Mom doesn t like my husband very much, what to do, I m very difficult in the middle

You have to let him know that although he works in the factory that your family opens, he must have a sense of time, and he must be serious and responsible for his work, and he can't come if he can't think about it, and other people in the factory will also pay attention to his every move behind his back, and only if he works hard, others will give him a high score behind his back, and will say that you chose the right person, so your mother's attitude towards him will also change, because as parents love their children very much, the conditions of your family should be very good, and they don't ask you to find a very capable person. But this person must be diligent and capable, what kind of work is not very important, as long as there is a sense of doing things in a down-to-earth way, in addition, you also have to test whether he is really good to you, or for the sake of your family's conditions to be good to you, this is very important. Happiness is to be earned by yourself, and the opinions of others can only be used as a reference, hoping that you will be happy.

In fact, many things may not be something you can change, like you said, the first one, your mother thinks it's not good, so you divide it, and you still feel bad when you're looking for one, then you should ask your mother why she thinks it's bad? Being caught in the middle is the most painful thing! Feel the same way as you!

You are virtuous and virtuous, a role model for women today!

My husband and I have been married for three years, and now my husband has a very big opinion of my mother's family and is very indifferent to me. Usually I don't take the initiative to talk to my husband at home, he almost doesn't look at me, and my husband's attitude makes me very chilled. What's more, my husband always likes to pick on my parents' thorns, I feel that what my parents do is wrong, every time I go back to my parents' house, my husband will be very angry, he is afraid that I will take the things from the house back to my parents' house, my husband has been like this I am about to collapse, I don't know when such a day is a head!

My husband's family is very rich, but their family is very picky, and my husband's money is never let me take care of it, so I haven't spent a cent of his salary. After we got married, we all earned our own money and spent it ourselves, but even so, my husband was still dissatisfied with me and my mother's family.

When we got married, my parents asked my husband for a bride price of 20,000 yuan, but my husband didn't want to give it. In order not to embarrass my husband's family, my parents didn't ask for this money. Later, when I got married, my parents gave me another 20,000 yuan.

I feel that it is not easy for my parents to earn money in their lives, and I have to provide for my younger brother to go to college, so I didn't ask for the money my parents gave me to dowry, and my husband has a very big opinion on this matter.

After I got married, my husband often said that I didn't have the same heart with their family, and that I didn't want the dowry given by my parents. I was very angry when I heard my husband say this, the bride price money was not paid by my husband's family, but he felt that the dowry money given by my parents was taken for granted, thinking that my husband was really too much. My husband has always looked down on my mother's family, and he always likes to pick on the thorns in my parents' back, all kinds of dislike for my parents, every time my parents come to our house to see me, my husband deliberately puts on a face to show them, because we have quarreled a lot about this.

Now that we have been married for three years, the relationship between my husband and my parents is getting more and more stiff. No matter how I mediate or be wild in the middle, my husband is determined to get along with my parents. I feel it now, my husband and my mother's family have a big problem, and they are accumulating little things one by one, as if they are waiting to break out at any time!