Are there differences between men and women in the way they lose their temper?

In terms of probability, there are still some differences in behavior patterns between men and women, and the same is true when it comes to tantrums.

First of all, most men are still relatively rational, and they are a little stronger in rational thinking than in emotional thinking. In this way, in the process of getting along with people, they seem to be kind, easy to get along with, wise, and calm in most situations. However, if they encounter people or things that they do not understand, or find that a certain point of view is very different from their own point of view, then their nature as an animal begins to come to the fore, and they usually have a strong self-confidence in their hearts, confident that what they want and do is right, and confident that what others contradict is wrong, so they begin to try to persuade each other, try to logically crush each other to occupy the victory, so this is why men and men are easy to fight, And with the women around you is not applicable to the reason.

However, most women are relatively emotional, and they are generally stronger at emotional thinking than rational thinking. In the process of getting along with others, they smile sweetly and self-contained, but deep down, they have a lot of small tentacles that extend and can accurately feel the reflection of various external people, things, and things, and thus cast waves on their emotional lake. When these small emotions accumulate day by day until one day they erupt, they often do not stop easily in a short time, but will have a spectacular scene like a volcanic eruption, followed by bursts of magma flowing, until they are satisfied with their emotions or the attitude of the other party.

The way men and women get along is a university question in itself, they both stand in each other's shoes, and when they are angry, they are often the moment of lack of wisdom, and it is not suitable to make any decisions at this time.

Of course, there are differences, and the difference between men and women is something that everyone knows, not only in terms of physiological structure, but also in different ways of thinking about problems. This creates people who deal with problems differently and vent themselves differently.

1.In terms of feelings.

Boys have a more direct way of thinking about feelings, while girls have a different way of thinking, and girls have a reticulated way of thinking, which obviously thinks more than boys. So when two people are in love, many girls will feel that boys are not mature enough. When there is a conflict, the average boy loses his temper because he doesn't like to talk and wants to calm himself down.

But girls don't do that, the last thing she wants to do at that time is to be quiet, simple three words, girls will think that you have a very bad attitude. The way a girl loses her temper is often by saying a lot of things, or crying, or ignoring you, or yelling. Boys lose their temper because they want to calm down, and girls lose their temper because they want to vent.

2.In terms of work.

It is inevitable that things will not go well at work, and mature and steady boys will generally restrain their temper and try to maintain stability. Gentle girls are similar to steady boys, and they will try to endure as much as possible. But people with a big temper tend to let their anger out or criticize employees who have done something wrong.

Boys and girls will have different ways of losing their temper, mainly because of their different physiological structures and different ways of thinking, but even the way of tantrums is different between people of the same sex, because everyone has their own personality, and the difference in personality also has an impact on this aspect. Some people are angry and noisy, and some are angry and don't make a sound. Tantrums are a way to vent oneself, but there are problems that still need to be solved, to communicate, and being angry is also harmful to health.

Men and women have different ways of throwing tantrums due to the lack of access to their way of thinking. The temper is controlled by the emotional center, and the place in the brain that controls emotions is called the "amygdala". It is located at the top of the brainstem and is an expert in the management of emotional things.

When our senses receive a signal, there are two channels that go to the amygdala, one through the hypothalamus directly to the amygdala, and one through the neocortex to the amygdala. So the result of the first channel is that people are very easy to lose control of their emotions because they don't have time to think rationally. Therefore, when you say something, you are angry, hurt yourself and others, and it is easy to regret it.

And the emotions that pass through the neocortex are more rational trade-offs, so when they reach the amygdala, they have not reacted much, so their behavior and language can be well controlled.

Men and women have different ways of thinking, and usually when a woman is angry, she will show it immediately, because before she has time to think, she has already said what she wants to say, or immediately turns around and leaves. Therefore, it is easy for women to show their emotions, but in fact, the emotional brain controls the behavior in a short period of time. And when boys are usually angry, they don't react immediately, but think about it, and at this time reason has enough time to overwhelm emotion, so when they say it, the words have been processed by them.

This also explains why many boys can still hug their girlfriends tightly and make their girlfriends happy when they are angry, not because they are not angry, but because they rationally control themselves and hide their true emotions.

When girls are angry, they will show it immediately, and boys will hide it in their hearts. Some guys seem to have a good temper, but when one day he proposes to break up with you, you may be inexplicable and don't know why. Yes, it's not a big deal, but he just really wants to break up with you, don't think it's very sudden, it's just that he didn't show it before.

So girls, when you want to "do", you must stop in moderation, otherwise the boyfriend who seems to be tolerant of you is likely to leave without looking back.

The difference in the way men and women think can sometimes lead to conflicts, so be more tolerant of each other and think for a few seconds before speaking, and the results may be very different.

Because of gender differences, men and women have different experiences of family education and social expectations from childhood to adulthood, so there are differences in the way they deal with problems. Naturally, men and women are different when it comes to tantrums.

Men lose their temper, generally in the unbearable situation suddenly erupted, the degree of violence such as a storm, in a short period of time is more lethal, the degree of damage is large, but the duration is not too long, as the anger slowly eases, reason slowly returns, they will generally suddenly die down and blame themselves.

When a woman loses her temper, it is the kind of rainy day that has been brewing for a long time, her emotions accumulate little by little, her face becomes cold little by little, and when she accuses and nagged you, it shows that there is still room for ease in your relationship, and she points it out in the hope that you can correct it. Once she is silent and her eyes are even colder, it means that she is really angry, and your relationship is definitely in jeopardy. It's like a sudden snowstorm in the middle of the night in the middle of winter, and you wake up in the early hours of the morning to find that everything is frozen.

Of course, this way is not absolute, it is still related to everyone's personality characteristics, and it may also be that women lose their temper like a storm, and men lose their temper like a rainy day that has been brewing for a long time.

After my husband and I got married, there were countless quarrels, and the tantrums basically followed the rules I mentioned above.

Usually he is at fault first, I don't say it, let the emotions slowly brew in the bottom of my heart, let the anger slowly heat up, and when he makes a mistake again one day, I will put myself on the moral high ground and take the opportunity to accuse him.

At the beginning, he lowered his head and was silent, and the tone of accusation became heavier, and he began to justify, but basically he could not justify anything, but because he found a reason to emphasize his innocence, my anger became more vigorous, and my criticism became more violent.

Then, he would suddenly erupt, throw things and curse, anyway, as long as he stopped me, as long as I stopped my accusations, he didn't think about the consequences at all. Of course, his approach is very effective, I will definitely stop immediately, after all, I can't beat him, suppress my emotions in the bottom of my heart, and continue to brew.

It feels like a violent storm when a male tantrum comes and gets it quickly; When women lose their temper, it is like a gentle rain, and the time span is relatively long.

But there are also times when the quarrel is over, but I feel very angry in my heart, which is the sentence: every time I quarrel, I feel that I haven't played well. But the other party is already talking to you as if it's okay, and to be honest, this kind of time often makes women more angry.

The physiological and psychological characteristics of women are destined to be very divergent in thinking, and a sentence or action may lead to many other speculations, and finally come to a conclusion by themselves: he has quarreled with me now, and if he doesn't coax me after quarreling, he definitely doesn't love me anymore. I played out 100 big dramas in my heart, and then I made myself more and more angry, like a bulging pufferfish.

And for men, it's the matter in front of them, the thing that causes anger, and when it's done, the matter is over. may simply think that the other party has also finished venting, but he doesn't know how many big dramas have been staged in women's hearts.

Therefore, after two people quarrel, male friends must remember, must coax each other, do not omit this and important step, and discuss the next issue directly. Believe me, you will pay a bigger price for omitting this step.

There will be big differences in thinking and acting.

Men are good at thinking rationally. For example, some small things, men don't care at all, and they don't even think about it, and it has become an instinct for them to say whatever they want. I won't ask questions more tactfully like girls, but I will ask questions directly, how are you doing?

I don't like it or I'm not used to it. And the girl poured out all the problems in one go, or kept admonishing. The constant nagging has led to men's disgust and intolerability!

When a woman vents her emotions or loses her temper, she is more willing to nag or throw things, or scold to achieve the effect she wants.

Men will resort to cold violence to deal with it. Don't listen, don't look. When all the women have vented, he will have a reaction, what should he do!

In terms of behavior, women are more willing to use their hands to achieve their goals by throwing objects or other things. Men may use running, boxing or sports to get their way out. <>

This is the difference between men and women! Because men themselves have a kind of heart that cannot be shown weakness in front of others, even if he is already angry! He won't show it right away!

Women, on the other hand, have something to show immediately. Dissatisfaction and satisfaction are never hidden! <>

The complementarity of men and women is the right way to get along. Losing your temper or nagging is a good way to release your stress. As long as it doesn't affect others, and you also release your own emotions, it's the right way.

Different ways and means create a different world. Harmonious coexistence is. Not having a lot of contradictions is the best policy!

There are differences, some girls lose their temper generally on the surface, but if it is a boy, it will not be shown on the outside, and they are generally angry in the heart and then have a cold face.

Of course, there are differences, generally women lose their temper and do not speak, deliberately snub each other, and attract the attention of the other party to comfort themselves, while men are different, when they lose their temper, they are generally angry, more direct, and there are few cases of anger and sulking.

Hello, most of the people who lose their temper with you are selfish and rarely think about you. On the contrary, the better people are to you, the more they will think about you and will think of you often. Because only if I care about you, I will have a temper with you.

If you lose your temper often, it means that you are a very bad person in the other person's heart, and after a long time, even if you don't separate, you will be separated because of your bad temper. A bad temper is not a matter of a person's character, it is a matter of habit. If you want to get rid of your bad temper, you need to slow down the number of tantrums.

I wish you good health.

I think there are two possibilities I can think of, the first is that a woman is testing whether a man really cares about whether he can love himself, whether a man can stand a woman's temper, and the other is that a woman is deliberate, she doesn't want to continue to be good with this man, but it is inconvenient to say it directly, so she finds a reason to say that her temper is incompatible or something.

If a woman loses her temper with a man, it means that the woman has a bad personality, if the woman loses her temper with anyone, it means that her temper is bad, if she only loses her temper with you, it means that she feels that you can't do without her, so she will not consider your feelings.

If a woman always loses her temper with a man, there are two reasons, one is that the woman does not like what the man does, and she loses her temper when she sees anything, and the other is that the man does something to make people angry.

Psychological reasons, in addition to the influence of physiological factors, a woman's temper comes more from psychological reasons. First of all, if a woman loses her temper with the man she loves, it is likely that her boyfriend or lover neglects her and does not care enough about her, so she is subconsciously dissatisfied with him.