I wanted to give up, but I was hesitant

Updated on educate 2024-05-20
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you don't know how to go, you should be separated for a while. Then decide to stay. People will have a period of aesthetic fatigue, and perhaps you are going through this stage.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The reason you gave yourself for wanting to give up is not valid!

    Choose to let go of a relationship.

    I tend to think about the good memories of the past.

    This is a reason to want to give up.

    A large part of the reason.

    It's going to be that you don't give up at all.

    I'm just looking for a reason to give up!

    Since I don't like it anymore.

    Why bother giving yourself all sorts of reasons!

    The beginning and end of a relationship.

    All of this will only be known to both parties.

    Someone else's words are just a so-called excuse imposed on you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give yourself a month not to associate with him, calm down, and see how you feel? See what he thinks? True love is cut constantly. Otherwise, give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Long pain is better than short pain, if it's really not suitable to divide it, it's good for both of you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you only see his badness now, it means that he has broken your heart. Since it has broken your heart, no matter how much he changes about you, maybe you will feel that it is fake. In that case, if you want to be with him, then separate for a while, think for yourself, and see if you can let go after you are separated.

    If you don't think he can change anything to erase your impression of him, then I think you should be better off with him. It's good for you and for him. Hope is always tomorrow.

    There is not only one man in the world who can let go and try to accept others. Maybe that's better for everyone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then give yourself a holiday, try to leave first, see his performance, and also find out if he is really so inseparable from him during this period, if his performance is dispensable to you, then there is no need to keep a love that will not bear fruit, after all, there is a give-and-take, and people who are good to themselves can really be together...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's better to let it go, it's only going to be very uncomfortable, people have to be good to themselves when they live, maybe he is not the right person you met, leave him and give the right one a chance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't have feelings, just divide it, and dragging it is not good for everyone.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's very uncomfortable to divide it, but after a long time, you will forget it, you can try to find the next one, and it will be fine soon.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you want to give up. Think about why you insisted on getting here.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    According to your description, you should be less than 25 years old and introverted. Personally, I recommend your trilogy of dealing with people - finding problems, analyzing problems, and solving problems. Be humble, face reality, dare to try, and challenge yourself.

    Let go of what should be put down, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, as long as you work hard for yourself, you will not regret it. If you feel the need to do it, do 100, because it's not necessary, then don't do it.

    If you want to give up, why not be reconciled? If not, why give up? Isn't that a contradiction? You can think about whether you want to give up or not. If you really want to give up, let go of your unwillingness, don't think so much, go with the flow, go with the flow!

    Sometimes success and failure are only one step away. If you try a little harder, you will succeed, but no one will tell you until you succeed.

    Visit your heart! Then do it! Take love as the premise, give up without love! If you have love, stick to it! Good luck!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First find out if you're going in the right direction, and if so, hold on a little longer.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello, I've got you covered! According to your description. You should be relatively young and under.

    And people with a more introverted personality are personally recommended to you, and the trilogy of dealing with people and finding problems is found. Analyze the problem. Solving problems is neither humble nor arrogant.

    Let's face it. Don't be afraid to try. Choose.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1.Calmly think about the problems that arise in the relationship.

    People are often more emotional in love, and when there is a problem in the relationship, there will be thoughts of wanting to give up. In fact, there will be some problems in every relationship to some extent, and the most important thing to do at this moment is not to choose to give up or persevere, but to find out the relationship problem and work hard to overcome it. It's a good idea to think calmly about what has gone wrong in your relationship, and then talk to your partner about how to solve it.

    This is the attitude that should be used to manage love.

    2.Imagine about you after leaving her.

    This is not to say that you want to retreat before leaving, but to make you think deeply in your heart whether you really love each other, if you leave each other, you will be happy, and you will definitely be happier with another person than your current partner. Also, will your partner be able to withstand your departure in the moment? After all, you used to be deeply in love, and you don't need to hurt each other too hard.

    Sometimes, it's never too late to wait until you've thought about it.

    3.Be more independent and strong.

    There is a kind of breakup because you love each other too much, why is it easier to break up if you love someone too much? Because loving someone too much will give more for the other person, and at the same time, you will slowly lose yourself, so the way you love will slowly consume your passion, so the more you try to love, the more sleepy you will feel. When you have thoughts of breaking up, you might as well divert your attention and improve yourself more.

    Find your original self first, and then consider whether to break up.

    4.Have a good chat with your significant other.

    You talk openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and views on the relationship. If you can grow together and reach a sense of harmony again, then the relationship will be more mature after going through these hardships. If the two of you are ashamed to go far on the road of life, then thanking each other for their presence and dedication in life, and saying goodbye gracefully is also the most beautiful blessing.

    5.Explore your heart.

    You should dig deep into your heart and see your grievances and embarrassments at the moment. Breaking up or being together is a choice, which in itself is a test of each other's ability to integrate the relationship. The important thing is that you can discover the inner driving force behind it and understand what you want?

    What relationship is right for you? Straightening out your own feelings, perhaps you will have the strength to re-understand what this relationship means to you. Is it a take-or-take?

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