How to look at the people around you who are constantly in love

First of all, what everyone does is their own right, and we can't interfere with this, but I personally think that the number of times you fall in love shouldn't be too much, because the energy of liking a person is limited, and you can't take it out if you like it more, and you will lose interest in love more and more, which is obviously unfair to your other half, I think you should have a sense of reverence for love.

People's psychology is constantly changing with time and the outside world, and different times and places will produce different ideas. In fact, in the final analysis, there is still dissatisfaction, there is dissatisfaction when you are in love, and there is dissatisfaction after breaking up. It is difficult for people to be satisfied, so the cycle repeats itself and repeats itself.

What we have to do is to follow our hearts and go with the flow.

Some people may be afraid of being lonely, they can't get a sense of security, and they can't give others a sense of security, so they keep breaking up and falling in love, and they can't live alone or with the same person. I was afraid of being abandoned, so I chose to abandon others again and again.

After falling out of love, in order to relieve the heartache, some people will use alcohol to drown their sorrows, some people will eat and drink, some people will find friends to cry, some people will travel, and some people will immediately start a new relationship, this phenomenon is called in psychology"** Relationship".(rebound relationship), which is often seen by the person as a means to cheer up, or as a declaration of "breaking with the old life", and some people see it as a manifestation of their "strength". Actually,Relationships do have some short-term benefitsFor example, it can distract you, relieve your negative emotions, and regain the self-confidence you lost in a broken relationship.

Most people who choose to fall in love may not really want to find someone they love to be with, many of them see that the people around them are in love, so they are also itchy, and they have the urge to fall in love.

If you are alone, you will often feel very lonely, boys will generally use games to pass the time, girls will generally watch dramas and shop to pass the time, if you are not very self-controlled, it is easy to fall, many people around you always like to show affection, and the virtual world cannot meet your own needs. Therefore, I want to fall in love again.

I think that the psychological age of this kind of person is low, and this problem directly leads to their inability to know their emotional needs and life direction, which will make them constantly wander in the state of love and give up and persist.

I'm really thinking about this question. I've been in a relationship since I was in the sixth grade of elementary school, and so far, it's been 17 times. What will you think of me?

You might think I'm casual, abusive, or something. I don't know why I've been in love so many times unconsciously, obviously every time I'm serious, but it's always not long. The reasons for breaking up are also different, some are because of incompatible personalities, some are because they are green, and some are good to get together and disperse.

I'm a very tempting person, as long as I have a little bit of kindness to me, I will like each other, probably because I am too stupid. So it's no surprise that this relationship won't last long. However, I was still obsessed, and I thought it was true love when I was a little moved, which is why I fell in love so many times.

I can't stand the loneliness, but the requirements are high, and I still can't find the person I want.

One of the possible purposes of falling in love may be to cling to the reproduction of offspring from ancient times to the present, and to know yourself through falling in love. Love makes us realize that there is a human being of the opposite sex who has some similarities and differences with us in physiology and heart, and through contact with the opposite sex, we know ourselves better.

What is it for to fall in love.

Clarify self-awareness, love is the fantasy that exists in an independent individual, two individuals who are independent of each other, have such fantasies about each other, and put them into practice without purpose, this is love. We put the love we have learned into practice with the people we love, to care for and tolerate them, to understand our lovers, so that we can also learn how to communicate with other people, so that our interpersonal skills and social adaptability can be improved and matured.

What is it for to fall in love.

Falling in love is about whether two people are finally suitable for being together, and falling in love is about communicating with each other's hearts, and only when they finally understand can they find out the consummation of love. Falling in love can not be talked about with an irresponsible heart, can not be talked about with the mind of losing and losing, once it hurts the heart of a serious person, the consequences are very serious, for the peace of mind of a short life, for love or do not use cynicism to participate in it.

What is it for to fall in love.

The first choice for falling in love is to get married, and someone once said that not falling in love for the sake of marriage is called hooliganism. Of course, men and women must understand each other to a certain extent before they can talk about marriage. Falling in love for the sake of marriage is the basic view of most ordinary people, but when we are young and in love, we must clearly realize that nothing is absolute, and in the end, it is really not necessarily us.

Some people fall in love because they are lonely and need companionship. Some people fall in love with someone they love to marry.

Some people fall in love because they feel that everyone around them is in love, and they have to talk about one themselves. There are also some people who fall in love because they have met someone they can talk to.

The last, probably the most. Because many people don't think about falling in love, but when they meet someone who can fall in love, they can't miss it.

There are also some people who originally didn't want to fall in love, but at a certain moment, they found themselves extremely lonely, and they didn't even have someone to share with their lives.

The reason why a person wants to fall in love is to meet his emotional needs, after all, most people want to be loved and respected, and in the process of falling in love, they can let themselves get this experience of love.

When you reach a certain age, as your thoughts mature, you will naturally approach the opposite sex and have a good impression of her, and at this time a relationship will arise.

Falling in love is a social activity, which is the process of cultivating love or mutual interaction on the basis of love, mainly the exchange and communication between the two parties. Generally speaking, if you are in sincere contact, support each other, make progress together, and achieve each other.

Because of love, people will be together after they meet.

Share and share the joys and sorrows of life together. Eat breakfast together, go on a trip together, and enjoy the beauty of life together.

Falling in love makes people look younger and smarter. Thinking is more active and more creative. was originally a very calm and monotonous state of life, but because of love, people feel very fulfilled.

Because there is one more person in this world who is close to your heart and thinks about it day and night. The darkness becomes no longer afraid, and there is no need to worry about difficulties.

People who are in love are easier to get along with because they are both immersed in joy and blind to the shortcomings of others. Therefore, it is easier to be tolerant of others, and I feel that my friends have become cute, and their shortcomings are completely negligible.

So how should we approach falling in love?

1. Don't be too anxious.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, not your one-man show, so you can't be too anxious when you fall in love, because it's useless to be anxious, don't do something radical in order to be able to confirm the relationship with each other.

When falling in love, girls and boys think differently, boys care about the result, while girls enjoy the process, girls want to fall in love with boys stage by stage, so boys must not be too anxious when they fall in love!

2. Be careful when giving gifts to girls.

When many boys are in love, in order to brush up their favorability, they will give girls some gifts, which is correct, but you should also pay attention to the choice of gifts, according to the girl's preferences. You also need to pay attention to your financial ability, if you can't afford to give expensive gifts, then it is also a good choice to choose some handmade gifts that can represent your heart.

3. Take the initiative to create opportunities.

When a man is in love, he must learn to seize every opportunity that can promote the relationship, but if there is no opportunity, then he must create opportunities, such as often asking each other out for dinner, movies, weekend plays, sending her home after work, etc., to create opportunities to be alone as much as possible.

4. Hide from her He went to meet the opposite sex. Love is exclusive, exclusive, exclusive, in love should be honest with each other, whether there is affection or no feelings, you should tell him, not hide to meet another person who has a good feeling.

5. Do things that go against the principles. Everyone has their own principles, and when men and women fall in love, they will also involve values and outlook on life, and they will also tell their beloved another half of the principle, and they should pay attention to avoid doing things that violate the principles and hurt each other's feelings.

1.If you love someone, you want to give him all the good. But to get someone, you can't be too nice to him, because the more you give, the less he will cherish it.

Love is to give without reservation, but life is to give and reciprocate. When you blindly love someone, it's not life, it's masochism. Happiness is the one you love, and he loves you.

It is you who take care of people, and others take care of you.

Love is mutual, not unrequited.

Some things will always pass, some feelings will always be in my heart, I have heard the songs you have heard, watched the movies you have watched, time passes, and I silently bless you. Hongchen's ferry, people come and go, if next time, I still have the fate to meet you, I hope the ending is the rest of my life.

2.The beauty of love lies in its uncertainty, we look at it with an open mind, love is an experience, a feeling we can choose to experience or choose not to experience, there is no right or wrong, as long as our actions and inner thoughts are consistent, there will be no consumption. If you choose to experience, you have to be attentive, just like happiness is to experience sadness, and at this time, don't be too externally de-materialized, for example:

Love must have what kind of result, what kind of result, but more to **** their own heart, our own inner things we face, we assume our own responsibility, you do it, you do it right, the world is good.

3.Love is a metaphysics, some people may be in the eyes of others, but in the eyes of some people can shine, sometimes we will be tempted by a person at this moment, it is determined by our history, our growth is determined, for example, in that person to see the ideal self, to see the former self, in short, we see the shining point.