I m a lot older than my boyfriend, but I ve been lying to her, and now I m getting married

Face him calmly, the sooner you tell something like this, the better, otherwise it could cause harm. It's a disservice to you, to him and to his parents. Find a chance, have a good chat with him, and then find a chance to mention it, If he really loves you, he shouldn't care too much about age, after all, you are about to get married, The most important thing at the moment is how to face his family?

Think about it, you say.

Don't look for him, why do you say that, because my husband is younger than me, we are in the same school, I didn't feel anything at first, but after I got married, I found that he always asked me to let him, and he always felt that he had a small advantage. And I'm three years older than him, you can think about it.

Tell him! In fact, I have always felt that girls should not find someone younger than themselves, because a woman's youth is very short.

This joke is a bit too big, even if he can accept it and let his family know, what will his family think?

Then you have to lie to him with your family, just say that you are reporting the false age for something, but in fact you were born in 81.

If he doesn't accept it, it proves that he doesn't love you very much. What is the use, in addition to being very open, true love also needs to be very tolerant.

What should be faced must be faced. Tell him!

He hasn't looked at your ID card for so long?

It seems that 23 is a little smaller to get married

When there is a problem, you already know what to do, because no matter how you do it, there is only oneTwo choices: stay together or break up.

If you choose to continue to be together, what kind of identity will you be, a third party who intervenes in other people's marriages? Ready to divorce your boyfriend and wife and then marry yourself? In fact, when there is such a thought, it is already terrible, and the most important thing we should do when encountering such a thing is"Stop loss in time".

Because when the request for the boyfriend to divorce and marry him again was proposed, whether the boyfriend agreed or not, the nature of the marriage had changed.

promised to marry himself in the future, and then her boyfriend's wife was inexplicably abandoned by her husband. Since he will abandon the other half who is already married to him, will he abandon you and be with someone else next time? And when you intervene in other people's marriages as a third party and cause other people's marriages to break down, can your heart be stable?

So the right choice we should make isParted. After breaking up, you don't have to affect other people's families, and you don't have to worry about marrying a married person to your own family and bring bad things to other people's families. I can already pursue a better other half, to find my own Prince Charming.

And if a man cheats on you about his marriage history at this time, will he cheat on some other things at the next time?

Therefore, no matter what we do, we should know how to protect ourselves, and stop losses in time when we encounter something wrong, so as to avoid destroying other people's families, and at the same time it is the best protection for ourselves. What's more, feelings are the most afraid of deception, when the deception appears once, once there is a conflict again because of something, you will wonder if the other party is deceiving yourself, whether the other party's feelings for yourself are true, and when this kind of accumulation reaches a certain extent, the relationship will break.

I think the best way is to leave, stay away from the scumbag, live yourself, and meet new people from scratch, but next time you must keep your eyes open.

You should communicate directly with your boyfriend, clarify your firm thoughts, see the other party's attitude to solve the problem, and if necessary, you should decisively give up this relationship that does not belong to you.

Legal analysis: If you deceive someone to not get married and register with another person after getting married, it is bigamy, and the crime of bigamy refers to the act of marrying another person with a spouse or knowing that another person has a spouse. It has two aspects; Lao Hongchunyi is "marrying someone else while having a spouse", which refers to a person who is already married, and marries another person during the existence of the marital relationship; The second is "marrying another person knowing that he or she has a spouse", which refers to a person who does not have a spouse and marries another person knowing that he or she has a spouse.

The sentence shall be fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention. Legal basis: Article 1046 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and it is forbidden for either party to force the other party or any organization or individual to interfere.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women. Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations. Article 1049:A man and a woman who request an extinct marriage shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman. Article 1051:Marriage is null and void in any of the following circumstances: (1) bigamy; (2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage; (3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.

Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China" Article 258 Whoever has a spouse and serves bigamy, or marries another person knowing that he has a spouse, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or short-term detention.