If you endure hardship, you will definitely be able to become a person? 5

Of course not! It has a lot to do with the direction of suffering and the mentality when enduring hardship.

For example, he is also a plasterer, and A is a plasterer all his life in order to survive. (Of course, there's no shame in that).

B studied how to make modeling more beautiful, and later became an architectural designer.

C paid great attention to the harmony between the building and its surroundings, and whether it brought convenience and pleasure to people, and later became the mayor.

Hehe... It's pure fabrication, I hope it helps a little.

I haven't made any progress for seven years, and I'm still a workshop worker, so how can I make money.

Hehe, I believe in a sentence: there will always be a reward for paying. To become a master, you must not only endure hardships, but the most important thing is what you have learned from it, and whether you have made progress!

Enduring hardship does not necessarily lead to becoming a person, but it is very important to endure hardship to exercise a person's will. People have to go through a lot of things in their lives, we don't know what we will face in the next moment, when facing the tribulations of life, the person who really helps you is actually yourself, so experience is the wealth of life. Parents can't be with us forever, but they want you to have the ability to face difficulties alone, communicate with your parents with gratitude, and let yourself mature.

Exercising your will is loving you, and when you understand, you really grow up and mature.

Why do you think your family doesn't want you to sit in the office? Also, you have to learn to be independent.

It depends on what kind of hardship you endure, and there is also a key to hardship. While enduring hardships, you must also learn to interact with others and improve interpersonal relationships. You're definitely a hard-working type. Now Chinese society pays attention to human feelings and sophistication!

Think about it, the difference between sitting in an office and being a worker, how to change from a worker to a white-collar worker? What are you missing? Juniors are not talented.

Clause. 1. Your ability is not what you think, it is what others say, just like your value must be reflected in the eyes of others.

Clause. Second, the opportunity is not waiting for it, but it is found on your own initiative.

Clause. 3. Do you think that the person who has become your subordinate will convince you of the position you have obtained through social connections? You're definitely going to point fingers behind your back, so what are you going to do when the time comes, you won't fire all your employees, right?

Clause. Fourth, no one parents are happy to see their children get ahead, your family does not give you a relationship must have their reasons and hardships, just your current mentality I feel that you are not suitable to do office work, you do not know how to consider others, always complain that their situation is not good but do not find a way to change by themselves, but blindly rely on the family, this alone is enough to conclude that you can not do it for a long time even if you sit in which position. If you are really talented and powerful, why don't you just go to your leaders and talk about promotion?

Also, workers do manual work do not need to move their heads, but the office is different, the office is administrative, more often need wisdom, they can not understand technology, but can not understand management, each position has its own importance, you should be proud of your work, you have the ability to make a worker emperor, you can use your head to think about how to improve your products, and then at the right time to bring it up with the boss, even if not, Your boss will definitely remember you as an employee who is willing to use his brain and love his work, and your future benefits will be indispensable.

It means that only by eating hard can you gain fame and wealth and become a person who is respected and loved by others. Genus: Beginning; Person: refers to a person with outstanding talents.

From: Ming Feng Menglong.

"Warning the World: Yutang Spring Falls Rare to Meet a Husband". People must learn to endure hardships, and the more hardships they endure, the more things they will understand, and only by relying on these things can they surpass others.

People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. It is a human being who has a positive spirit, just like water flowing to a low-lying place, and only then can he become a superior person. In fact, this is to tell people that a difficult environment can temper talents. Just like Mencius.

The article "Born in Sorrow, Died in Peace".

"Therefore, the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically, so they are motivated to endure and benefit what they cannot."

If this theory is true, then the richest should be social animals or sanitation workers.

Human beings are born to be bitter, from birth, old age, sickness, death, love and separation, resentment, unwantedness, and the prosperity of the five aggregates, which one is not bitter?

But enduring hardships and success are two different things, and enduring hardships can only prove that you are more diligent than others, or it can only prove that your method is wrong.

There is a general rule in nature that the more you evolve to the top, the less labor you pay, and the higher the dividends you enjoy. Referring to the world of ants, those who are tired and tired are the lowest worker ants, to put it bluntly, they are tool people, but the queen ant who stands at the top is not doing any work, the queen bee is also, and the male lion in the lion pack is even more so.

The same is true for people, the more people who stand at the top, the more so, from the president of a company to the leader of a country, the most thing they do every day is to input and receive, to put it bluntly, they listen to others, then think for themselves, and finally tell others.

Some friends may say that the process before becoming the president must be more difficult than others, otherwise they will not be able to achieve that position.

This is really not necessarily, the reason is very simple, for example, a takeaway brother who earns 100,000 a month, or a scientist who earns 100,000 a month, which one do you admire more? Don't think about it, it must be a scientist, because the two are definitely more difficult for scientists in terms of the difficulty of the challenge, but judging from the cost of physical fitness, time, and energy paid by the two, the takeaway brother seems to pay more, because its income is proportional to time.

What does this mean, the division of wealth in this world is not more than who can endure hardship, but the choice of track, which has nothing to do with opportunities, luck, and other objective factors, a takeaway brother, if he wants to achieve financial freedom, it is basically impossible to become the so-called "human superior", unless he has 240 hours a day.

And the saying that "only by suffering in the midst of hardship can you become a superior person" is equivalent to the ancient theory from the current point of view, when the industrial organization is not close and everyone is still fighting alone, it is when society is at the lowest level of efficiency, everyone is 24 hours a day, and I work an hour more than others, so I am one hour ahead. But now it doesn't work at all, you work 240 hours a day and you can't use it, people lie down and sleep at home, and the computer calculates a bitcoin and you can declare the game over.

It's hard to say, everyone's opportunities are different, and for ordinary people, enduring the hardships of learning is the most effective path to success.

"If you eat hard, you will become a superior person" is a traditional proverb in our country, which means that only by eating a lot of hardships can you gain fame and wealth and become a person respected by others. Everyone may have a bad environment, bumpy times, and hard work. To put it more seriously, it can almost be said that before each of us was born into this world, we were destined to bear the fate of going through all kinds of hardships and sufferings.

But that is not to say that there is no joy in the world or that life is worthless. Although we are destined to rely on labor and work to maintain our lives, although we are destined to have seven emotions and six desires to taste all kinds of joys and sorrows in the world; But on the other hand, we have the opportunity to appreciate this world with the fragrance of birds and flowers, we still have the wisdom to appreciate the true meaning of human suffering and happiness, and we also have the mood to appreciate the preciousness of human love, kindness and compassion. All in all, the gains were worth the price we paid.

I often compare life to a journey, where toil and suffering are counted as travel expenses that we cannot afford to spend. And in this journey, we can get a variety of colorful experiences. When we are in pain, it can be regarded as our journey of wading through water, mountains, narrow roads, and dangerous bridges.

And when we are happy, it is when we arrive at the beautiful place, unload our bags, wash away the wind and dust, and enjoy the lingering. Just like traveling, don't stay in one scenic spot forever, but only stop for a while, and then pack your bags and go to find another place. Therefore, we should take the joys and sorrows of the world for granted.

When business is going well, the money is rolling in, inexhaustible, and it is a good time. Once encountering risks and adversity, they will have to live a hard life of food and clothing, and people who are not strong enough will inevitably end this trip in a hurry when adversity comes, and admit their failures early; And if we are strong enough, we should understand that we are here to go through these risks.

Because you have to endure hardship, you can be able to do what others can't, and then you can become a master.

Good daughter-in-law's life wisdom No. 48.