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Honestly, I feel a little lonely once in a while. The more I grow up, the more I feel that there are few friends who can communicate, either they don't have the patience to listen to you, or they listen very seriously but can't understand, or they understand but are diametrically opposed to your three views. Beijing is a very lively city, the culture is classical and gorgeous, the Beijing accent is tactful and melodious, the old houses in the community are very quiet, and most of the people who live are old men and old women.
At night, listening to the sound of grandpa calling his grandson, the sound of pots and spoons colliding, the sound of couples arguing, and smelling the thick smoke and fireworks, I feel that life is actually quite real. Sometimes I feel homesick. The craving for stuffed animals increases.
The bed is soft and more secure. When you go to bed, lock the door and close the window, turn down the volume of the mobile phone, and make a small song to fall asleep. It's another day when you wake up.
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I once drifted north, worked as a programmer in Beijing, at that time I was alone, a small house of less than ten square meters, because our work is a weekend, and when it comes to weekends, I usually continue to learn some professional foundations in my own home, but occasionally I will go out to play, go back to visit some places of interest in Beijing, go back to shoot some **, I think a person's life is actually quite good, and it is quite interesting, and you can also cultivate your own sense of independence.
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I have only been working for a year, the company is very good, I am not a good person, I am not a technical material, I am willing to fight, I am willing to learn, but no one brings it. Recently, I have considered changing careers, I have investment, my life is quite comfortable, and I can't buy luxury goods, but I can ensure a high-quality quality of life and a steady self-improvement. Wake up at 6 a.m. every morning to run, more than seven kilometers.
Next to it is the campus of Shenzhen University, well, very beautiful. Get off work at eight o'clock in the evening, come back and memorize words, getting off work at eight o'clock is not overtime, it is okay to work overtime. The most annoying thing now is that no one cares, there is no work, and I am studying on my own all day, and I feel that I am coming to the end of my career.
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Moonlight Clan, even if you earn close to 10,000 a month, you will spend about the same amount in the end. All kinds of overtime work makes you have no time to get to know the girl, and in the end you have to be alone in front of the computer all the time.
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In Guangzhou, the monthly income is more than 10,000 points, but there is only 7500 after tax, the rent and water and electricity are 2200-2300, and I cook my own meals on weekends, but the fruit store and fresh food store outside the community are expensive, and there is no money left in a month anyway.
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It's better than at home, I want to sleep until what time I sleep, after returning to my hometown for the New Year, I was woken up by my parents every day, I slept late every day after three or four o'clock, but I was woken up by my parents at seven or eight o'clock in the morning, and I didn't sleep well every day, or I was woken up by my parents not long after I fell asleep, and I was very depressed every day, and I felt that my life expectancy would be reduced in the long run, and I wanted to go back to Beijing, or tell them that I rented a house across the building, and I really couldn't stand it.
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There are a lot of parks in Shanghai, and I like to go to the parks, and I can visit them for most of the day every time. There will always be aunts and uncles in the park who perform various talents, flute playing, erhu playing, tai chi, and dancing. Every time I go to the park, I feel that life is very comfortable.
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I feel lonely for a long time, this kind of loneliness is not the same as what people on Zhihu often say, others are lonely because they improve themselves and don't immerse themselves in inefficient circles of friends or something, and I'm lonely, it's really lonely, I just don't have anyone to eat with, no one to commute to work with, and I don't seem to have too many friends to hang out with on weekends.
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Every day is normal. When I got back from work, there was a small court downstairs at home. Usually there are not many people, only one half court, as long as it doesn't rain, they will go down to play basketball for more than an hour.
The feeling of sweating is very pleasant. Because the stadium is an active community in the village, as long as the aunts who dance the square dance open every day, it means that the stadium is open. The ** they dance is very earthy.
I sing every song.
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I used to be a person who never cooked at home, but after I arrived in Beijing, I was forced by life to start my own life. Then my cooking skills were stimulated, the first time I stir-fried the dish, not salty or light, just right, the first time I boiled porridge, not thin or thick, just right. When it comes to cooking, I'm starting to have more and more firsts.
I am not good at cooking, but I like to learn to cook.
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Get up in the morning, ride a bicycle for ten minutes to the flower room, use a broom to clean up the fallen leaves of the previous night, then boil water to make tea, arrange the plants, place the bouquets, and do these things about noon, after lunch, start the office.
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On weekdays, I cook my own meals, but I usually only eat a few fixed dishes, which are the ones that burn faster, and then repeat them once a week. Occasionally, on weekends, I will find a recipe and change it to a new taste, making a braised chicken feet, braised pork, corn rib soup and the like.
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In Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, the salary is more than 10,000, it is better to be at home 5,000, so few people go, in ** is to make money and the name is good, my monthly salary is more than 10,000.
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Three o'clock a day in a single line. An empty nest youth.
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The answer to this question will vary depending on factors such as region, industry, individual ability, etc. However, here are some aspects that may be worth noting:
1.Region: The income and expenses of renting a house in a big city are usually higher. If you're in a city with higher housing prices, such as Beijing or Shanghai, it may take longer than in a smaller city.
2.Industry: Wages and benefits vary greatly between industries and occupations, such as finance, technology, medicine, and other industries. Also, the speed and opportunities for career advancement vary from industry to industry, which can also affect your salary.
3.Personal Abilities and Career Planning: In addition to industry and regional factors, each person's abilities and career plans are also factors that affect income.
By continuously learning and improving their skills, participating in courses such as pre-job training and career planning, you can increase your competitiveness, so that it is easier to achieve your goals.
In general, young people renting in big cities need to take into account their own situation, as well as effective career planning and continuous improvement of their ability to increase their income. It is advisable to provide yourself with a stable life and career prospect as much as possible if you are financially able to achieve the freedom of renting as quickly as possible.
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As urbanization continues to advance, more and more people are flocking to big cities. Although many people are plagued by the high cost of living, high housing prices, and traffic congestion in big cities, there are still a large number of people who insist on choosing to squeeze into big cities. The reasons and motivations for this are diverse, and I will analyze and explain them from the following aspects.
First of all, there are relatively many development opportunities and job opportunities in big cities, so many people choose to work hard in big cities in the hope of getting more development opportunities and better career prospects. In big cities, people can access more industries, a wider market, increase their experience and capabilities, and are more likely to obtain better salaries and career advancement opportunities.
Secondly, the educational resources in big cities are relatively good, and parents can choose to move to big cities for their children's future. Big cities have relatively more and better educational resources, which can provide children with more and better learning opportunities and environment, cultivate and improve their comprehensive quality, and improve their competitiveness.
Third, the quality of life and cultural atmosphere in large cities are relatively high. Big cities have more cultural venues, art exhibitions, cultural activities such as conferences, and more entertainment venues such as restaurants, cafes, and shopping malls, bringing more diversity and richness to people's lives. This is also one of the reasons why many people choose to live in big cities.
However, going to a big city also comes with its own set of problems and risks. First of all, the cost of living is high, and people's expenses also increase, which can be a big burden for those with lower incomes. Secondly, housing prices in big cities are high, and it has become very difficult for ordinary people to buy a house.
In addition, the large population also leads to traffic congestion, air pollution and other problems, which pose a potential threat to people's physical and mental health.
In short, whether to go to a big city or not to go should be considered according to the actual situation of the individual. If you want to learn about Hu's career and development opportunities, you can choose to go to a big city; If it is for a better life and educational resources, you can consider relocating to a big city. However, going to a big city also requires adequate preparation and planning.
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Reasons why young people like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou:
First, there are many employment opportunities in big cities, there is a broad space for development, and the accumulation of contacts and resources is also wider than in other places.
Second, the privileged life in a big city is a place that everyone yearns for, and if you are in a small city, you may not even have a high-end restaurant. But in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, French, Italian, and so on. The bustling city life is also the motivation for young people to work hard in big cities.
Third, self-satisfaction, being able to work in a big city, for people in their hometowns, they all show envious eyes, they can not only win glory for their families, but also have more face. And everyone will think that as long as they can stay in the big city and work, they must be more promising.
Fourth, high wages are the most practical thing, Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are first-tier cities, while the consumption level is high, the salary is also relatively high, and the benefits are better, generally regular companies will give five insurances or five insurances and one housing fund, so that life is more secure for young people.
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Perhaps unlike most people, when I came out of campus, my biggest feeling was not the reality of society, but the absurdity of society.
Cities are like prisons, companies are like prison cells, and countless prisoners are willingly trapped in prisons and cells, surviving humbly for a hopeless and meaningless goal.
Countless people have sold their bodies and souls for a little so-called profit. They don't know that what they pay for value is the most valuable part of themselves.
As I walked down the street and saw the tall buildings that covered the sky and the sun, I couldn't understand why anyone would be willing to give their life to buy a house in such a place.
When I saw the shopping mall full of goods that didn't really mean anything, and groups of people pushing shopping carts and carrying shopping bags, I felt that it was not only the waste pickers who picked up the garbage, but also more people who were willing to pay their money for the garbage, as if then the garbage they bought would become unique and noble.
I sat on the subway and saw a car of people's heads, staring at the screen of their mobile phones, scrolling through WeChat and Weibo, their expressions scattered and frivolous, their eyes empty and dull, as if they were a car of zombies, not living creatures with souls.
All the people are busy, running, but they don't know why they are busy, why they are running.
It's just that they follow the rules, go forward and follow each other, and perish in the surging torrent of the times.
No one realizes that they can jump out, but pulls others into it.
For society, the economy has become the only indicator.
For individuals, making money has become the only business.
How ridiculous, how pathetic. It's not against people living in cities.
I just hope that everyone will stay sober, keep their original intentions, and don't lose themselves for the sake of things outside their bodies.
After all, people are not machines, and there are more things worth pursuing.
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First of all, Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou represent Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, all three of which are first-tier cities in China. It is also a few cities that we in China are focusing on building. Therefore, it also attracts a lot of people who want to develop in this city, because a good city means better resources and room for improvement.
This includes the level of wages as well as the size of the company. In cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, they are all top-notch. Therefore, every year, there are many high-level talents who choose to come to Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou to work after graduation.
In addition to wanting to broaden their horizons, they also want to have a job with a higher salary, after all, young people are still more willing to enjoy the present and think less about the future, which is also the charm of big cities like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, so it is very attractive to young people.
Secondly, I personally think that in fact, the pressure of going to work in a city like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou is very high, because if you don't have any background, it is actually more difficult to go to these big cities rashly, especially at the beginning, you will definitely not be able to move an inch, after all, all your resources, including the relationship of contacts, are not there, you can only rely on yourself, if you do not have a skill, then it is difficult to survive, even if you can stand firm, if there is not much room for development, That also doesn't make much sense, after all, your home is not there, and society is very realistic. If you start a family, you have to have a lot of expenses, especially in big cities, although the salary is higher, but the daily consumption will be higher, you have to rent a house and eat, wear, live and travel, compared with the consumption level of your hometown, the cost is very high, so it will be more relaxed and warm in your hometown.
Finally, Bo Kai, I think you can still go to these cities in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou while you are young, after all, there is only one life in life, and it is actually a pity not to go to a big city like Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou to have a look. Because everyone has a dream of a better life in their hearts. And these big cities will have better living conditions and living conditions, which is what many people want.
Whether to choose comfort or prefer to draw is also the thing that young people now think about the most. I think you still have to consider your actual situation, consider your family conditions, and make your own plan for your future, so that it is more suitable for you. After all, where there is a home, there is warmth, and only then can you have a more complete and wonderful life.
If it is about the same salary, then I think that in terms of climate, the four cities of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen should be the first choice for Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the two cities in Lingnan. There is smog in Beijing, I really can't afford to hurt it, it hurts my lungs too much. When I think about how much I breathe in particulate matter every day, it's actually quite desperate; Shanghai is in East China, not counting the north, but its climatic conditions are really not as good as Lingnan, and it is also very hot when it is hot, and much colder than Guangzhou and Shenzhen when it is cold. >>>More
It's very difficult, in this kind of environment, the vast majority of the jobs you find use cheap labor, about 3000 to 4000 yuan a month, even if you take your undergraduate diploma and go around peddling, few people are willing to pay, because there are so many college students in this city.
I think Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are the places with the most opportunities because they have a high level of economy and a high quality of education.
Because of freedom, although the pressure is great, but freedom, more opportunities, more choices, no background, no background, no background, at least in the big city can rely on their own hard work, in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, the way of thinking, mentality and aspects will be relatively strong, because of the pressure, use more brains. , live comfortably in your hometown, obey your family's arrangements, find a stable job, and preferably be able to do it for a lifetime. When you reach marriageable age and have no partner, you have to be arranged on a blind date. >>>More
I have just graduated and come to Shenzhen, living in Luohu's job search apartment, a total of 3 rooms, 8 people in each, only one toilet, the only inconvenient thing every day is to grab the toilet with a group of people at night, and someone will go in if you don't pay attention. Such a bed was originally 300 per month, but then everyone else wanted to turn on the air conditioner, so my monthly rent increased to 450. Come to Shenzhen to make money, if you just live, your hometown will be very easy, young people who have just come to Shenzhen, thinking not about how to live, but how to withstand the pressure,