The boy spat at the hot pot at the adjacent table, what should the adjacent table do more reasonably

13-year-old Juanjuan (pseudonym), who is in her first year of junior high school this year, won the top five in the final exam, so her parents took her to eat hot pot to celebrate.

After more than ten minutes of queuing, the waiter arranged for Juanjuan's family to be seated, and the adjacent table happened to be a family of three, and the parents took a son, who looked about 6 years old.

Juanjuan and they had been chatting while waiting for the food to be served, when some voices of arguments came from the adjacent table, it turned out that the 6-year-old son wanted to play with his mobile phone and was rejected by his mother and lost his temper.

The son got up unhappily and jumped around, while the parents continued to bow their heads to eat their hot pot, resigned themselves to their son, and suddenly the little boy walked to Juanjuan's table, reached out to grab Juanjuan's mobile phone, and Juanjuan snatched it back.

Juanjuan gently said to the little boy: "The mobile phone belongs to my sister, you can't take it", the little boy heard this sentence and yelled angrily: "What's the big deal, a broken mobile phone", and then spit into their hot pot soup base and returned to their seat.

Juanjuan was stunned by the scene in front of her, angry and shocked, when she reacted, she went to the table with her parents to get a theory, trying to get an explanation, who knew that after listening to Juanjuan's explanation, the little boy's parents said disapprovingly: "The child is still young, he can't be let him, and it's not dirty, and the hot pot can continue to eat."

Juanjuan, who heard this, was full of anger, and also spit a mouthful of saliva into their hot pot and said: "The hot pot can continue to eat", some diners around took a picture of this scene and uploaded it to the Internet, and some netizens said: "It's so relieving, it's beautiful, it's just very happy."

In the face of the "bear child" at home, how can parents discipline it?

1. Parents should set a good example "Parents are their children's first teachers". In the eyes of children, any behavior of parents is the object they want to imitate, such as Zhong Nanshan, who contributed to the country and even the world during the anti-epidemic period, his family has been a doctor for three generations, and the medical ethics and medical skills that are deep in the bones are deeply admirable!

Therefore, parents must set a positive example for their children and become a guide on the road of their children's life.

2. Set rules and require compliance with "bear children" Most of them don't know what the rules are, which requires parents to cultivate their children's awareness of rules. For example, when you want to go out, you should tell in advance at home where you are going today and what your children will do. Prevent the appearance of bad behavior in bear children in advance.

3. The love for children should be suitable for parents to face their children's mistakes, do not simply use coaxing, you can use the means of conversation and communication, and make sure that children realize their mistakes; However, parents should not take extreme measures, and it is absolutely not advisable to beat and scold, which will not only hurt the child's self-esteem, but also make the child rebellious.

The boy should take the initiative to apologize, and let the boy's parents change the hot pot for themselves, so that the handling is more appropriate.

The neighboring table should have a good talk with the child's parents, tell them that this is wrong, and ask for an apology.

Negotiate with the child's parents to replace a pot bottom, but the cost of replacing the pot bottom is paid by the child's parents, and the child's impolite behavior is a problem with the parent's education, and the parents should pay for the child.

Spitting is obviously a bad behavior of low quality, parents do not criticize and apologize, and even defend their children's mistakes, it can be seen that the education of parents is very wild, at this time everyone should stand up and blame the parents, let them know what to teach and what not to teach.

Whether a child is upbringing or not depends largely on the parents. If the parents are educated, it means that they will not educate. If the parents are not educated, it will be difficult for the child to know how to be polite.

They knew that they were wrong, and they didn't complain about Xiao Li spitting, indicating that they knew that their children had done something wrong, but they didn't know how to educate their children.

I think that the three views of parents should be correct, when the child makes this kind of behavior, the parent should stop it in time and tell the child that it is not right to do so, and the child should apologize to the guests at the next table.