What was the one thing that made a turning point in your life?

One of my classmates, very low-key, deep and steady, good grades, good popularity, although I am also popular, but the personality is the other end, it can be regarded as sharp, and then I began to study how he made his classmates like it, slowly, his own character also absorbed his kind of low-key stability, I feel that my personality has become better, it is easy to get along with people, and become friends. The other one, the girl, the beauty, understands what type of girl she likes, and has always kept her in her heart, which is very effective in saving things like early love in middle school.

Junior high school and friends take the bus, friends in his hand with a book to break the sky, he flipped it, since then deep in**can't extricate himself, his friend after junior high school never looked at ** went to Tsinghua University, he came to the financial institute.

Second. I went to the game hall to play a game and my schoolbag was stolen (how could someone steal a schoolbag), and I bought a new textbook at school and was found out by the head teacher. So he forced me to confess my accomplices, who were classmates I had met in the game hall.

I just don't say it, the teacher deals with it with mental breakdown. I was locked up in a small black room, all my personal belongings were confiscated, there was only one chair in the house, and I had to report any behavior such as eating and going to the toilet, and I went in and out of school until I confessed. As a result, on the third day, I ate enough food in the morning without water, and did not eat, drink, go to the toilet or talk for a day.

After two weeks, the teacher himself was scared, but from now on I will resent the teacher, and all the teachers.

98 college entrance examination. That year coincided with the centennial celebration of Peking University, and I saw a large number of presidents of famous international schools and even ** to participate in the university, but I didn't think much about it, it had nothing to do with me. At that time, I was ranked 85th in my grade in the mock exam, more than 100 points less than the first place, so I didn't have any extraneous thoughts, including my parents and everyone around me, who didn't report high expectations, so they were surprised to hear that I didn't hesitate to refuse the opportunity to go to the foreign language college.

But I've always thought so, in the whole six years of middle school, the highest level of the exam is the college entrance examination, all the other exams are partial rather than difficult, according to my habit of never doing exercises, it is strange to be able to win the students who are used to the sea of questions and tactics around me, the college entrance examination is the only time I can verify my contempt for the tactics of the sea of questions, I would rather gamble once, I studied for 6 years, just for this exam, this is a very enjoyable thing, I can't help but play in person. As a result, I took the third place in the liberal arts in Tianjin. I almost had a problem when I applied for the volunteer, I didn't know from the hearsay at the time, as long as I did well in the exam, I could enter the top 10 in Tianjin, even if I didn't apply for Peking University, Peking University teachers may also be exceptional.

Since we took the exam first and then registered, I was ready to go to Nankai, but on the day of the official application, the teacher in charge of admissions from Peking University made a special trip to our school, saying that he wanted to see why the group of students with the highest evaluation scores recruited 8 students in this school that I had never heard of, and easily smashed the rumor I heard, and successfully encouraged me to apply for the most secure department - the Department of Political Science (because the evaluation score was underestimated by 50 points, and the reason for not being confident enough), And after each column of volunteers, obedience is written. Later, I entered without suspense, and later, I knew that the admissions teacher was the secretary. Anyway, he brought me to Peking University and changed the trajectory of my life, and I will be forever grateful to him.

We had a sworn friend, and we stuck together for four or five years all day, and we hardly slept apart. It made me realize what it means to be a relative and brother, and how to be happy without heart and lungs That time was really a carefree and happy childhood, which laid the foundation for my healthy and upward character. At the same time, he was a year older than me and took me to learn English together, which led to me finishing secondary school English as soon as I graduated from primary school, and my English has been very good ever since.

Before the second year of junior high school, I have been a good student who studied seriously, junior high school in a foreign language school, is to go through the city's early recruitment, the city only recruited 80 people that year, I took the top 10 exams, the first year of junior high school was very easy, was a variety of training, the first semester was full of confidence to write the application for joining the group and joining the party, and the second year of junior high school also became the first cadre in the class to enter the student union. However, the final exam of the first semester of the second semester of junior high school inexplicably fell from the 3rd place in the class to the 30th place, and the whole sky became gray, so the second semester worked hard, got up early and returned late, studied hard, and made it like the college entrance examination, but the results of the second semester exam results were only 40th, and I spent more than four months to prove the uselessness of studying hard. From that moment on, I became cynical, stopped believing that you get what you worked for, and began to believe that the god of fate had a bad taste (now that I think about it, this change at the time was a bit ridiculous, but it was also a blessing in disguise).

As a result, I didn't waste too much energy on exam-oriented education in middle school, and the whole middle school years were colorful. This change determined my philosophy for the next 15 years.

At the time of the college entrance examination, because of the wrong volunteer, my file accidentally appeared airdrop (no school is willing to receive), our parents of that generation, have no experience in college, my mother went around looking for someone to find a relationship to let me go to college and was deceived, originally an undergraduate, and when I went to the school to sign up to know that it was a self-examinee, and at that time, there was no way to transfer to any school. I remember crying at home with my mother.

People in our hometown have been digging coal for generations, so it basically didn't make a difference between high school or college or technical school at that time, the only difference was that children who graduated from college could go to work in the pit. (Do not dig coal, serve coal digging).

My dad is not talented, graduated from technical school, and was assigned to the front line of coal digging as soon as he worked, and his complexion can be integrated with coal every day.

But my dad is not willing to flat-chest, no, he is unwilling to be mediocre, thinking about who he is, he is Hearthstone and his father, so he is motivated to be transferred to work in the pit.

This is when it comes to my father's father, that is, my grandfather, my grandfather is not talented, he has dedicated his life to the national coal industry, and he didn't even mix with a squad leader when he retired, and he was still an ordinary employee.

But my grandfather felt sorry for my father, and he also knew that my father was unwilling to dig coal, so he lowered his voice, went around the relationship for more than 800 miles, begged and begged, and finally gave my father a chance to have dinner with the mine manager.

Think about it, you are a small employee, you can eat with the invincible mine manager, what an opportunity, if you behave well, the sycophants are just right, and you will be able to soar properly, and you will be above 10,000 people at once.

For a moment, my dad fell into deep thought, and it seemed that he no longer knew what to do with the power and money that was about to arrive.

The time soon came to the day of the appointment, my dad carried two bottles of good wine that his grandfather bought for him and ran to the restaurant.

Here's the point. When my dad was out of Gong, I happened to meet my father's squad leader, master, and co-workers who had just gotten off work together, and my dad only said one sentence at the time: I will have dinner with the mine manager today, let's go and have a drink together.

When the mine manager saw my dad coming back with a dozen people, he must have thought to himself.

I'm afraid this is a trap.

In the process of growing up, a person will inevitably face many choices, and different choices will bring different results, which may change your destiny.

If a person does not have a turning point, he will inevitably not be able to grow. It is precisely after many turns that the mind has slowly matured, and the people have matured step by step. However, no matter what kind of turn you face, the most important thing is your mentality.

As long as you have a good attitude, no matter what you face, you will not be afraid.

It was the college entrance examination, because I did not do well in the college entrance examination and did not reach the ideal level, so I went to a junior college and has been working in a bank since graduation.

The turning point in my life was to marry a good husband, I used to fight alone, and it was very hard to do something, but after the two of us were together, my life changed, and everything changed for the better.

Fitness. Because since I started exercising, I have become more confident and energetic.

I think it was after graduating from the third year of high school that completely changed me, because after graduating from the third year of high school, I was admitted to a better university, and then in this university, I met friends, and their three views seriously affected me, then I understood, better to be a person, better to work hard, let me become better and better.