Will you marry somewhere else because of love?

I'm pretty sure I would.

First of all, the first point: I know very well in my heart that I love my boyfriend very much, and he loves me very much, and we treat each other with sincerity and single-mindedness. In this modern society, I always believe that money is easy to get, true love is hard to find, and you should cherish it when you meet it.

Secondly, even though the two of us are far from each other, I don't think the distance is a problem at all now, and the transportation is so developed now that it is not a problem to go home at all.

In addition, it is not impossible for the two of us to form a family, and after we have strong financial support, we can also bring our families together and live in the same place.

And the most important point is that I think when we choose a mate or talk about the conditions of marriage, we don't have to hold on to one point, that is, it must be a place, which I think is completely unnecessary, the most important thing is to look at the development of the two people.

As long as you live well, I think it's the same in **, even if the place where you marry is very far away, but you live happily, that's enough.

No, because my boyfriend is in the same place as me, hehehe! Of course, if my boyfriend was somewhere else, I wouldn't have gotten married, because I couldn't live without my parents, my relatives, my friends, and my hometown that carried so many memories for me that I couldn't leave it.

Hometown should be a very special place, no matter who it is, so how could I marry somewhere else because of love. Elsewhere it was a strange city to me, and I had no choice but to rely on my boyfriend, which was unacceptable to me as an insecure person.

Think about it, if you quarrel with your boyfriend, there is no place to cry, unfamiliar city, can you go **? This is one of the reasons why I am reluctant to go anywhere else because it is so lonely and there is not a little bit of memory of that city.

Also, I want to be closer to my parents, I want to spend time with them, you know, we can't spend much time together, my parents are getting older day by day, how can I bear to be when my parents are getting old, but I am not by their side?

Moreover, my hometown has too many memories of me, my childhood, my youth, everything I have is here, I have no way to leave, my blood flows in the blood of my hometown, I can't do without it, I can't hide it.

No, everyone wants to marry love, but I want to marry family even more, I haven't left the island since I was a child, who doesn't want to take advantage of the opportunity of college to go to a distant place to see the scenery, but I haven't even left the island in college, maybe because of my character, even if I like someone again, I won't leave the island for him.

I grew up in Hainan, and I was also eager to go out of the province to see, but the result of every time I went out made me very uncomfortable, menstrual disorders, usually two days of dysmenorrhea and four or five days of pain when I went out, and I couldn't stand the weather outside, maybe I was really used to a place, and I didn't adapt to it when I went out. It is not necessarily much fun to go out to travel, the scenery of the city is similar, and I can see the same when I go home. So I didn't think much about anything else.

Maybe because it's Cancer, it's more homely, so I want to be closer to my parents, so I feel more secure, and I'm not used to starting over in a new place, and I will be more comfortable in a familiar place.

If I really meet my Prince Charming, I will marry somewhere else because of love.

No matter how principled a person is, he will make concessions when he meets a lover who really belongs to him and is worth giving everything to him.

Every woman will become someone else's bride, and she will leave her own family, so there is not much difference in marrying **.

Now the transportation is very convenient, and if I want to go home, it may be a day's distance around the world, and for various reasons, I can marry somewhere else because of love.

People should not live in the world and everything should be done step by step, what kind of things should be done at what age, parents are in the perspective of loving us, and even lifelong events have been arranged.

We always have to live vigorously for ourselves, even if we have nothing in the end, it is the best tribute to our youth.

Everyone's youth is confused, life is precious, and love is more valuable. If you can fight for sincere love, it is also the best ending.

Marriage is inherently uncertain, and if everything is arranged, then life will be as calm as a lake, and it will not be interesting.

So if one day I really need to marry someone else for love, I will marry him without hesitation.

The word love can only be said to be a present continuous tense or a past perfect tense, vigorous love will not always exist, when love meets marriage, no matter how hot the love is, it will be ground flat by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but after the bland, how can I guarantee that the original love vow will still exist?

I have seen too many examples around me, all of them are married far away, but they are not happy. My mother is from Inner Mongolia, when I followed my dad to Shanxi, I am not familiar with the place, I don't have a friend, I don't have a job, after the newlywed Yan'er, I have to endure a long period of loneliness, the most important thing is that I have no family company, I have no place to tell if I am wronged, my mother now regrets marrying my dad.

After so many years, I can also see that she is indeed unhappy, but fortunately, when I was in college, my mother went back to Inner Mongolia and had a job, and now every day is very happy and happy, she said that she felt happy when she saw the sky.

A colleague next to me, although he is also from Shanxi, but married from Jinnan to Jinbei, the two are college lovers, and they can be regarded as walking from school uniforms to wedding dresses, but after getting married, the trivialities in life will dilute love, different eating habits, different languages, no friends, she said that since she got married, she feels like an outsider, and her husband and her mother-in-law are a family. I've been in a bad mood lately.

Love is love, I still hope that life in the future can be simpler, to other places, there will be a sense of loneliness psychologically, and I can't bear to miss my family.

Maybe I'll put it, because I will lose you when I love someone, it's because I think I always have to pay something for him, maybe when he doesn't come back, I especially want to be rich, I think this feeling is really painful, because as a girl, if you really pay too much for him, you will lose yourself, that is, sometimes you still have to go, maintain your own identity, and let yourself do what you want to do, don't pay too much for a boy, when you want to love yourself, Then that man will love himself. So I may go somewhere else for love, but I personally think that other girls should not do this, if you are really not sure enough to follow him for the rest of your life, don't make such a decision lightly.

I once had this choice, when I was young, my first love, I resigned directly from a listed company without any entanglement or concern, and went to his city.

I thought I was brave and would be appreciated.

Years later, I realized that it was just recklessness, and my life has changed since then.

If I had been given a chance to choose again, I might not have chosen to go to another city just because of love.

As an HR with some professional work experience, it is not recommended that you give up this choice, but I hope that no matter which one you choose, you must think more, consider more comprehensively, and have the courage to start over after making a mistake.

If you're thinking about working in another city, I think there's at least a few things to consider:

One, is this love ripe enough for you to give up everything you have now (work, relationships, familiar life, etc.)?

Second, is he worthy of your dependence and dedication after your resignation? (Of course, you don't have to be smug).

Third, if you go to another city to work, how will it affect your life and career development? If there are difficulties, can they be overcome?

Fourth, do you now have enough savings to support you to live independently in another new city without being wronged? (The respondent privately thinks that it is best to reduce the possibility of cohabitation before marriage, and this is not a successful experience sharing).

Fifth, finally, and I think most importantly, assuming the worst outcome, can you take the outcome yourself without complaining?

end, bless you, I hope you are the best choice, no matter what you choose.