How to deal with her, what to do if you are upset?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Your relationship is seriously deformed, and it would have been over long ago without your support. According to you, there are more problems between you, and maybe you don't have all of them. It feels like you don't know your girlfriend, even after five years of talking, you don't really know her, and I feel like she is understating this relationship.

    What circle of people you get along with will affect your values and judgment of life. Since your girlfriend likes to get along with people who have a nightlife, you can see that she is not a person who is willing to be lonely and poor. Until she finds a man who can replace you at all, she will never let go of you, a man who feels full of feelings and is infatuated.

    But once she weighed the pros and cons of leaving you, then that day, he cleared like a fog. Brother, the length of time in love really doesn't explain the problem, the key is the tacit understanding, love, understanding and support, and trust in the process of getting along with two people. You give us the feeling that this love is only exhaustion and pain.

    In fact, I ask you a question: if you had a dirty and expensive restaurant near your home, would you visit it again and again because it was convenient? Presumably yours is impossible.

    Then your relationship with your girlfriend is like this. You're just a fool who falls on a tree and your life becomes a mess. Try to solve it and get out, and your life is a new world again.

    There are really a lot of good women, don't deny everything because of a failure in your relationship, good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The child is born by himself, he must be reluctant, but think about it, what kind of damage will be caused to the child's soul if it goes on like this, my brother also grew up in such an environment, he wants to die many times, think about the child!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why bother to let Zhao Luo and talk about it, let me talk about it, how can I say that my father is old.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you should go out to rent a room now, your wife and children, you go out to earn money to support them, stay away from your parents, talk to your wife well, don't take that road without lights for the sake of your children, it's not good for anyone, I'm also very bad now, and you're in a similar situation, but the difference is that the reason is on me, there must be gains and losses, I wish you to reconcile with her as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This woman is too irresponsible, you will suffer in the future, and the child will not learn well with her, but now many people are like you, thinking of children, they can't bear to divorce, you love him too much, too tolerant of him, but this tolerance is limited, you are now almost reaching the limit, you are not happy, but you have no other way than divorce, unless you can continue to endure it! He's going to get worse, and you can't expect him to turn back now!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Big brother, such a good person, why waste it on such a woman, I personally think that it is better to break up with her (don't mind, I personally think).

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you are upset, please be sure to open this bag.

    1, Cao Cao has a confidant no matter how rape he is, and no matter how good Liu Bei is, he has a rival.

    Don't care too much about what others say about you, be your own person, do your own thing, and go your own way.

    2. It's yours and will always be yours.

    It's not yours, no matter how you earn it or how you rob it, it won't belong to you.

    There are times in life that you need to have, and there are times in life when you don't want to ask for it.

    3. It's not that you can talk about it, it's suitable to be together.

    It's not that if you fit in, you can be together.

    It's not that if you can be together, you will always be together.

    It's not like you'll be happy forever together.

    4. The most urgent thing to go is the most beautiful scenery.

    What hurts the most is the truest feelings.

    5. When your friends say that you are crazy, success is not far from you.

    6. In the face of facts, the more developed your imagination, the more unimaginable the consequences will be.

    7. The earth is in motion, and a person cannot be in an unlucky position forever.

    Don't look at me wearing pants today, one day the dragon will wear the phoenix.

    Feng Shui takes turns, rather bullying the white bearded man than bullying the poor youth.

    8. You will never see the tears in my eyes, because I will only cry when you are away.

    I will not cry in front of you, because I tell myself that to be a man is to be angry.

    9. The three sorrows of life:

    You can't get rid of living with someone you hate, the person you love so much has left you, and you can't get what you want so much.

    Affordable. I can put it down.

    Don't force it. in order to live a wonderful life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your girlfriend really likes you, I'm sure her family won't diswelcome you. It's just a housewarming wine.,It's good if the mind arrives.。。 Or how big a difference is there between 4'5,000, of course, this kind of thing, the speaker has no intention of listening, and the listener has a heart.

    You have to remember that she may be your future mother-in-law, and what is the problem of face, after all, if you want to marry her daughter, you will still have a long time to be nagged by her. As for your girlfriend pulling you to the Internet, you're worried that it will leave a bad impact, don't worry at all, it's nothing, you're going out with their daughter, not with other women. Hehe, there is a long way to go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Get out for a walk and go to a quiet and cool place to relax.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Adjust your mentality, you are your best psychologist, and mentality is an attitude that people have towards things. Everyone has many desires in their lives, and they all hope that they will earn more money, have a smooth career, become a bigger official, and live a happier life... The question is that people can't do everything well, and when these desires can't be satisfied, what kind of mentality do we have to deal with them?

    Mentality indicates a person's mental state, as long as you have a good attitude, you can maintain a full mood every day. Good mentality, good luck to learn to adjust the mentality, with a good mentality work will have direction, as long as people do not lose the direction will not lose themselves. The quality of the mentality lies in the timely adjustment and cultivation of the usual time and the formation of habits.

    So you should regulate yourself:

    1.Less desire, 2Climb less, 3Mindset balance point, 4Contentment and happiness are more , 5Change what you can, accept what you can't, and don't lose yourself

    6.Live according to your abilities and don't let other people's living conditions dictate your mood.

    What is a person's life pursuing?

    Life is a process, not a point. Life is about the process! Life lies in every day, and this every day is unique and cannot be repeated, so we should make every day, every minute of our own beauty, and happiness. It's okay! Come on.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go and see something you like, get your attention, and try not to think about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Brother, I suggest you go and listen to the song to calm down!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Disturbed minds suggest a few ways to regulate your mood:

    1. You can confide in your good friends. Telling a good friend about your psychological disorder is an effective way to regulate your mood, and it is also one of the most commonly used methods. But it should be noted that there should be a degree of telling, otherwise too many negative emotions will bring to friends, and there will be times when friends can't stand it!

    2. Transfer method. When you're in a bad mood, you can shift your attention, such as doing something that requires more attention, or devoting yourself to nature, and your mood can improve significantly. 3. Be kind to yourself.

    You can indulge yourself once, treat yourself to something good or buy yourself a gift!

    4. Daydreaming. When you are unhappy, it is of course best to find a place where no one is safe and natural, relax your whole body, and enter into meditation mentally. What you can't get in reality gets in meditation.

    Slowly returning from meditation to reality, unhappy things are less upset!

    5. Cry bitterly. After crying a lot, I really feel better psychologically, and it is said that I can also discharge toxins!

    Hope you are in a good mood!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What to do when you're in a bad mood, I think that's when you can go out for a walk, chat with friends, and go shopping. Get friends together. You'll feel better this way, or go on an outing and do something you like.

    Don't put pressure on yourself, relax yourself, don't want unpleasant things, as the saying goes, there is no flame that can't be passed!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then put aside the things that disturb you, and make yourself relaxed, such as traveling with friends for a while, of course, you can also take the opportunity to talk to your friends about the problems that disturb you, and let him give you advice. You can also have a good time playing, playing ball with friends, dancing and so on, and then think about it while you're completely relaxed. Hope to adopt, thank you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The mind is very chaotic and thinks a lot, and there are many reasons for this situation, such as stress, nervousness, nervousness, nervousness, etc.

    It is important to keep your mood comfortable, soak your feet in hot water before going to bed, so as to keep your mood comfortable, relieve your worries, and eliminate your worries.

    To have a good quality of sleep, the spirit is good, and the mood is naturally good!

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