Do I still want to see my boyfriend after the breakup? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If he broke up with you for your own good, it was to meet him, let him see that you were doing well, and also make him feel at ease, I think if this is the reason to break up, maybe he still loves you. If it's just because I don't feel for you anymore, or if I see something different, I still don't see it, because seeing it will only make it more painful for me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If life is only as it first seems.

    I think it's better not to see it, and don't break the best memories of the beginning.

    If a man says he doesn't deserve you when he breaks up, he will never deserve you, because he is not self-motivated at all. As for whether it's good for you, I don't know, I just know that everything is an excuse, and the root cause is because I don't love it.

    If you broke up peacefully, you will still be friends after you meet.

    But since it's scolding to break up and breaking your heart, why bother to make yourself sad again?

    Sometimes love is all that a woman has, but for a man it is only a part of life, so it is easier to let go than a woman.

    And you don't have to worry about whether he's doing well or not, as long as you're doing well. If you don't love yourself well, will anyone love you?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Or don't go to see it. I believe you have been together for 3 years, don't you still know each other? If he just broke up with you for your own good, he would scold you at most, but curse your whole family, which is not right.

    Time can dilute everything, and give each other a good memory.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's better to forget it, since he is like that, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, maybe he is for your good, but I suggest you don't go to him, maybe it will make things worse, if you really want to say something to him, you can use other ways, write, email, text, and it's better not to meet. You can at least be a normal friend after a breakup, right?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There's no need to say goodbye, he's done that to you, what are you doing! It's not that you don't want it. He doesn't have feelings for you anymore, or he wouldn't have stopped contacting you for so long, and even if you meet, he won't change his mind. Give it up!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Understand your feelings, I also thought about it, I want to see each other, but I don't think it's necessary, since the breakup is in the past, your happiness and joy have nothing to do with him, do yourself well, live your own life is the most important, you have to start your new starting point...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, you should figure out the real reason, in a relationship, the man spends time, and the woman is energy, if you can control your emotions, you will make an appointment. If you don't control it well, don't see it. Otherwise, you can quietly see how he is doing now, and you don't have to meet each other.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it were me, I would have taken a very calm mind and dressed myself up to meet him, but don't come back to it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's divided, it's divided, and good horses don't eat back grass.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, but don't be alone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since the two of them have broken up, he no longer misses the old love, even if you have done a lot for him, unless he is still unwilling to lose you. Why did you break up? Is it his fault or yours, or his family, or your family?

    It's hard to judge if you don't explain it clearly. Then go with the general process. Do you want to see each other and say goodbye, you have to ask your boyfriend for permission first, you have already broken up, in case you make this suggestion, wouldn't it be hard work for people to disagree.

    Now that you have broken up, you are still struggling, proving that you can't let go, the probability of being able to get it back You should know, if there is no chance, then give up, don't see the last side, except for sadness and added troubles, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, divided is divided, from now on each is fine, do not disturb each other, and bury a love deep in the bottom of your heart!

    People who once thought they would join hands for a lifetime, but they didn't expect to be separated in the end, since they chose to break up, then there is no possibility for the two of them after that. If he chose to see me now, there must be other reasons. Either it's getting back together, or there's something else that needs me.

    But for whatever reason, I wouldn't choose to see him again. It has to be asked who is going to break up. It's that you want to break up, and others don't break up, then you are unwilling, then you think about it again.

    If your boyfriend wants to break up, you don't want to break up, and if the other person's desire is very strong and you have to break up, then be decisive. In this world, you like a lot, but the hard one likes you.

    For feelings, don't force what you like, go find what you like, you will find that this is completely different. Feelings are a very test of people's morality, morality, feelings are very strange, now you will feel that there is no good with the future, nostalgic for the past and look forward to the future, just will not cherish the present. This is a sharp knife that often hurts itself.

    People's desires will never be satisfied, and if you don't cherish what you have now, you will lose everything, neither before nor in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it were me, after I broke up with my boyfriend, I would generally not choose to meet him again, I think the two of us are fortunate to be a couple, but I didn't stick to the end, I think it will be embarrassing to meet again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, of course, you won't choose to meet him again, since the two have broken up, it proves that you are not suitable for being together at all, and your relationship is over, there is no need to be entangled anymore.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Breaking up with my boyfriend, if I have a crush on him, if he still has thoughts about me, I will choose to meet, if it is just wishful thinking, I will not meet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I wouldn't choose to meet him. Because the two people are no longer related, the two have become the past and become the most familiar strangers, and the two have no future, so they will not meet each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Will not choose to meet. Because the two people no longer have any relationship, there is no need to meet again, and it will be more troublesome to meet.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If I say that after breaking up with my boyfriend, I will not choose to meet him again, because I think that since they have already broken up, then there is no need to meet again, because nothing can happen when we meet again, and there is nothing new to say, and I feel that if I meet, I will definitely be very responsive, because these people have already chosen to break up, so there is no point in meeting.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I will not choose to meet him again, because since I choose to break up, I must completely draw a line with the previous one, and I want to break off the previous contact, which is also conducive to both parties to quickly get out of the pain.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I won't choose to meet him.

    Because the relationship between me and my boyfriend has ended, and I don't want to have any intersection in the future, since I broke up with my boyfriend, I shouldn't choose to meet her again.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I don't think it's necessary to choose to meet him anymore, because the two people were so familiar with each other before, so in love, and now that they have chosen to break up, there is no need to meet again, so as to save the two people from being unhappy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you break up with your boyfriend, whether you meet again depends on whether there is an intersection in your life. If there is an intersection, I don't think I would mind meeting him again. After all, there are other aspects of interaction between us, and this does not hinder.

    If I don't have anything to do with him anymore, then I won't see him again, because seeing him again will only add to the sadness and will not be conducive to the development of our friendship. So if you can't see it, you can't see it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I won't choose to meet him, because I feel that I have no relationship with him, so I have to cut off all meetings, it's good to be a stranger, there is no need to meet again, and both parties feel embarrassed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think I'll definitely meet him again, because we're friends after all, and although we can't be lovers, he and I still have a lot of topics to talk about, and we can continue to help each other in life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Two people, after breaking up, it is best not to see each other again in the future, because if you see each other, your own heart will soften again, so you will want to forgive each other to get back together, and the final result can only be to repeat the mistakes of the past.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think there's really any need to meet again after a real breakup, after all, you've already hurt each other once. Why do you want to meet again and remind yourself of unhappy things. So if you break up, you should come out quickly and start a new life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I usually don't choose to meet him. Because I am a relatively strong person personally, and I am more decisive in doing things. As we often say, it doesn't drag mud and water.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I won't choose to meet my boyfriend again after breaking up with him.

    Because the two have broken up, it's best not to dwell on it anymore, so there's no need to meet at all.

    It's only awkward to see each other, so it's better to be a stranger.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After I broke up with my boyfriend, I would choose to be very determined not to have any contact with him, so that I could have my own psychological love, because I needed to give myself a space to think independently.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Now that we've broken up, I don't think we should see each other again if it's not necessary. It's also pointless to meet, and sometimes it's awkward, if the other party is to say that there is a new relationship, then don't meet. Because it is very influential for their next relationship.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I don't think I will choose to meet again, because if you practice, the two of you will be very embarrassed, maybe after a year and a half, you will say hello if you meet accidentally, but if you can meet, I personally feel that it is still unnecessary.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    After breaking up with my boyfriend, I won't meet him again, because meeting again can only make both parties feel particularly embarrassed, and remember many times in the past, joy, pain and sadness, and my heart will be very uncomfortable.

    It's better not to see each other than to see each other, this is the best state.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    To be honest, it's not necessary, but it's not that you can't see each other, after all, everyone thinks differently, some people may feel that they don't want to leave regrets, they want to see each other again, maybe there will be a turnaround, so this question is not absolute, but it is not recommended to meet.

    In my opinion, breaking up, that is, saying goodbye to the past, is ready to meet a new life, and the two are still in a long-distance relationship, and if they break up, they can't go on, if you want to see each other again, you have to have someone to pay something, from one city to another, but you are not sure whether it will disturb each other's lives, after all, after the breakup, the other party may be adapting to a new life, is making new plans, and your appearance may break some of the other party's decisions, It may also be that you are not willing to rekindle the old relationship between the two people after seeing each other and get back together, but there is an old saying that a broken mirror cannot be reunited, yes, how to recuperate the broken heart when you break up, and you must have endured great pain when you decide to break up, and getting back together again may lead to more serious injuries next time.

    There is another reason why it is not recommended to meet, even if you have broken up, even if you say goodbye, it will not necessarily change this fact, why bother, it is better to leave a good impression in each other's hearts, and after the breakup, you still go to see your ex, or trek to see your ex, in my opinion, it is not simple, and it may lead to the disgust of the other party, it is better to cut it in two, not to meet, after all, a qualified ex should be like dead.

    But if you still want to redeem it, you feel that the two of you still have a future, and if you can go on after redemption, it's okay to see each other, and you can also rush bravely.

    Long-distance relationships are mostly communicated by typing and messaging.

    Therefore, when faced with each other's quarrels, the way of sending messages on mobile phones cannot fully express their meaning, nor can they accurately convey their emotions, and there is no way to use a few simple words to appease each other's emotions, and the situation will get worse and worse.

    Therefore, this is also the reason why long-distance couples can't really solve the problem after breaking up.

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