Ask a psychologist or an adult preferably post 80s to answer for me

You just don't know where you're supposed to go, watching anime, crazy entertainment and so on are all venting your excess energy because subconsciously you think that studying is useless. The typical trait of anime characters is that they know what they should do and what they shouldn't do. The protagonist NB is also NB at this point.

Under their influence, you will also want to be an NB person, but you don't know what you should do. Learn? Looking for a job?

Do a business? So it's very likely that you'll be even crazier to watch anime, read books, and watch angry youths. It's not a big deal, just figure it out.

I can't help you with anything in terms of learning, depending on your ability, it's definitely fine. When I was in high school, I had a math teacher for 2 years, and I only scored 35 points in math in the college entrance examination. Mixed up with the General Assembly.

Studying while messing around. In view of the many interests, I also made a lot of friends in various training courses. What I want to say is that the students of prestigious universities are indeed stronger than us, because they are better than us in terms of system, and they have more care from gov So it is still necessary to go to a good university Haha, otherwise, just like me, I have nothing to do and go to Peking University to listen to lectures, which is quite interesting.

Other than that.. 30 That's the old man... When you go to college, you'll understand that being a man 30 is just the beginning... 40 is the best, 50 is still handsome, 60... It varies from person to person.

Finally, let me reassure you, it's not your problem, it's the education system. Confining people when they are mature in their minds, haha. Hit the big 2, the big 3

After understanding what self-yy and real messing around, look back, it's just a small stone on the road of life, haha.

Finally, I'm a post-80s generation, and 87's One Piece is my favorite manga Let's take a look at it if you have time.

Hello, I'm a senior in high school....It's the same thing as you...

I studied very well when I was in junior high school....It is exempt from the examination to enter a key high school....

I was a freshman in high school and thought....Now it's time to have fun...And then....All night....Internet access....Playing with mobile phones in class....In the end, he even skipped class....

I can see that junior high school and high school are really different....And junior high school is history for me...

Then came the sophomore year of high school....

The people in our class who were caught surfing the Internet were demoted to the regular class....I wasn't caught....And I was going to study hard during the summer vacation...

From the second year of high school....I'll study hard....It was really hard at first...I can't control myself at all....I don't want to learn....But I tried to force myself to learn....

I was under a lot of pressure....Our old and new classes want to kick a few of us out of the key class who don't study well...When I first started school....I'm really hanging up....

But I persevered! I persevered until the first exam in my sophomore year of high school....The results flew up....It shows that I have this strength...

I don't have too much pressure, and it's easy to study...

Now my results are playing normally....No problem with one copy....I'm trying to get to the point....Shanxi's score is so high....

But I have regrets....I regret that I didn't study hard in my first year of high school....But I don't regret it....I woke up in a hurry...(My classmates who were kicked out...)It's all depraved now).

We are third in our class....It is estimated that I can go to Tsinghua University....

It's my friend....He's still surfing the Internet...But it's all on weekends....Relax and relax....Learning is still the most important thing....

AhhIt's a bit late....Originally, I used my mobile phone to check the information...I saw a friend who was connected to the same disease....I've been typing for so long....

Study hard....From now on!

I am a post-80s generation and should be qualified to come to your question. If your grades are so good, it means that you are a smart child, and you will not be left behind too much in terms of learning even if you invest less time. I also studied when I was in junior high school and high school, and now I look back and think about it, in fact, I think it's a bit of a pity, although so, I still don't agree with your idea of 'crazy play', you can play, but if you can find your own interests in the process of playing, and go deeper, it is also appreciated.

To sum up, when the society evaluates a person's ability, the proportion of academic performance is getting smaller and smaller, and the key is to see whether you are good at a certain aspect and whether you have made achievements. Learning still can't be abandoned. In addition to middle and high school, it is not only a stage of acquiring knowledge, but also the most basic knowledge, and it is also a stage of personality development.

That's all there is to it.

When I was in the first year of high school, my grades were in the top five of the whole grade, and then I played a game called Red Moon, and my grades plummeted, and I passed two years in a mess, and I accidentally found out that I was going to be useless if I continued to play in my third year of high school, and I began to study hard to catch up with the course, but I found that it was too late.

As a result, I went to a very poor university for junior college, and after graduating, I still don't have a stable and decent job.

Normal people will choose to play, but in order to focus on learning in the future, you should play as much as you like after college.

Brother, I advise you to choose to study hard, it's still too late for you to turn back now, don't wait until later to buy regret medicine, and don't let your parents' blood and sweat be in vain.

Knowledge is useful.

Being young is capital, but it is not used to squander and play, young is not good at studying and working hard, and when you are old, you have to run for life, which is the greatest sorrow. For many people, not being able to enjoy themselves when they are young is overdrawing their future happiness.

I think you probably have something to avoid and you don't want to learn more and more! In fact, studying while not hindering the progress of your youth. Middle school is a very clear world (and now I envy it), and reading is a hard embellishment, very evocative.

When I finished the college entrance examination and knew my results, I began to feel a little unacceptable. If you feel like you're going to regret continuing with your current life, start changing now.

Quality education should be book knowledge + hands-on ability. Don't completely dismiss the current cramming education.

Rebellious Psychology Take a good look at your future.

How do you want to live in this world, or what is your future, don't be associated with material, the future is how you think you should live, the current concept will affect your life, you take a good look at it!

15-18 You're a post-90s generation, I'm 91 years old.

According to what you say, you have a good foundation, and you must be very smart I don't think you're wrong, and you don't need to worry about it at all...

It's just that there is a degree of everything, it's okay to play, but the premise is that you have to complete your homework, maybe this only takes you very little time, maybe with your cleverness, as long as you work hard in class, it's OK, and you may have more fun doing this.

focus on whatever you are doing！

Learning is the foundation, and only those who spend a lot of time laying a solid foundation have the greatest chance of success! Sharpen the knife and cut firewood!

You can't have both

Q&A hall -- now the young people of the post-80s generation are all about 35 years old, they are the backbone of various units, and they are all working hard, all industries, serving electricity--communications-machinery, etc.

Friend, these two questions are very broad.

Reading it out of the manuscript will result in a relatively general and consistent answer.

In the real world, people with different thoughts and experiences and environments will naturally be different.

A little sad... It's a little lonely......A little rebellious ......A little reckless, casual, self-conscious, a little assertive, but, very kind, considerate, fantastic, dreams are very sweet......

It's better to have someone to accommodate, but sometimes there are small quarrels but in the end there are people to please, so don't worry.

I'm also a post-80s generation, so let's talk about my personal feelings.

The first is anxiety, in the face of low income and high prices, there is a lot of pressure, and I feel that my ideal life is far away, so I am often very anxious;

The second is panic, the reason is still the above, the rapid development of the information society, we will feel that we can't keep up with the pace of others all the time, such as employment competition, such as material life is highly advocated but we do not have enough economic foundation, such as the world is becoming more and more indifferent, feeling that there is more and more generation gap with others, etc.;

There is also depression, from school to the society, all relatives, friends, classmates, etc., most of the days are all over the world, all problems have to be solved by themselves, and most of the problems that cannot be solved are either forced to give up or are wronged, so many grievances and contradictions have no one to communicate with, and they can only bear it themselves;

There is also irritability, every day in addition to life is work, work and work, the monotony of two points and one line and then encounter a holiday that can be omitted at any time, naturally there is not enough time and place to release all kinds of pressure;

Most of them are this kind of problems, the solution is nothing more than the mentality you face, what kind of life state do you want, then what kind of mentality to live, it is a long process to make things come true, how can you expect to be able to practice it psychologically?

What should be said has been said on the first and third floors, but the first floor is more comprehensive, and we who are born in the 80s are indeed the same!