Why are men generally reluctant to get married nowadays?

Because there is no money to get married, and women nowadays worship money so much, if you find a girl to marry casually, I'm afraid you will have to spend hundreds of thousands.

It's not that men nowadays don't want to get married. It's that there are fewer girls than boys. More and more, there will be a lot of men who are singles.

This is the reality, the idea of patriarchy has always been there. There is no way. There is also a situation where this society is so realistic.

Girls marry out and ask for a house and a car, and now there are not many boys who want to get married at a young age, because they don't have the capital to marry a daughter-in-law.

I remember that if we marry a girl in our village, the bride price will be 100,000 yuan, and we will have a building and a car. This has put a lot of pressure on many men, and their salaries are only more than 2,000 a month. If calculated in this way, they have to buy a house, marry a daughter-in-law, and have a car, at least they will have to struggle for more than ten years before they can have it.

We counted that he graduated from college at the age of 24 and came out to work and started to make money, and when he saved enough for the house and car tickets, he would probably be in his 30s. Of course, they can also gnaw at the old, because now if the old man buys a house for his son, it should still be possible. But in our rural areas, it is very difficult to buy a house for my son, because the economic level of the countryside may only be 10,000 yuan a year, and it is necessary to save a house for ten years.

So this has led to the fact that some men are now reluctant to get married.

Another reason is that men are more ambitious. I always want to start a family first and then start a business. But now this social entrepreneurship is very difficult, under normal circumstances, if you have no capital, no background, it is very difficult to build your own world.

But in any case, a man should go out and start his own business first. In this case, he does not consider getting married when his career is not successful. After a long time, there may be no plans to get married.

Because the ambition is too heavy, and it may not have broken down, there is no plan to get married.

Comprehensive analysis is still too realistic in this society, you have no money now, and you want to get married, which is very unrealistic. Because after getting married, it is not a life story, but a life of two people, or two families, he may not only have to support himself but also his wife. The child, and his parents.

This society is putting more and more pressure on men, which is why they now have this idea of not wanting to get married. I think I'm understandable because it's so hard to compete in this society right now. It's really hard to make money to support your family.

Now there are a lot of boys who beat singles, and there are many small things in the book. Because on our side, a salary of two or three thousand a month is too much. Buying a house should take many years.

As far as boys are concerned, they are under so much pressure. So it's understandable that you don't want to get married.

If you don't want to get married, you can't blame others, you can only blame yourself for not being productive, because, after all, life still depends on your own hard work to get it.

Because the social conditions are getting better and better, marriage is no longer as simple as in the past, everyone needs to prepare more and more things, there are many places to get married, you have to have a house and a car, and the bride price is also a lion's mouth, which makes men spend a lot of time, energy and money on marriage, and some are even beyond the scope of their own bearing. This caused them to be unwilling and afraid to get married.

At the same time, getting married also means taking on more responsibilities, and after becoming the breadwinner of a family, there are more things to consider. Most of today's young people are only children in the family, and they have been living a carefree life of relying on their parents at home and relying on friends when they go out. Once married, they can't just live their own lives, but need to manage their family life and husband and wife relationship with their hearts.

Similarly, marriage also allows two people to live together and face all kinds of big and small things in life together, ups and downs. This will inevitably lead to some essential contradictions between two people. Let men feel that getting married has brought about some bad changes in their feelings.

Moreover, with the development of society now, people's thoughts are more diversified, marriage has not become a goal that must be achieved in love, there are many people who are now unmarried, they enjoy the process of love, but also bear the responsibility, and pay hard, but no longer bound by a marriage contract, everyone respects each other, accompanies each other, and does not have to be a lifetime, passers-by are also beautiful, and so on, everyone leaves, and then starts a new relationship, why not, why must you get married.

These various reasons make today's men reluctant to get married, but to choose a more comfortable and comfortable love life that is acceptable to both parties rather than married life. <>

It can be considered from two aspects, one is that the cost of marriage is getting bigger and bigger, and the other is that there is a huge difference in the thinking of the current people and the people of the past, and the succession is no longer regarded as a particularly important thing that must be completed. Although there is a big difference in the proportion of men and women in China, there are still many leftover women, that is to say, more men are single, and now people are very open-minded and advanced, and many people like to live a single life without dragging, and many people are unwilling to get married.

Now whether it is on the streets, TV or movies, as long as they hear the topic of blind date marriage, the first thought in people's minds is whether the man has a car? Do you have a room? Is there a deposit?

The more there are, the greater the success rate of his blind date, which has become the default basic condition for men to marry women in China. But not every man can easily own a house and a car ticket, under the constraints of these material conditions, many men feel great pressure, and they dare not talk about marriage strangely. Moreover, many men will think that although I have these material conditions, but you ask for these things, I think you are very materialistic, and your love for me is not pure, so I don't want to marry you, and there are not a few people who have this kind of thought.

In today's society, there are not a few elderly single aristocrats, although they also have parents urging marriage every day, but most of them do not live with their parents, and do not have to face the pressure from their parents, so they will not have too much urgency in this matter, so they still take a look at the matter of marriage, and are not in a hurry to reproduce. It's not that they don't want to, it's just that most people feel that the time has not yet come, and they want to find the most suitable home wife.

The first should be an economic problem, because the current woman wants more money and is not too strong, so she will appear to be under pressure, and the second is that she will lose her freedom as soon as she gets married. With that in mind, they wouldn't want to get married.

The girl is too goddess, and the man is too bitter. Get married, come on, come on, be single together for a lifetime, and to hell with women.

It's as if a woman is willing to get married!

Both men and women feel that they give more and get less in marriage, so who gets it?

It's not that men don't want to get married, but they can't meet girls who really want to get married, some girls just sell themselves, it's worthless, and they ask for a lot of money, they have been lists, they have been fooling around, no good boys will choose girls who don't love themselves, boys fight against Japan together, don't meet true love, never marry again,

Yes, marriage is just a piece of paper, and there is no need for many men to be reluctant to get married. Because if you get married, you basically have to divorce, which is meaningless, and you have to divide the inheritance to increase your troubles.

It must be because the pressure of marriage is too high and the cost is too high, so many people are reluctant to get married, and it is good to live on their own.

Getting married, giving a bride price, buying a house and a car, a bunch of pressures....Especially in big cities, the pressure is even greater. The salary has to pay the rent, pay the mortgage, and pay the car loan. I also need food, clothing, shelter and transportation...

In fact, it's not that men now don't want to get married, but they can't get married at all, and now when they get married, the woman often opens her mouth and asks for a good bride price, in addition, the man also has to prepare a car and a house, and the pressure on the man is really too great.

Because marriage is really not casual, to meet the woman's conditions, many times the boy's family can't take it out, and the pressure is really too great for them.

It's not that I don't want to get married, I don't dare to get married, the pressure is too great, and the minimum for a house and a car is about 700,000, can an ordinary family take it out, and it is even more impossible for him to take it himself, so he is not willing to get married.

Because many people are beginning to realize that marriage has become an unacceptable point in their lives, because married life is no longer happy, and more because people who have not experienced it have been frightened by the bad marriage around them, and are worried that there is no future, or the future is worse. Slowly the consciousness changes, marriage is no longer a necessity, and the wonderfulness of one person is better than the bad of two people.

Because of the great responsibility, pressure, and burden of being married and becoming a family, boys are reluctant to get married now.

If you don't have money or ability to give the next generation good living conditions, you won't end up if you don't want the next generation to live the same life as yourself.

Lack of resources, with fewer resources for school-age girls, leads to a narrower choice for poor, poor and ugly boys.

Excessive resources. The resources of school-age girls have increased the choice of high-quality boys and men, and there is a certificate of difficulty in choosing.

Refinement, which leads to the fact that men and women's requirements for their objects do not conform to their own reality, resulting in inability to get along, and divorce even if they get married.

Because girls don't want to marry boys, now boys don't want to get married, not unwillingly.

Maybe every man doesn't want to get married, because men and women are different, and getting married is a heavy responsibility for men. In this world, neither men nor women are willing to put a heavy burden on their shoulders. But as long as that man loves you enough and has the sense of responsibility that a man should have, as long as you take the initiative a little, you will definitely get a happy family.

Men who have no sense of responsibility are like this, and if they can live together, they will not get married. Anyway, it doesn't make a difference, and you don't have to bear legal responsibility.

But don't say that "all" are unwilling to get married, there are still many good men who are willing to take responsibility, you haven't seen how many got married last year, and there were a lot of marriage proposals on Valentine's Day last month.

Again, the problem is: you have to look for it, don't go to a place like a bar. Expand your circle of friends, colleagues in the unit, relatives of colleagues, friends of friends, classmates of classmates. In these days, blind dates are also very common, and the blind dates are all rushing to get married.

Bless you finding it soon.

That's because getting married comes with responsibility, and people nowadays are under too much pressure and don't want to take on too many responsibilities.

However, I believe that everyone will still meet someone who wants to get married.

I really wanted to get married, but I never met the right one.

Upstairs is right, because of the responsibility, I don't know if I can afford it.

Getting married is like going to a prison cell, and it seems that you are deprived of your freedom. Anyway, getting married is far away from me, haha.

I can't stand the state of getting married and getting divorced! It takes a lot of money to get married, not that you don't need to say a word to get married! Men nowadays are under a lot of financial pressure! So I was scared to get married.

The bride price is too expensive, the house price is too high, and good women are too sought-after.

The main reason is that.

I feel too much pressure after getting married.

Too much comfort and no freedom.

I don't think I have had enough.

Don't want to get married so early.

It's not that I don't want to get married, but.

I can't find a match, male.

More women and fewer women.

It should be that I didn't find the person I wanted to get married to.

There is a lot of pressure, no house, no car, no deposit.

I don't want to get married, I don't want to be responsible, I always want to play a few more years while I'm young, but I don't think that I can't escape the responsibility I should bear. Boys who think like this do do, but they don't represent the mainstream.

It's not that boys nowadays don't want to get married. But nowadays boys are pursuing their own careers. He thinks he has enough to afford his family. At that time, he will choose to get married.

Because there are a lot of troubles when getting married.

There are many reasons why you don't want to get married. But the most important reason is that I haven't met true love, or I'm still waiting.

Getting married, the woman's economic requirements are too high and she can't afford it. I have to be responsible for this small family, I am afraid that I don't have the ability to do this, and the pressure is too great.

Now when a girl gets married, she wants a car, a house, a deposit, and a bride price of more than 100,000 yuan, and ordinary families can't pay it at all. Even if it is realized, the car loan and housing loan are overwhelming.

The reason why boys don't want to get married now is that marriage is too realistic now, and boys have to pay too much to make ends meet, so boys don't want to be too tired.

Because life is too stressful now, it is not easy to live alone, and it is even more difficult to get married and have children, so many boys don't want to get married and put more pressure on themselves.

Because of the housing loan, car loan, deposit, high wealth and handsomeness, plus gift money, dowry.