I can t seem to accept in my heart that my boyfriend and ex girlfriend are just a relationship with

In fact, the main question is whether you like him or not, and how does he treat you? All right? Love you? To what extent does love go? There is also the important question of how long it will be before he returns.

You haven't known each other for a long time, and you don't know each other well. As for whether you love or not, you have to weigh it yourself. Can this youth be spent?

This ex-girlfriend's problem is not a problem at all. Because the ex-girlfriend is before you, there is no such thing as loyalty or disloyalty. If you care about this, I'm afraid a lot of good ones will be missed. If you really love him, you don't care about his past at all.

You can see between the lines that you are a traditional good girl, the past is really not worth delving, and the current problem should be yours. Although society is now open, as your boyfriend said, as long as the relationship reaches a certain level, it can naturally be intimate, but you have to determine whether you think it's okay, after all, girls should be reserved. No one will like a casual girl.

At least I don't think it can happen with a boyfriend or girlfriend or when you're about to get married, but if he really cherishes you, it should happen at the right time.

The main question is whether you like him or not, and what about him? All right? Love you? To what extent does love go? There is also the important question of how long it will be before he returns.

Everything else is floating clouds!

Don't want to accept it, don't force yourself.

In fact, there should be better boys than this.

Of course, you have to carefully consider ——— his character and his feelings for you before deciding, on the one hand, don't dwell on other people's old mistakes.

On the other hand, don't plant evil consequences for your own tomorrow. ok？

Two lovers who are destined to be together are more important now and in the future than in the past. I advise you not to know the good of his past, but to ask you that you know all of his past, can you and him still live as freely as we do now? Sometimes you need to play a little silly!

What do you love now have to do with his past? Nowadays, there are many phenomena of people living together, and you are here in the plot.

If you mind this, don't be with him, you've found someone who has "never been married", if you love him more, don't think about these things and don't have them, and quarrel with your feelings.

He should have explained these things to you. If he hides anything from you, kick him out.

See how deep his love for you is.

You go with him to get a marriage license.

Love him, and love yourself...

To be responsible for yourself is also to be responsible for him...

First of all.

Do you love him? Sure, you will naturally know the following.

Seeing that he was a household registration book, I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to ask.

You should be able to find it out if you go to the Civil Affairs Bureau.

Chat with his family, or look at his household registration book (whether he is married or unmarried), or chat with his friends, or chat with his fellow countrymen, buddies. You can know about him.

If you know his ID number, then try to consult with the marriage registration office**, tell him the purpose of your check, and see if they will check it for you.

In fact, under normal circumstances, it cannot be checked, because it belongs to the privacy of citizens.

It is recorded in the household register. If you only have a banquet and it is a de facto marriage, you should also think about it carefully.

When you go to the local ** to find out, maybe when you go to do it, if the person who has done it is not divorced, it can't be done, and the divorce is written as divorced, and his household registration book will also be written as divorced.

I won't check it, I've already taken it.

Why bother doing things that don't make sense.

It's only two months, and you're still 24 years older than you, what kind of feelings can you have, the older ones will definitely be more experienced than the younger ones in all aspects, but I always think that only those who are the same age will be long-term feelings. People like him probably aren't ready to stay with you for long. Be sober, and you can be truly happy on your own.

Wouldn't it be hasty to get married after just two months of acquaintance If you can really be sure that he doesn't have a wife, then again.

It's okay to look at it, but he's not married at such an age, have you asked why? If he's really successful in his career now, and he's nearly 50 years old, there's no way he doesn't want to get married, and he doesn't want to have a child of his own. Let's talk to him deeply, the girl is just a few years He has assets It's okay to find a more beautiful and smaller girl in the future But you're 30 years old It's not easy to find a satisfactory one And talking about it can also give you an in-depth understanding If it's really like he said that he doesn't worry about you a lot of worries You can also communicate with him to dispel his concerns In short, don't be so annoyed It's going to be okay Come on I wish you happiness.

I wonder if he is influenced by the people around him (married or divorced) and thinks that marriage is terrible and is a grave. Or like freedom, feel that marriage will be managed, lose freedom... The worst outcome is that he is just playing, after all, he has a lot of experience and can coax people.

Does he take you to meet his parents or elders? Tell him all about your difficulties, see how he handles them, if he loves you, he will avoid hurting you, and will think about you. But if you are afraid of marriage, seek counseling from a psychologist.

It is recommended that you listen to emotional programs on the radio, usually at night, and try to play **. For example, Chang'an night talk, it seems to be fm89.?It is an economic broadcast, at about ten o'clock in the evening, or a starry night talk, as if it is a Shaanxi traffic broadcast.

It could also be Xi'an Traffic Radio at 11 p.m. Try it, I'm from Xi'an, it sounds good, and their host analyzes it very well.

Marriage is not only a piece of paper, it is recognized by the law, it is a responsibility, and it is a kind of name for women.

A man is very good to a woman, as long as he does not give this woman a marriage, he is an irresponsible and untrustworthy man. A man's most important promise of love is to give a woman marriage.

This person does not enter into a formal marriage with you, in the final analysis, he does not trust you, mainly because he is afraid that you will divorce him in the future and divide his property.

There are a lot of things involved in marriage (such as property or something), and your boyfriend is from here, so I understand it very well.

I believe that if you have a good relationship together and you can't do without each other, then it will naturally come naturally, don't be anxious, be patient

Wait for him for a few months. As you say. He's not a bad man. I'm afraid of being dumped by you. This one is similar to me. Give him some time. You should trust him.

Feelings are actually as fragile as a piece of paper, so can you do without? Don't be in a hurry, good things are grinding.

I decided to get married in two months, which is a bit early! There is an article that says: Couples who do not have more than one shelf cannot get married. If you are blind at the time of marriage, it will be two people who will be injured in the end, so it may be better to get in touch with each other slowly.

The woman of the present.

I like that guy.

I don't think I'll have until I'm 40 years old to find a match.

Alas, in any case, may you live a happy life.

No wonder I can't find a wife.

You should be serious and say to him, I am willing to be your legal husband and wife.

As soon as you hear this, you know that your boyfriend is not a responsible person who dares to take responsibility.

He's going to see his parents before deciding I guess my parents don't agree, and he'll start looking for a home.

You told him not a piece of paper, a diamond ring, and a house?

But this piece of paper binds a family and also binds your life.

Got a marriage license now? It's really impulsive.

Either never let your parents know, or wait for the world to be turned upside down! At least it will kick you out of the house, and you will never get along with each other in the future.

You shouldn't go so hastily to get a marriage certificate, maybe love is very important to you, but what about raising your parents? You don't have the right to think about them. Think about your parents from another angle, they just want you to be happy, and the eyes of the elders are more accurate than ours.

You don't think that your family will necessarily disagree, I think you should confess to your family, to avoid that if your parents know about it through other channels in the future, they will definitely not forgive you, because parents can't stand the deception of their children, go and confess, then your parents will slowly accept it, bless you.

You are doing very badly, since you are an adult, how can it be so easy to be disassembled, you have put your parents in a very embarrassing position, unfilial. Falling in love is a matter of two people, and being married for a long time involves two families. If the boy is really good and loves you very much, I don't think his parents will just recognize money.

I think the best way is to let him work hard until his parents accept you, and then tell his parents, otherwise it may become a pimple for a lifetime, you can't do without your parents, and you can't do without your husband, it's very painful to be caught in the middle. Poor and divorced families, even if the children are very good, there will be greater unsafe hidden dangers, how much tragedy is the princess marrying a poor man. The outlook is not encouraging.

Use facts to prove that your boyfriend has a future, and when dealing with your family, continue to hide and don't have children, this point should be noted. When your family arranges a blind date, you must actively cooperate, and you can't see it anyway.

I think someone in front of Bai is right.

No matter how much this question is said, there is no way, the current society is not an arranged marriage by parents, all things, the parties in the family are allowed to allow you to have the qualifications to decide, but in order to estimate the whole family, they are also for your good, want you to live a good life, and now the southern family has agreed, just your family, you don't have too much dispute with the family now, you can talk to the family first, take him to meet, and gradually increase the parents' good impression of him, when the time comes, everything will be fine.

Damn, I'm really not ashamed

My own will be du

I think you should be older than me when you get married.

I want to say that since you are not impulsive, then you touch your conscience and right conscience and ask yourself, do you really know him? Is he cheating on you? And what about his character? He was divorced and asked him why, how? He may be miserable, but it is for the happiness of both of you.

Or maybe he's interested in your conditions, if money? But he doesn't love you at all. Is it? Investigate carefully, I think you are still too impulsive, and you don't feel impulsive, so it means that you are very ignorant.

Hey, eldest sister, you have to figure it out for yourself, why doesn't your family agree?! If you really love each other deeply and really care about each other when you get married, then no matter what hardships you have, no matter what setbacks you have, you can't defeat you, hmph, I don't think you will be together for a long time.

The matter has come to this point, and you have nothing to hide.

Du wants, and the consideration of the parents is completely for the sake of their children.

You should find a version.

Opportunity to communicate well with parents, speak your own mind, and convince them. I don't know what your parents' reasons are against you, but if you can be happy, isn't it their wish? Don't hide it from your family for too long, the longer it goes, the harder it will be to clean things up. Wishing you happiness!

The most important thing now is to get the job done quickly. The family is also worried about you... If there is a commotion. I have to stand up and bear all the consequences.

It felt a bit sloppy. But this is already the case, and you can only be a dead horse as a live horse doctor. Again, there is no pair of parents who don't want to see their children unhappy, if you are happy together, let your parents feel that your choice is right.

This can only be done slowly, and it will be concealed first.

This is really a repetitive person, and for all people in marriage, it is especially for the young people of today, and it is one.

zhi is a very sensitive topic. dao

But I personally think; Clause.

1. Although this prawn is a little impulsive, he does not want to fight for his love and happiness for a bad thing, but the real problems and conditions given to us by the real society are indeed very urgent and even harsh. Clause.

Second, it is not right for the woman's family to do this, and the parents are also their own children, and they are the meat of their hearts, although some of them are difficult for the children to do, but it is also for the sake of each other's growth, and it is the best result to be frank in the face of words. However, the dominant right is still in the man's posture and sincerity, only the other party can give you the most harmonious and affinity performance and treatment, I believe you are the most hopeful to seize this beautiful and happy person. Thank you!

Have you spoken to your family now? I'm also in your situation now, but I haven't gotten a marriage certificate yet, and I want to just get a marriage certificate and nothing at all, because my boyfriend has no conditions to buy a house, but he doesn't know how to talk to his family and how to get his family to agree.

This kind of problem is caused by your lack of ability to take care of yourself, and if your personal ability is particularly reassuring to your family, then what you say is what you say.

So it's better to do your job well and let your family feel at ease with you, so that the odds of winning will be much higher.

Your parents' opinions can be referred to, but your parents are not you, and they cannot make choices for you. Besides, you have replied that you are a legal couple, and if your parents forcibly break up, it will be an illegal act. Try talking to your parents.

Even if they get angry for a while, they will forgive you as time goes on. Also, some of your parents' demands are unreasonable, and if you argue with them, everything may turn around.