I want to give up loving that person

Updated on society 2024-05-25
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Get everything related to her out of sight. Strive not to see, hear, and feel the best. Because no matter what you see, as long as you have something to do with her, you can't help but think of her.

    Then try something else. If you live a full life, you will think less.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hehe, I have three ways1 Wait slowly, time will dilute everything, and gradually you will find that you don't like him anymore2, focus all your energy on one thing, and you will slowly forget about her. 3. Like another person or try to love someone.

    It's better to read well, if you read well, you will have more money in the future, and what woman won't come.

    Brother wants to open some.

    Ask for points!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You miss her every day when you sleep, which means something: you kid, you need a woman! It also shows that there are almost no girls around you who you can trust or have a good relationship with, which makes you feel.

    The previous one was the best! Therefore, you should get to know the girls around you! I've never believed that feelings can stand the test of time, unless that's a fool!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Make good money, right? When the money is enough, everything will be there, I am optimistic about you. Do it well, right? Just let the person you love give you motivation and prove it to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just like the other one, time will dilute everything. Ask for points.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you like it, tell him; No, say no;

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why don't you have a good proposal?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you miss her outside of sleep?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How to give up a person you love very much.

    1. No longer contact with the trapped nucleus, the first step to let go of the ruler is not to give yourself this.

    Don't feel that there is still hope, if necessary, you can delete and block it.

    Don't feel reluctant. 2. Don't contact each other anymore, if you break up, don't do it again.

    Thinking about meeting him, I have to try to avoid meeting him, and his appearance will not be allowed.

    You evoke the beauty of the past, but you will remind you of the pain of the time3Don't think about it anymore.

    With his goodness, nostalgia may be human instinct, especially when two people are separated, you think.

    It will only be the good things of the past, but ignore the fights that made you break up.

    Noisy. <>

    The new year wishes you a new beginning.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    For everyone, when you meet a person you love very much, it is undoubtedly a very happy and happy thing, but suddenly one day you find that you and the person you love the most can not really be together, and you have to choose to give up this relationship, that is in the process of making this decision, it is a very painful thing for yourself, and you have never been able to make up this decision, then I personally think that you can try it through the following methods, Maybe you can let yourself really feel relieved and accept.

    Since you only know that such feelings cannot continue, then you must learn to adjust your mentality, although you say that you love each other very much, but the feelings can not be forced, if the other party does not love yourself, but you unilaterally like each other, and the other party for their own love is also regarded as a burden, then they should be suppressed, for the other party's love let themselves clearly realize that their love is not real love, just a simple possession, Because true love is based on each other's mutual recognition of this relationship, for this feeling of care, and on the basis of mutual understanding and tolerance of each other, it is obvious that you and the other party have not done this, then this kind of feelings, such feelings are meaningless, let yourself accept the reality, choose to give up as soon as possible, for yourself, for each other is a good thing.

    Even if you and the other party care about this relationship in your hearts, and you care about each other very much in your hearts, but for the two people, it is impossible for such a relationship to continue to develop, because the resistance and problems encountered by two people in this relationship are not something that two people can solve, so in this case, you should be more sober and mature, so that you can truly realize that this is the price of your own growth, and there is a lot of love in your own growth process. It is destined to be just a good memory in your heart, it is impossible to bring yourself real happiness and joy, there is no need to reluctantly maintain such feelings because of your obsession, when you choose to let go, although you will feel very uncomfortable in your heart, but after a period of time, you will find that you are no longer really entangled and painful for such feelings, and you will slowly accept and adapt to this result.

    Emotionally, each of us should not be too persistent and blind, especially for adults, love is not the whole of their own life, each of us still has their own burden and mission, to achieve both feelings and careers, in order to let themselves really get a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, but also to let themselves truly feel a sense of happiness and joy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love and dislove are obvious, and maybe before you decide to let go, you still have hope in your heart and are still making excuses for yourself. If you really want to let go, pay more attention to yourself, love yourself more, and put your time and energy on yourself, you won't care about it over time.

    In fact, when you really calm down, you will find that he has not had any preferences and exceptions for us, but we have brought ourselves to glorify him. So he was not worth it from the start. And we ourselves are truly worthy.

    The world is so big that there are many people who can meet better than him, so we don't want to hang ourselves on a tree in Youlead Luta. Just go up and meet better people.

    We should pursue ourselves, not rely on others to build happiness, there will always be a lot of things in life that do not go as we want, allow everything to happen, and be the best version of ourselves.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The suggestions are as follows: 01. Clear your past.

    After separation, there will be thoughts and pain in the heart, which is normal. After all, you are used to the existence of a person, and suddenly this person is gone, and there will be a gap in your heart.

    In particular, it will become more and more sad to see some people and things about your past, but these sadness is temporary, just get through it.

    Since they have separated, it means that they are not two suitable people for each other.

    Then there is no need to be nostalgic for the past, and don't be greedy for those good things, because those are all in the past and will not be there again.

    What you have to do is to stop thinking about the past from the bottom of your heart, and don't put anything about you in front of you anymore, you can put it at the bottom of the box to leave a memento of the past.

    If you feel that it is really unnecessary, you can just throw it away, it is better than seeing things and thinking about people.

    The moment of clearing the past between you is painful, but only by doing so can you say goodbye to the pain completely, since you are the wrong person, don't regret the past, just go through it.

    02. Let yourself be busy.

    In fact, being busy is the best way to make yourself no longer have time to think, and there is nothing wrong with keeping yourself busy, on the one hand, you can improve yourself, and on the other hand, you can temporarily forget about unhappiness and troubles.

    Let the time pass slowly, and it will always be slowly put down, and once you are free, the time will be very long.

    When a person is in a leisurely state, he will naturally be cranky in his heart, and the more he thinks about it, the less it is worthwhile, he will be confused in his heart, and he will even do something that he can't even imagine.

    Instead of letting yourself fall into that anxious mood, it is better to keep yourself busy and divert your attention, and you can be a little happier.

    Since you are emotionally frustrated, the best way is to be proud in the workplace, and your heart may be a little more balanced.

    Now that the past relationship has passed, it is better to live your life first, make yourself better first, and then make the other person regret it, and when you become good enough, you will also meet better people.

    03. Restart the past and start again.

    In life, there is nothing about experiencing a failed relationship, which does not mean anything, it can only show that each other is not suitable. You can't deny life and self because of a failed relationship.

    For the sake of a person who has passed, it is not worth it to get along with yourself and no longer believe in love.

    Happiness is your own, and sometimes you need to grasp it yourself. It's not terrible to fall out of love, it's terrible to be in that state all the time, to die or live, such a person has no purpose.

    Now that your story is over, it's time to start your life all over again and do what you want to do.

    Change yourself appropriately, change your mentality, see more of the outside world, and when your horizons are broad enough, you will no longer be sad about a fruitless relationship.

    Believe that there is always someone in this world who is here for you, and what you have to do is to become a better version of yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. First of all, we remind ourselves from the bottom of our hearts that although the other party is the person we like, it is all in the past.

    2. You can stay away from the place where the two of you often stay together, so that you don't see things and think about people.

    3. It is not easy to give up a person, and if you want to get out of this state, you have to go out and adapt to the new environment.

    4. If you meet a nuisance person that you like more, then you may have no scruples when you give up on your original friend or original lover.

    5. Or we can ask some other experienced people, who have experienced it and know how to deal with it.

    6. Sometimes since you can't give up, don't force yourself to give up, after all, it is actually very important to give up a relationship that you like.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When I miss him, I miss him like crazy, when I want to cry, I let myself shed all my tears, when I meet him crying and waking up in my dream, I cry and then sleep, everything can only be washed and forgotten by time, because I have loved and cared about it, so I will feel the pain, and I will be willing to burn the scar in my heart over and over again, until the scar is not so painful, the other side of this pain is also a gift, proving that you have really loved each other, this pain at least makes people have more excuses and time, to remember the memory, to remember the beauty of the past, to remember those special feelings, before a thing is buried, in fact, I will want to have more time to look at it affectionately, to touch it, even if there will be heart-rending pain, because once the skin of the really sleepy family is put down, once it is completely buried Suikai, a feeling will be completely lost. I've gone through the journey of being a landlord, and I haven't completely let go of it, but it's much better. The landlord believes that everything will be fine, and one day, you will suddenly think of him, shed a few tears for him, and then wipe away your tears freely, and one day, when his shadow flashes in your mind, you will think of his cuteness, and there will be a warm smile at the corner of your mouth, not sadness, I hope that the landlord will come out quickly, and when you feel cold, you can hug yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Divert attention.

    Divert more attention from the positive aspects of life, whether it is to give up a person or a relationship, the most important thing is to divert your attention and focus more on the sunny and beautiful side of life.

    You already deserve a better, happier life, and after giving up, you will find that there are more places in your life that are worth your time and energy, and you will be happier and happier because of it.

    2. Communicate with relatives and friends.

    Communicate more deeply with relatives and friends, maybe before, you neglected them because of a bad relationship, and after giving up someone who doesn't care, you will find that your negligent relatives and friends are behind you, never far away from you, and still give you great comfort and support when you are lost.

    To regulate yourself, you also need to give yourself a place to express your emotions, communicate deeply with relatives and friends, express your negative emotions, and let yourself get rid of the wrong person who gave up as soon as possible.

    3. Enrich yourself.

    Go to sports, go to school, and enrich yourself as much as possible. When a person is particularly fulfilling, he will no longer think too much about emotional problems, and it is inevitable that he will be a little lost and lonely when he gives up a person, but he enriches himself, goes to exercise, and goes to fitness.

    4. Let yourself think about him as little as possible.

    Many times when we find that we like someone very much, but this person doesn't care about us, and we do a lot of things to him and her in vain and don't get any response, then at this time, we have to examine whether our feelings are our own wishful thinking.

    When you find that it is impossible between you, then try to give up slowly. The first step in giving up is to think about him and her as little as possible, because he doesn't care about you, so it's useless for you to think about him all day long.

    We can spend more time making friends who care about us, whether it's friends of the same sex or the opposite sex. When we make more friends who care about our nuisance, then we will be cared for more by others.

    At this time, for those who don't care about us, we will be able to forget more quickly. And after making more friends who care about us, whether it is friendship or love, may be closer to us.

    6. Find your own hobbies and hobbies.

    When we have more hobbies, we can also find more fun or meet more friends. And our hobbies are likely to become one of our talents, attracting the attention of others, and we will have more opportunities to be cared for by others.

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