I wanted to give up, but I didn t give up, the problem of love

I think she may have a little feeling for you, or she will ignore you, maybe she thinks you are not necessarily her lover, and she still needs to examine you, hold on to it, and then persist for a while, if there is still no result, you should give up decisively, there is no grass at the end of the world.

It's hard to say.

Girls, what is chasing, chasing must have perseverance, not like today's college students, stay with me, or be my girlfriend, be together for a long time, and find the next one if it's not good.

But some girls are like that, they obviously like it, but they are very hesitant, and then you have to take a stand.

If you can't wait, call her out, and it's better to force her out once with your sincerity in a place where no one is there.

Falling in love is the act of interaction between two parties. "Ex-girlfriend" you say? So that means you've broken up before?

If yes, then you need to think about the reasons for the previous breakup, and now have those reasons been eliminated or changed? If not, then even if we catch up, there will still be conflicts. Also, you chase this girl, what is your "capital"?

Are the "capital" you think she needs? That's also the core question you have to consider. This "capital" is a generalized concept, not a narrow sense of money.

After making the above psychological and objective preparations, think about what method to use to chase the girl.

It's about waiting, after all, it's a very important thing, maybe she's choosing, there are people who confess to her like you, she's deciding which one to choose.

Women are afraid of stalkers, or she's worried that you've been separated after all, and it might be a little difficult to start over. Give her more space, she may still have feelings for you, but not yet.

Since it's an ex-girlfriend and it's been so long, you have to empathize, you come back to her now, what is she worried about? What is she worried about or what is she afraid of? Since she didn't directly reject you, it means that there is still a chance, you can't be in a hurry, keep the clouds open and see the moon.

Perseverance accomplishes everything, my experience.

It shouldn't be completely out of play, they all care about you, it's normal for girls to be hot and cold, girls want to save face.

I feel that no matter what the result is, as long as I do my best, I have no regrets.

I think we have to go our separate ways after graduation, everyone has their own dreams and goals, in this relationship, we need to make a decision, I think we should continue to go on, because we have been in love for a long time and we all want a happy ending, but how do I choose?

1. Distance cannot isolate love. The destinations of two people are different, so what hinders this relationship is only distance, spatial distance. Four years of college life have allowed the two to establish a deep friendship, and they are very familiar with each other for four years.

If it is just because of space reasons, they can't be together, and they break up so easily, which means that your attitude towards love is too superficial.

2. Try to keep love in a sweet state. We will try our best to keep this love sweet and let the relationship last for 4 years. Pour out your heart to him as you did four years ago.

It's like for the past four years, she's been repeating "I love you", "I love you", "I'm going to spend my life with you".

Therefore, when the two of us are together, I think, we should continue to love, because only by giving can we get the best ending, even if it is the smallest setback, we will choose to break up, whether it is now or in the future, there will be no real love.

That's because you're not firm in your heart.

Maybe when you think about giving up, you don't know what you really feel when you really give up.

It's like why people don't know who they love the most until they die.

The first person that comes to mind when you leave is the person you love the most.

If you really decide to give up, don't give Spike any excuses and reasons to defeat himself.

Otherwise, when you don't give up on success, even if you are together again, you will still be depressed.

I wonder why I didn't give up at the time, and what would have happened if I had given up.

If you give up, you don't regret it.

But perhaps, if you don't succeed in giving up, you will see your heart more clearly, and you will cherish the present more, and you will have a sense of happiness that you have never had: fortunately you didn't give up.

Hehe. The main thing is to be happy, happy and not regretful.

If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her.

If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others.

There are some things that you like no matter how much they belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never end well, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

The man cries because he really loves; The woman cries because she really gave up.

If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie; If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence;

If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.

Everything on my body seems to be inadvertent, but I have worked hard to manage it.

Everything comes at the right time, but we don't have the right mood to meet it.

It is a kind of happiness to be understood in feelings, and it is a kind of loneliness to wait to be understood!

A creature like a human, if you look closely, it turns out to be scarred.

Whether or not to be loved, everyone has a different sense of collapse. The price of rediscovering old dreams is often something we can't afford.

Happiness in the world will always make people look better.

Because of smiling, you understand love.

Love is blind to human beings and can only be based on one feeling.

Sometimes I love someone like crazy, but when I know that he doesn't love you, or when he betrays you, the sky will fall. I always hope that the other party will pay more than myself, but when the other party is stupid to pay for you, my heart is so unbearable.

Love is contradictory, some people can say that he loves you in order to covet your love for him, but when he really finds his true love, he will not necessarily pay anything for you, he only regrets and wants to pay for the person he loves, so love is not principled at all, not like planting flowers and flowers, planting trees and trees.

If you feel that you are the greatest joy of his release, and you feel that you are tired, then let it go, loving someone does not have to have.

Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't forget, her life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute all the unpleasant, let's wait together, okay?

In fact, in real life, the people and things that make you unforgettable are unforgettable for a lifetime, so don't force yourself to forget in vain, it's better to remember and let time turn it into a warm memory. Both happiness and pain are valuable assets that are necessary for one's own growth and maturity. In real life, there is no so-called perfect love, only the process of unremitting pursuit with their own sense of responsibility for the sake of perfect love.

True love is based on mutual trust and mutual responsibility, which can entertain each other in happy times and support each other in painful days. How long can two people's sense of common responsibility for love last, this relationship can last as long, and the longevity of love requires two people to be in the same step.

Although it is said that time can forget everything, if you still love him. I can't forget it.

If you don't love him anymore. will forget.

Find a way to stop loving him.

Or try not to contact and recall the scene of 2 people, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out to travel, maybe you will meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss, breaking up will be a new beginning for you!!

But if the person you love is the one you love the most, maybe you will never forget him in your life.

If you want to forget someone, maybe it's not that simple.

If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them, if you deliberately want to forget, you may not really do it, right?

If you want to forget someone, maybe they hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it once in a while, this is also inevitable, right?

Time will make you forget it.

If you really love him so much, you have to spend your whole life forgetting, if you don't want to forget, please hide your love deep in your heart.

Hope you are happy and happy!

Silence

Why forget some things that have existed and have been emotionally rich for them.

There are many things that you want to forget, just to run away. And there are some things that really need to be relieved, and only facing them can make a difference. We flee to another world, grab other people, immerse ourselves in other things, but that past is still there.

It's better to calm down, recall the beginning and the past, count the steps with that person, and then tell yourself that gains and losses are meaningless, a result will not negate everything we have before, and if we have been happy, even if we get more pain, it will not be meaningless for ourselves. Everything can be faced, so that we can be calm and face the future life.

I will still remember that it is only because it is a part of life, life is perfect because it is imperfect, and we can grow because of pain, which sounds exaggerated, but only when I come over and look back will I understand.

Don't forget, face it bravely, and cherish this experience in life.