How can we have a strong destiny?

I still rarely do things that would embarrass me.

Have a particularly active life.

First of all, you have to have a strong character.

They should have an independent and autonomous character.

I think the family of origin is very important.

I think that a high level of emotional intelligence can lead to a strong fate. High emotional intelligence plays an important role in a person's life. Believe this, we don't need your explanation to understand.

So, how can it count as high emotional intelligence? How can I get high emotional intelligence?

Learn to observe words and feelings, and train the sensitivity to perceive the emotions and psychological needs of the other party. Many people would think that high emotional intelligence means that one has to handle things holistically. His words and deeds make people choose not to make mistakes, and he is good at hiding his emotions.

Is that so? That's true, but I think that compared to these people with high emotional intelligence, they know how to take care of other people's emotions little by little.

Be able to sensitively and delicately perceive the psychological needs of the other party, and make the most appropriate behavioral and verbal responses. Make the other person feel like a spring breeze. It can be said that, to a certain extent, this sensitivity to the emotions and mental activities of others and the reflection of their needs is a gift, which has an important relationship with their long-term family education and living environment.

In the face of difficulties and contradictions, calmly analyze, based on solving problems, and achieve the common interests of several parties。Many people think that high emotional intelligence means blindly pandering to others, being polite, not easily offending others, and even suffering unnecessary injustice for it. Is that really the case?

Here, you have to mention that a good character does not equal high emotional intelligence. Many people have good character, blindly compromise, and have no bottom-line principle. As a result, it is easy to suffer losses.

But this problem has not been completely solved. In my opinion, people with high emotional intelligence don't necessarily suffer too much injustice. To a large extent, they are adept at calmly analyzing the problems in front of them, skillfully solving current problems, and realizing the common good.

Resolve unnecessary conflicts and emotional stress.

Train keen insight and judgment。Many people neglect the cultivation of keen insight and judgment. In fact, to a certain extent, keen insight and judgment can be considered the most important fulcrum in high emotional intelligence.

Insight is a person's vision. We often hear that some elderly people have good eyesight. Based on their own experience, they can tell if a couple can get along for a long time, and they can also see the essential truth of many things that people overlook.

It's insight and judgment. So by doing so, you can have a strong fate.

<> "When you are strong, your destiny is strong."

In the face of doubts, challenges, and contempt, look into the other person's eyes with a smile, noncommittal, and turn away. You don't need to make an effort to argue with each other, you have to be clear in your heart, self-determined, see the other party as a fool of a performance, and don't argue with fools.

Even if you still have nothing, even if you can't see any hope, even if you have been defeated and lost in battle, and you are confused, please believe in yourself unconditionally, and believe that one day, you will become a light for yourself.

Be your strongest supporter, find what you want to do most in life, and work hard to find a path, always work hard, never give up, your strength will achieve yourself!

1.Have health.

Physical and mental health is the foundation of life, and if you overdraft your health in pursuit of fame and fortune, fame, fortune and material things will be useless. Physical and mental health is the real treasure of life, not only physical health, but also mental health, but unfortunately many people do not care about this when they are young. Nowadays, many young people do not pay attention to the maintenance of their bodies, and they regret it when they pay the price, but unfortunately life cannot be repeated, and when you regret it, it will be too late.

Don't think that as long as you succeed, you can do anything, your health is the only price you can't pay.

2.Achieve a career.

Career is the carrier for adults to realize social value, and it is also the contribution that everyone makes to society. The sense of achievement that a career can bring is irreplaceable by other things, and those who pursue a career will have a firm belief and tenacious will, face setbacks in life with a positive attitude, and constantly motivate themselves to move forward. Of course, if you want to succeed in your career, you must first make the right choice, choose the right industry and field that suits you in order to maximize your energy.

And whether these choices are correct or not is inseparable from the influence of fateful factors.

3.Gain wealth.

Wealth is something that everyone can't avoid in their life, and wealth is the source of life. Wealth is the hardware for people to achieve happiness and happiness, and it is the ladder to the glory of life.

If you want to transship, you must first understand the cause of bad luck.

In everyone's life, there are times when they are lucky, and there are times when they are unlucky. The good or bad luck of life is like the twists and turns of the road, there is no road that is always smooth, and there is no road that is always tortuous and bumpy. The reasons for bad luck are generally as follows.

The first is the unfavorable factors of the passing year. That is to say, fate is destined to not go well in the past few years, for example, some people had very good financial luck in 2009, but their luck suddenly turned bad in 2010. This situation can be easily seen through the eight characters.

In this case, you can only focus on keeping and maintaining your previous achievements.

Second, I didn't choose the right direction in life. For example, it is most suitable to go to the east for development, and it is most taboo to seek development in the southernmost direction. In reality, however, the choice is due south.

That is to say, I went to the direction that was most unsuitable for my own development. If this happens, even if you are lucky, you will be full of frustrations, ups and downs, and trouble every step forward.

The third is the choice of industry. As the saying goes, men are afraid of choosing the wrong line. Actually, this is true for everyone.

Some people are naturally suited to a career in the technology industry, but in reality, due to family and other factors, they work in the administrative side. As a result, everything is not going well, and in the end, at most he is a section chief, and it takes a lot of trouble to promote each level. If you are engaged in technology, you can definitely achieve success easily, and life is relatively easy.

Fourth, there are feng shui reasons. When some unlucky people came to me for testing, I found that my luck was good in recent years, but the reality was that I hit a wall everywhere, and later I learned that it was due to feng shui. For example, the east is the auspicious side of the people, and the reality is that there are toilets or garbage on the east side of the house, which is the most unfavorable for feng shui.

Fifth, it is the factor of doing good and doing evil. There will be afterglow in the house of good deeds. People who regularly do good deeds and do good deeds generally have unexpected gains.

This is one of the reasons why the fate of the great good and the great evil is uncertain. A 33-year-old man once asked me when I could give birth to a boy, and I said that you should do more good deeds, and it is difficult to have a boy or not. At this time, the other party asked me rhetorically

What does this have to do with doing good deeds? It's really hard for someone like this to have a boy.

From the above points, it can be seen that when you are lucky, you can go to a suitable place to do the most suitable industry for yourself, and then pay attention to the environment and do good, in order to achieve twice the result with half the effort, and it is easy to succeed in doing things.