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In fact, what is the concept of happiness, it is estimated that few people can express it! Who can be happy all the time? Who can have only great happiness?
So: you're right! Some details and small things in life can be seen whether you are happy or not!!
I support this practical happiness!! I wish you greater happiness from it!!
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Sanmao has a famous saying: If the heart has no place to live, it will be wandering.
In the final analysis, life's ups and downs, joys and sorrows, are just an experience. And what is really important to each of us is the mood and mentality of this trip.
Don't dwell on things that you can't do; Don't force those who don't have a chance.
As long as you work hard, take it seriously, and cherish it, you don't need to regret it.
Those who are at ease, pampered and humiliated, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; Go and stay unintentionally, looking at the clouds in the sky.
There are things to do and things to be done in life. You can't hide from what you should come, and you can't stop what you should go.
Don't overdo what you want, don't let yourself live too tired, and go with the flow, which is the best attitude towards things.
In this life, it is like a journey with only a one-way ticket.
Along the way, there are beautiful scenery and bumpy mud; There are hardships and hardships, and there are also happiness and comfort; There is the joy of knowing each other, and there is also the sorrow of strangeness at the end of the world.
Fate comes and goes, gathers and disperses, and goes all the way hungry and stupid, all the way with fate, believing that everything has its own arrangement.
In the days to come, listen to the wind, watch the rain when there is rain, and complete your life with a casual mentality.
There is no obstacle in the heart, where there are no flowers, where there is no peace of mind. Fate is free, peace of mind is home. People live for a lifetime, the most important thing is the mentality.
Look at the mountain and quiet, watch the sea and have a wide heart, ** ten thousand taels are not as good as peace of mind; Contentment and happiness are the most comfortable.
Good night and good dreams
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It is often said that those who are content are always happy. The question is how many people can be content.
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The so-called happiness is actually a conceptual thing, a psychological feeling, and a true experience of the absolute self. The happiness of man lies in the happiness of the heart. People who lament their misfortune are not because the god of happiness has never patronized them, but because the space of their hearts is filled with too many desires, and they cannot feel a happiness for what they have.
It is often the case that people turn a blind eye to their own happiness and think that the happiness of others is shining brightly, but they never think that the happiness of others may not be suitable for them. Different people have different ways of living, and different people have different happiness.
Happiness is actually very simple, and it is not far away, it is just blinking by your side, as long as you use your heart to experience it, you will feel how easy it is for your happiness to come. When you are sleepy, you have a warm bed, when you are thirsty, you have a cup of hot tea, when you are hungry, you have a white steamed bun, and when you are cold, you have a warm clothes, these small things in life are actually the source of happiness, as long as you feel it with your heart, happiness is by your side. A little less greed, a little more contentment, a little less desire, a little more indifference in life, and happiness must be around you.
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Happiness is actually very simple, learn to be content, and you will be happy.
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Happiness is just a feeling, only if you feel happy, that's happiness!
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Let us use simple wisdom to see clearly the weakness of human feelings. True happiness is our cheerfulness in life, let ourselves maintain a good attitude every day, no matter whether it is sunny or rainy, and no matter what we are experiencing, learn to dry every wet and cold with a sunny heart. Let every complexity become a cloud of the past, and let the past go with the wind.
Make it very simple for us to cherish the contentment of the moment, sort out the mood of each day, and life will be carefully selected and interesting, and it will show the ultimate beauty.
If happiness comes from plainness and simplicity, I think it is a kind of mental adjustment after everyone has a material life and a spiritual life. It is also a kind of transcendent mentality that people can calmly cope with the gains and losses of interests, the success or failure of work, and the level of life index in their daily complex and changeable work and life. If this kind of mindset can be maintained and cultivated for a long time, it will undoubtedly bring a lot of joy and happiness to the material and spiritual aspects of life.
It is not easy to be content, and few people can do it. With all due respect, the so-called contentment is actually a state of mind in which people who have been defeated in the social struggle of intrigue and death, and who also have enough basic living wealth of the gods, and most of them are tired and afraid of the pain and hardship of the struggle and use the idiom of "contentment and happiness" to adjust their emotions. But the heart is not really content, and endless desires are human nature.
To be content is indeed a step backwards in wisdom.
Everyone's life will go through ups and downs, happiness is the conditioning agent in life, as the so-called bitterness and happiness go hand in hand, and bitterness is happiness. As long as you can look at everything in life calmly, you will have happiness. Happiness is the result of everyone's rational pursuit and hard work, and through hard work, having a satisfying job, having competitive children, and having a healthy body, etc., these can be said to be happy enough.
But we must know how to cherish, know how to be grateful, understand contentment, care for ourselves, and at the same time learn to believe in ourselves, appreciate ourselves, and don't always envy others, so that we can continue to derive happiness and have long-term happiness.
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It's very much agreed. Ordinary and plain is true, the room is just fun, and health is happiness. Contentment is always happy, in fact, no matter what the state quarrels, the simpler the lighter the heart, the lighter the heart, the happier the sail.
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I agree with it, because whether we can be happy or not depends on the standards in our hearts, and sometimes the higher the status, the greater the responsibility.
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I agree, in fact, I don't think there is any need to make too much money, as long as you are happy, there is no need to put too much pressure on yourself.
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For individuals, happiness refers to the psychological emotions that arise from the joy of a person's self-worth being satisfied and the desire to maintain the status quo. Happiness is divided into four dimensions: satisfaction, happiness, commitment, and meaning.
The happiness I pursue is not the happiness of tung liquid that can be satisfied with a bite, but the son who took the initiative to think, "Dad, you taste it first, you haven't eaten this before." "Happiness may be reward.
The happiness I pursue is not to greet my parents politely, but to live better, so as to reduce the burden on my parents, so that they can worry less and bear the burden of the family for their children. Let go of the burden on their shoulders, have time to enjoy their sunset, and have less worry and hard work in their hearts, so that they can truly relax and have the energy to sit back and enjoy their own life. Happiness is not expected in return.
The happiness I seek in the Hidden Cave is definitely not a moment of enjoyment like ripples after a dragonfly touches the water. As the so-called pleasure of a moment, it is better to be quiet for a moment. Everyone in the world has desires, but people's desires are infinitely close, whether it is power or money, they may be very happy when they get it, but then we will inevitably have loss, because we have lost, because compared with others, it may only be a fraction at all, resulting in endless complaints and dissatisfaction, these are the burdens of life, which will only make people's lives shorter.
And when you have a calm heart to perceive everything you have, to experience everything you have, your parents, children, and what you really love, these are the fundamentals of you, and grasp the life you have now. The pleasure of a moment is sensual, and the tranquility of a moment is spiritual. Happiness is no comparison, contentment and happiness.
Happiness belongs to those who have cried. They have explored, in order to survive ambitiously, resolutely went to the sea to open shops, pull goods, stay overnight in the barren mountains and mountains, there is no turning back in life, pain, endure a pass, difficult, carry a carry. Happiness is to live in the present and cherish what you have now.
Happiness is to love and be loved. When crying bitterly, a warm hug will melt the shackles of all hearts. Happiness is unguarded affection, friendship and love.
Happiness has different support points. Luckily: auspicious and free from evil.
The stove wheel withered --- Eastern Han Dynasty Xu Shen's "Sayings". It is fortunate to be divided. - Little Erya.
New Tang Dynasty Book Li Wei and other praises": "To the Xianzong world, then welcome the Buddha's bones in Fengxiang, the inner palace. Han Yu pointed out its shortcomings, the emperor was angry, and the more he was dying, the more he was dying, and the constitution was also a long year old.
Happiness and woe, nothing else! Qing Wei Yuan's "Silent Treatment": "If you are not happy, there is no disaster; If you don't suffer, you won't lose.
Different eras, different classes, different occupations, different ages, and different meanings and pursuits of happiness are different.
Satisfied with the present, contented people are always happy; Chase your dreams, happiness is on the way.
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As the saying goes: "contentment is always happy", there is no happiness in life, but there is happiness in contentment. Only those who know how to be content can have peace of mind, less sorrow in life, and the purest happiness in life.
I have heard the story of a farmer who worked hard in the fields every day, and although his life was not rich, he lived a very fast life. One day, the farmer stumbled upon a priceless golden arhat in the field, and his family and friends were very happy about it, but the farmer was unhappy, and he was worried all day long, and his face was sad.
The Golden Arhat can bring you a lot of wealth, what else are you not satisfied with? Others couldn't help but ask. Farmer said:
As the saying goes, there are eighteen Arhats, and now I have only found one Arhat, where are the seventeen? "Those who are content will always be happy, and those who are greedy and not content will be burdened by life and live in pain forever.
Mr. Yang Bee once said: "Maintaining a contented and happy attitude is the best way to refine the mind and purify the soul." It can turn patience into enjoyment, and it is the victory of the spirit over the material."
It is true that life is not bitter, but what is bitter is to ask too much; People's hearts are not tired, but tired is never enough. Those who are content are greedy and happy; Those who are not satisfied will be worried.
Huang Guo once hoped in the variety show "Longing for Life" that he and the guests should be "content and happy". He admitted that his current life can study, he can do what he likes, and he is very content with his wife and daughter by his side. We always look up to and envy the luck of others, in fact, more often than not, what you have is what others pray; What you get is what others can't do.
Knowing how to be content and cherishing everything you have is true happiness.
Happiness is never a pile of external conditions, but comes from one's own heart, the more contented people are, the more happy they will feel. As the saying goes, "a thousand leaders in a good field can only eat three meals a day, and ten thousand rooms in a wide building only sleep three feet in trouble". Many times, it's not that you don't have enough, it's that you don't have enough.
Happiness comes from the contentment of the soul; Happiness comes from the spiritual province! There is no unhappiness in life, only discontentment. Life, may you and I find happiness in the ordinary, and be happy in contentment!
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In the morning, I saw a sentence to the effect that since there is no perfect happiness in this life, it is better to pursue the happiness of contentment, which is quite touching.
As you grow older and your experience increases, you will find that the world is full of warmth, and the warmth and coldness of the world are no match for the richness and contentment of the heart. I used to be very resentful, complaining a lot of people, as life continued to "teach" me, I found that there are some things that we can't change, the more you resist, the more he will intensify. On the contrary, if you "compromise" appropriately and accept this emotion and some reality, it will have a different result.
And the only thing that can change in the process is my own heart (although I still complain now, but it will be a little better than before).
Sometimes when I am wronged, I feel that the whole world is sorry for me, I feel that the whole world is against me, and when I am frustrated, I feel that I can't do it, and over time, I lose the ability to be happy. I feel that others are happy, nothing happens, they are better off than themselves, and they are happier than themselves. As everyone knows, we are deceived by some superficial phenomena.
A high-powered leader, not to mention the huge work pressure he endures all year round, because of the epidemic situation of his children studying abroad, he has been worried about whether his children can return to China as scheduled, and when he returns to China, he encounters the epidemic in the city where his children work, and he can't meet each other, and there is a serious shortage of materials, and he often doesn't sleep in the early morning and can't grab vegetables. It seems that a professor-level senior engineer who is breezy and calm, has been divorced, the former partner is still in the same unit, the second marriage partner is also a second marriage, and he has to be a stepmother, and he has to be tested physically and mentally; An important department leader needs to endure the domestic violence of the supernumerary driver's husband at home and have to endure it; Highly educated and background, strong economic foundation, strong marriage, as an only child, the mother was born for the epidemic, all kinds of family trivial things can not be accompanied, can not take care of the lonely ......
However, outsiders seem to be doing well, without worries or sorrows, and if it weren't for my own direct and indirect hearings, I would have felt the same way, and even envied their plight. But when I really know the truth of some facts, my heart is not at peace.
Everyone has a different situation, either the pleasant that makes the people happy, or the bridge that makes the unhappy and sad people swim. But this is an important part of our life, life has not always been bitter and not always sweet, just like the sweet and sour in life, we have to taste them one by one, in order to know the sour astringency, the bitter and spicy is difficult to swallow, and the sweet beauty and can not be sought.
The only thing we can do is to change our minds, let go of our ego for the pursuit of full happiness, and learn to be content and happy. When the situation is good, it is not public, not arrogant; When encountering difficulties, learn to compromise appropriately, hold your heart, learn to reconcile with the world and life, do not compare with others at will, and firmly believe that what you have is the best.
In life, you need to have frequent contact with friends. Play with them. Life is really boring. Everyone has friends in their lives. And there are a few of the most intimate friends. It's a lot of fun to play with them when you're bored.
Don't think about taking medicine, it's better not to take medicine if you have nothing to do. Don't worry about this problem,,, if there's anything going on, go to the doctor, and the doctor will guide you what to do.
Chinese folk tales, feel the wisdom from the story.
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