Why do I just want to do a good job seriously and be rejected by others?

You may be rejected by some high-spirited students because you have good grades. How about active cooperation again. Those people will think you're contrived.

Think you're doing this for a purpose. With a good team of students, you really don't have to be that motivated. Others will think you're annoying.

Disturb him studying. I don't mean to instruct you to do this and that. The end must have been miserable.

So hold on to a normal heart. If those around you are in trouble, then you still have to help. But you also have to study hard.

I usually chat with my classmates. Tell me something fun. This image will not be old-fashioned or too serious...

Pure hand fighting, dear.

It's too positive, it's easy to be rejected if you're too positive, but in middle school, you still have to do what is good for your own development.

Treat different classmates differently, you are too self-centered and don't think from the perspective of others.

You learn to be tolerant, don't care what people say, and one day they will accept you.

Because you are not from the same world as them, they want to play, and you have goals, which is different, but I still hope that you can understand, change your image a little bit, and learn to communicate with people more.

Or is there something wrong with me doing this, I feel like I will give others an old-fashioned or too serious image, so others will reject me? What should I do? .Give people roses, and there is a lingering fragrance in the b-hand. Brother X, K....

Whatever to do? As long as you have a clear conscience against your heart. Go your own way and let others say go.

Try to be as calm as possible when facing others, but sometimes you should be interested in the other person's problems, so that the other person should feel that you are closer.

They are jealous of your grades!! If you didn't study well, they wouldn't be like this a long time ago.

I don't think it's the way you express yourself in the same way.

Obsessive-compulsive disorder indeed It's always unreasonable, illogical, and unfounded. Regarding OCD, I have a few texts that you can read carefully and choose what suits you for real life:

One, remember the general law that "everything will pass". This situation is no longer a child's small problem, although this situation is only a slight condition, but it will become more and more serious, so you must see a psychiatrist and insist on taking medicine for a period of time, so that you can fundamentally communicate with your parents and let them take you to life, otherwise your study and life will be seriously affected.

Sometimes you can't say anything about yourself in your heart, and you have too many things to worry about, and you are worried that things will let others know that the image you set for yourself is gone, and you are worried that others will look at you with strange eyes, in fact, you are talking about some unspoken rules in the workplace, you have a thief heart and no thief guts, so you will also admire those who dare to disobey the rules for their own benefit, you are also a mortal, it is normal to have these ideas, you don't have to kidnap yourself with those morals, think about what you want first, Whether you want to be a saint in the eyes of others, or a person who fights for your own interests, as long as it is not self-interest that harms others, you can do it, if it is harmful to others and self-interest, forget it.

First of all, you said things that are good for you, but you are very repulsed. I don't know what's going on?

But there are many, many of them in life, which we know are good for us, but we don't like them. Seeing others persistent, I think it's super and appreciate it.

It's not just you, everyone will.

For example, as a student, I know that I have a good platform for learning in the future, but I can't learn it. When I saw other students studying seriously, I felt admiration.

I'm the same now. Know that fitness is good for your body. And she has a beautiful figure, but she always gives herself a reason not to go to the gym when she gets off work. Seeing others insisting, I was quite envious.

So, don't get entangled, self-discipline is difficult to do, but if we overcome it bravely, we will find that our future selves are getting better and better.

May you face all the challenges that the world has given you

It is likely that you are not good at doing this, and you are afraid that you will be ridiculed by others if you fail or it will be inconvenient to come forward to avoid suspicion. And because it's good for me, I like people who do it. Since it's good for you, you might as well try it!

You have a crush on this person, but you don't like what he does, but it depends on what he does, so you are so repulsed, but it's normal, no one will always be used to seeing anyone, no one, no one has been unaccustomed to anyone, I understand the reason, but if you want to connect him to your own life, it is a thing that is more difficult than ascending to the sky, and everything is the same, it depends on your attitude to solving the problem.

It can only show that he is very resistant to interpersonal communication. And very much appreciate those who are sociable.

It's too tangled to do it.

Your contradictory ideas and society, you can do whatever you want, do whatever you want, just do what you feel right.

Think about it for yourself, and focus on what you like and are willing to do.

If you want to do it for a long time, you must like and be good at it and willing to do it, and you can't force it.

Think about whether you are willing to do so.

If it's a bad thing, a violation of the law, or something that harms others and benefits yourself, then I suggest you don't do it. If it's not, and it's good for you, then you can do it.

You probably have a crush on this person, yes