Preparing to get married, but there is unspeakable distress

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Obviously, I don't have a problem with such a thing, but the more hesitant you are, the more difficult it will be!

    First of all, you need to be firm in your attitude, whether to continue with him, or to get married and have a baby. Choose one of the two, you can't compromise! It's about your future, sister, if you hesitate, the pain will be yours.

    Secondly, make it clear to him, no matter how good he was to you before, how he took care of you, this can't be hesitated, this life is just such a man to take care of you for a lifetime, he can not care about your past, but no man can accept it, his wife is entangled with other men, if he turns out your past by then, your life will really be over! In the past, you could say that you were unladylike, and it can be said that you were injured in the past, but once the future is involved, it is not so simple!

    In the end, I broke off with him cleanly.

    There is not so much helplessness in the world, only what you want or don't want to do!!

    Hope you can come out!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let's find a marriage partner first, if he can't marry you, let him roll as far as he can, because Chinese law only allows a radish and a pit, otherwise you will divorce even if you get married in the future, after all, paper can't contain the ...... of fire

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He has been defending himself as his wife overseas. Hurry up and find a man to marry. Get rid of this painful day.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This society is dark and life is difficult, I understand you very well and respect your way of life.

    But the second floor is right, he has always maintained his wife, and after so long, I believe that other people's wives are not stupid, and they probably already knew. What you said he values you is completely your own inner feelings, whether he values you or not, no one knows except himself. Don't try to occupy an important position in his heart, the more such a man, the more he cares about the perfection of the family, and will not hang himself for your tree, since you now understand that you should be on the right track in life, go to find a man who is duty, sincerely accepts that you want you to take you home, and it is also your responsibility to your future husband to disown him after marriage.

    If you are not responsible for your future husband, how can you ask the other party to be faithful to you, when your future husband finds a lover, then you will experience great pain, you are not very old, and you still have a choice, give yourself a chance, let yourself go.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then I think you may be tragic, if you can't support yourself now, after giving birth to a child in the future, it may be difficult to bring it. , Also, if you find someone else to marry and maintain a relationship with him, then your husband will definitely divorce if he finds out

    As the saying goes, paper can't hold the fire, and her wife abroad will look for you. In short, try to get out of her now, if you can rely on yourself. That's how you can have your own life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Actually, after so many years, your old gentleman hasn't saved any money? Do you have cars and houses? That's enough!

    What's that, let's delay it for another year, in this year, take down the garage, let him buy it for you, remember to write your own name, after that, you can finally live, you can get married, you can't work, let your husband support you, find a husband who earns more money, can support you, what does he do, you can't maintain the relationship when you get married!

    My dear, don't be stupid, love him, does he love you? If he really loves you, he will divorce and marry you, and he won't leave because he doesn't love you enough! Do you ask him to buy you a car and a house, and let him give you a sum of money, depending on what he gives?

    If you don't give, you don't love you enough! If I really love you, I won't delay your youth so much, why do you still maintain a relationship even after getting married, I don't love you at first glance!

    It's nothing to be a junior, but you must be a smart junior, you have to ask for what you want, you have to save money, you have to work when you have to work, you have to go to school, and you should let him send you to study abroad!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's simple, find a man to marry.

    Love is never fresh, maybe he is troubled by how to get rid of you.

    Since there is one of you, there must be some things out there, in the business field.

    Women, your name is strong, there are many good men, but you didn't bother to look for them.

    There are many ways to repay the reward, and you choose the heavy one, so it is recommended that you plan it and start your own new journey.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I advise you, rein in the precipice.

    Although I am deeply suspicious of your motives and don't understand what you are difficult to do, it is because you are too dependent on that man, and the rudder of your life is in your own hands, so hurry up and get rid of the relationship with that man.

    To be a woman, you have to be independent, you have to be strong, don't always think about relying on a man, there will be no good results if you go on like this... Not to mention that it is still illegal.

    You'd better think about how to support yourself first, find a job, find a reliable man to marry, and live a normal life.

    Don't make yourself miserable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's a difficult world, but I think once you get married, you have to cut off the relationship. Before marriage is so-called, without that kind of commitment, no one will blame you. Remember that emotional half-heartedness is the last thing that hurts.

    This relationship is very unstable, and men like the new and hate the old, unless, of course, you get married. Find yourself a good home, and after you find it, you must break this relationship!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are 20,000 yuan a month, just follow him, even if you have a child, it will cost you.

    .If you don't give it, forget it. If you don't have employability, you can go to study, master's and doctor's degrees.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then don't say it, don't think about it anymore, you can't ruin his marriage and let him live a happy life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you are married, it is recommended that you do not say that everyone is responsible, responsible for yourself, responsible for your family, and responsible for those who love you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now that you're married, don't really talk about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Happiness is not good to fight for around you, you only know to cherish and regret when you lose it, you can only blame yourself, blame others, no matter who is waiting for whom, but always let some reason to exclude yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since you have twelve years to have a crush on him, why don't you confess to him in those twelve years.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's time for you to let go of yourself and find your own happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Happiness is all around you, waiting for you to discover.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I understand your mood, because I'm about the same as you. But I haven't confessed. She was reluctant to walk away every time, and finally she had no way out.

    The words of blessing can't be spoken, and I don't know if the wedding is going or not, and how to face it. The feelings in this world are really powerless to change, and they are very tired and tired.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, it's good to know about such a thing, there is no need to bless it directly, just bless it in your heart.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really loved, would you still be like this? What else can't be said? If you can't be together, there is no fate, and try to send blessings without disturbing the family!

    I'll do it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's good to get together and disperse, if you disperse, you're a stranger, what does it matter you to get married to a stranger? If you are really very elegant, go to her wedding as a friend, send blessings and drink a glass of wine.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's time to put it down. If you can't say it, you won't say it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Just send a text message to bless you!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Congratulations to her. The company of the past is also fate.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Treat me as a friend, and I'm getting along well with my ex-woman now!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Bless you, but don't go to dinner.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Give her the most sincere smile and write it if you can't say it! Don't be secret!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What to say, hurry up and go on for a while, it's not easy to get married.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When you get married, you must tolerate each other, understand and pay, and experience the temper of life, and your temper will change in the future. Don't worry too much about it, or deliberately change yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you get married, you can't be so willful, and the tempers of the two people must be slowly run in; Life is not easy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Change slowly, but you don't need to change much.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It doesn't have to be good to get rid of bad habits.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Seven words! How to be happy and how to live.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    What else to pretend in front of your lover, will it be very shameless to have a dead skin and a face, hehe, are you still so shy when it's all fitted.

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