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If this is the reason alone that your mother opposes. Boys should be asked to behave. For example, do things steadily, learn well, work efficiently and so on. Let parents see hope, and there will be hope of economic strength in the future. Slowly reversing her perceptions.
Every parent wants their children to live a happy life, and they must have a reason for their opposition, and they will not harm their children. Analyze with a calm heart. After all, the long road of life in the future is not dependent, I love him very much and I can live!
Bless you to be in love with your beloved for a long time.
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Perceptions will change, not to mention that maybe your boyfriend will be very productive in the future. It's the world of big women now, and the person who gets married is you, not your mother, so the decision is up to you!!
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Maybe it would be better for him to change a little, and talk to your mom about it.
You can find your father, uncle, aunt or something, persuade you, and say something nice. It is a stone of the mountain, which can be used as a jade!
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My mom thinks the same way.
In fact, if you think about it, if your parents want to help you find a good condition, isn't it also so that you will not suffer in the future?
That's how you can figure it out.
You ask her if it's important in the present or in the future?
You ask her; If a person is very rich now, his family conditions are very good, but his character is corrupt, and he does not seek to be motivated, do you want to?
If a person wants to be virtuous now, if he wants to be virtuous or talented, do you want to?
The best analogy is used.
There's a hen and a basket of eggs in front of her, and I ask her which one to pick.
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Try to do the thought work of your parents.
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Do your ideological work well.
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<> is it because my mother is doing badly? Why do you have such an idea?
I don't like what mom does.
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<> is it because my mother is doing badly? Why do you have such an idea?
First of all, we need to understand that the most important thing is to plant in our minds the idea that my mother is the woman who loves me the most in the world. As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, no matter how much grievances you have suffered from your mother, don't break out, you will never be able to understand how much pain she experienced in order to let you come to this world.
Then, we should sort out our mother's thoughts, and then understand what we really think in our hearts. Mothers do everything for the good of their children. Be more considerate of Mom.
We need to calmly tell her what we are thinking, and show that you understand her thoughts, and then slowly convince her.
If you don't like girls, maybe it's just your momentary thoughts, you have to control your feelings, focus on your studies, and when you have achievements, you feel proud in your heart, maybe your thoughts are different.
The main life is a wonderful life.
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You have to let him know that although he works in the factory that your family opens, he must have a sense of time, and he must be serious and responsible for his work, and he can't come if he can't think about it, and other people in the factory will also pay attention to his every move behind his back, and only if he works hard, others will give him a high score behind his back, and will say that you chose the right person, so your mother's attitude towards him will also change, because as parents love their children very much, the conditions of your family should be very good, and they don't ask you to find a very capable person. But this person must be diligent and capable, what kind of work is not very important, as long as there is a sense of doing things in a down-to-earth way, in addition, you also have to test whether he is really good to you, or for the sake of your family's conditions to be good to you, this is very important. Happiness is to be earned by yourself, and the opinions of others can only be used as a reference, hoping that you will be happy.