Girl, 28 years old, doesn t want to get married but wants to stay, what should I do?

If you really don't want to get married, you can also choose to have a baby, you can adopt or go through the process of pregnancy and childbirth, the baby you bring must be the most intimate with yourself, and now technology is also very developed, and whether it is to adopt or choose to have a baby by yourself, as long as the way is legal, it is okay.

You can cultivate IVF, so that you can conceive your own baby through scientific and technological means and meet your dreams.

There is an option for artificial insemination and the like, after all, everyone has their own choice, and this is also in accordance with the law and morality, it doesn't matter. It's good to be willing and happy.

IVF is OK, and now the technology is very advanced, so you can have a child, which is very convenient.

If this is the case, it is completely possible to adopt a child or do IVF, which is also a very good choice, and can achieve the purpose you want.

If a girl is 28 years old and not married, does she really not want to get married? Or will you be anxious about getting married?

I think most people don't have a definite answer, or they will have age anxiety, or they will have marriage fears, and they will not have their own answers until the moment when a person who wants to get married or doesn't want to get married. So, there is no complete unwanting, and there is no hasty thing just because it is suitable.

There are many more conditions needed for marriage than simple love, if you reach the marriageable age, you have relatively large expectations for marriage, in fact, you can think about some objective conditions from the beginning, what conditions are what you want the other half to have, why do you need these conditions, you can use a companion app to find a partner, in a companion, you can clearly see what kind of conditions every user you can come forward to say hello, the user information on a companion is strictly reviewed, and the probability of user information fraud is not high, Greatly ensure the safety of users,After screening the conditions,You can understand the life of the other party through the dynamic,In fact, through the display of TA, you can also have some feelings that you and the other party are not in tune,Of course,You can also show yourself generously,You can also apply for the top function,Show yourself in front of more users。 Love itself is wonderful, marriage is a further collision of sparks, even at the age of 28, it is still not a time to be 100% sure of the idea about this matter, let go of the entanglement, and give it to life.

The girl is 28 years old and unmarried, and most of the time she still hasn't found a suitable one for herself. Note that the fit here is considered from the girl's own point of view, not from the perspective of the bystander. Girls develop earlier than boys physically and are also more precocious than boys emotionally.

Although there is the possibility of a love brain, most of them are relatively sober when it comes to marriage. The reason why I have not been able to enter marriage for a long time, on the one hand, may be that the various beautiful episodes in the TV series have raised the expectations of the other half, and in reality, there are far fewer boys who can meet the conditions of the male protagonist of the TV series: on the other hand, all kinds of negative news have scared some girls, resulting in fear of marriage, plus marriage needs to deal with far more things to consider than love or singleness, these factors have led to the threshold for marriage has been raised a lot compared with before, and marriage requires a lot of courage and determinationto accept the uncertainty of the future.

On the one hand, depending on the environment, if there are men around her who have a good relationship, she just doesn't want to find them.

Not wanting to get married, of course, is not abnormal, because it is impossible to face all kinds of difficulties after marriage, so many people do not want to get married now. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy. People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection.

There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment. In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that?

I asked myself with a smile. For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

It's normal for a girl to not want to get married at the age of 23, because he is just old enough to get married, and he wants to play for two more years, after all, youth is limited, and she doesn't want to regret it in the future.

Normal, twenty-three is very young, why get married so early, enjoy life while you are young, pursue your dreams, fall in love, you must think about it and get married after you have experienced it, because you will have no time and energy to think about these when you get married, and you will be overwhelmed by the responsibilities of the family and children.

Although girls are twenty-three years old, it is normal for girls not to want to get married now, because girls are now at the age of study, and they will not think about personal marriage events at all, because girls think that she is still young, so it is normal for girls to not think about marriage at all now.

It's normal, don't say that it's not strange if you don't get married at the age of 23 or 32, a happy marriage brings a woman a complete and beautiful, but it's not 100%, most of the firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage will only make women ...... at a loss

It's normal for a girl to be 23 years old and not want to get married yet. I feel like I'm still a kid and want to play freely for a while. Totally understandable.

On the other hand, you can get married at the age of 23. It's better to get married sooner rather than later.

Normal. I haven't played enough, and I don't want to let life take hold.

Normal. That's just you.

So young. Completely disregard for other people's.

It is true that after the age of 25, women's physical fitness and ** have begun to decline. Therefore, you must want to meet the best love at the best age, complete the most beautiful wedding, and give birth to the cutest baby. Girls before the age of 25 can rely on their own hardware to be on top of the top, and all kinds of picky comparisons.

A little beauty, plus a little talent or a little IQ or a little EQ, or nothing, can be a queen in front of most men.

on the contrary after the age of 30 , he became more and more calm about whether to get married or not .

When people reach the age of 30, they have a certain amount of accumulation, both material and spiritual. The material can be self-sufficient, and the spirit can be self-controlled, and there is a degree of relaxation. So I was in less and less of a hurry to get married.

Look at the women who have entered marriage around them, with the emotions of chicken feathers, busy, trivial, and out of control, ** is also free to degenerate. Yes, marriage will definitely make a woman who was once as delicate as a crystal ball become unkempt and sloppy, and the change in appearance is not terrible, the most terrible thing is the psychological pressure that marriage brings to women. How many people will meet their lovers and walk together on the road of marriage?

Guarding the mobile phone every night and waiting for the man to come home, he didn't even expect it, right? Therefore, women who have passed the age of 30 have begun to retreat from marriage because they have heard too much about the marriages of women of the same age around them. Because the chic and happiness of a person is really not easy.

For women over the age of 40, marriage is dispensable.

At the age of 40, the body and ** state are becoming more and more difficult to control. It takes a long time every day to maintain and exercise, and the state may look slightly younger than the same age, but the degeneration of one's uterus and ovaries is inevitable. After the age of 40, you will start to yearn for children instead of marriage.

Of course, there can be no children without marriage, but children and marriage are indeed not contradictory. Therefore, entering a marriage may have to rent more children, and it is no longer a marriage full of love.

After the age of 50, I longed for marriage, love and companionship.

Yes, there is nothing wrong with that. In the twilight of life, a woman will definitely be as passionate about love and companionship as she was when she was a teenager. After menopause, the body is calm and emotionally stable.

As I get older, I occasionally have headaches and brain fever, and I am alone, even if there are piles of nannies, I still hope that someone will be by my side to know the cold and the heat, and take care of them with my heart. At the age of 50, after seeing all the states of the world, going through vicissitudes, ups and downs, after prosperity, the heart will return to the original excited appearance, becoming simple, easy to be happy and satisfied! At this time, I only hope that someone will sincerely protect and accompany each other.

In this life, people go back and forth, over and over again, from not being able to walk and eat by themselves when they are infants, to living by themselves when they grow up, and then to being unable to walk and eat by themselves in old age. Draw a circle, or go back to the original way.

Marriage is the grave of love If you don't have a house, you can't even go to the grave.

Guo Degang. Today's society is very realistic, girls get married, in addition to looking at the man's own conditions, but also look at his family conditions, of course, including material articles. In fact, if you marry someone now, you will be happier if you marry love, but you will still quarrel over some money issues, and there may be others; Then marrying money, some of your needs are satisfied, but will you really be happy? A person's life is neither long nor short, so why get married and worry about those trivial things......

Zhigen's sister is now a mother of two children, the eldest is four years old, the younger one is more than two months old, and it is okay, the younger one is not noisy or noisy; Usually my sister brings it herself, but now my father-in-law and mother-in-law occasionally bring it to work, and sometimes I ask her: "Sister, are you tired every day, do you regret it now?" Because from the beginning, my parents did not support her being with her current brother-in-law, and even if she has children now, she is still not optimistic.

Sister, she always smiles, occasionally, but none of this matters, after all, she chooses herself; Now they can actually get by. They are not quarreling over firewood, rice, oil, salt, or children; There are many people who tell the knower that husband and wife are called to live only when they quarrel. My sister's parents-in-law are not locals, her mother-in-law has to cook for the staff, and she has no time to take the children.

This kind of marriage will feel very tiring, which is actually no different from living alone, and it is also a little more relaxed, and I don't think about how to please my in-laws, and I don't have to worry about my children's ......

Zhigen, 23 this year, has a partner, and is rushing to get married; However, she was actually afraid of getting married, not not not wanting to get married; I am afraid that I will be like my sister, and I will be very tired every day; I am afraid that the situation of those in-laws embarrassing daughters-in-law will appear to me; I am afraid that after two people get married, they will slowly become the same person as the person to talk to, which will be different; was afraid that after discovering that the two were not suitable for being together at all, they divorced; And so on and so forth.

I believe that many young girls now will have such an idea, they can live alone, earn their own money to support themselves, work seriously when they should go to work, rest well when they should rest, and occasionally cultivate their own interests and hobbies, I think this is also very good.

Although marriage is managed by husband and wife, a person's life is not long, so why waste time on it? Why not live your own life? In fact, life can be wonderful without a significant other.

Perhaps, this is just the idea of knowing more at the age of 23.

Psychoanalysis: If it weren't for other people's so-called "normal" behaviors such as falling in love and getting married, would you feel troubled about yourself?

Falling in love, getting married, having sex, these are all very personal things, as long as you feel good about yourself, like your life, you don't have too many desires or needs, and you don't have strong inner conflicts such as envy, jealousy, self-doubt, self-denial, or even are quite satisfied with your current situation, then it's fine.

Although we are social people, we can't do without the group, and we can't do without the social comparison between people, but in the end, everyone still has to live their own life, and choosing a life that feels comfortable is the most important thing, as long as it is not because of psychological problems that affect social functioning (to put it bluntly, it is the desire for love or sex, but it cannot be achieved due to its own reasons), then it is not a problem.

However, people are constantly changing, and it is possible that one day you suddenly start to have a desire for love, or a desire for sex, and at that time you may encounter some troubles, such as finding that you are not very good at establishing intimate relationships; But it may not be, maybe after your psychological needs appear, you will develop your own unique way of falling in love, and it is possible that it is exactly the right fit for the person you love.

Perhaps, when you don't have more desires, the first thing that comes to mind is curiosity about yourself, and you want to **"Why am I different from others", for example, this time you are asking questions, it seems that you want to know more about yourself. Then there are many ways to explore yourself, with the help of counseling, or reading psychology books, taking self-growth courses, etc., but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.

In short, our own choices will be affected by the social environment, our own hearts will also change with age, physiology, experience and other changes, our feelings and thoughts in the future may be different from the present, with the perspective of development to live, according to their own feelings at any time to adjust, you will live well, you are not "must" the same as others.