaving.
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Divide it up and choose your own life.
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Don't pin your happiness on short-lived things.
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Your own personality and temper should be the kind of old stove dust and irritable.
When you encounter something that doesn't go your way, you get angry, and most of the things you can control at work or school, but you can't control it when you get home, right?
Actually, you like your dog very much, if he doesn't do what you ask, you will beat him up, and then he will feel sorry for him and be very good to him, right?
I think this is a psychological disease, do you also have a little low self-esteem, a little pessimistic?
I used to be like this, I feel quite similar to you, but I'm much better now, I usually cheer myself up more, listen more to **, cultivate more hobbies, contact with others more, think more about some interesting things in meditation, forget the unhappy things quickly, I can only defend myself and fight with myself, self-adjustment.
I later gave away my puppy because I felt that I was not good enough for it at the time, and I would not consider raising a small animal until I had completely improved my temper, or I would not keep it at all, because if I raised it, I would be responsible for it, and I would have to take care of it. After all, the puppy is not a human being, it has no thoughts, and if it is your son in the future, the daughter will hate you.
Before you want to hit it, think about its cute place, think about its poor place, and you shouldn't hit it. Give it a try. Hope it helps.
Rhapsody + dual personality.
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Heh, I feel that way once in a while. I always feel like I'm wearing a mask, and I'm a little depressed inside, and I feel that they won't understand even if I say it. I like to put myself in the position of a spectator to see the people and things around me. >>>More
I suggest you choose to jump off a building.
The fact that you are now able to correctly realize that you were only at that time and had a discord with your parents in adolescence is enough to prove that you are still very mentally healthy, because at least you correctly recognize the real cause of this problem, and they are now saying that you are also very brave enough to deny their claims to prove that your thoughts are still healthy, don't pay attention to what they say about you, and don't go out every day, right? There are many people who don't go out every day, so are they too? There is no basis, right, you know the real reason why you don't want to go out, right, this is good, I have an idea, I don't know if you are willing to try, you can go out early every day, and then go to some places where you know few acquaintances, try to find those people you don't know and try to talk to them, or you can find something to do, try to contact some people you don't know, get along with them according to your ideas, even if you occasionally meet acquaintances, don't care what they think, As long as you slowly recognize more people from the people you don't know, the situation around you will quietly change, only let more people who don't know you understand you, know that you are really a very good person, acquaintances will slowly know and then change their views and ideas about you, after a long time parents will no longer think so, but the premise is that you must be able to persist for a period of time, if you are willing to do, to try to change the status quo, I believe you can succeed, support you!
First of all, you must know that it is not good for yourself to continue like this, and there will be no results! Try to let go and accept a new life, a new love...The best way to forget the previous love is to start a new love! I wish you a speedy escape and get true love!