Lack of communication, choose indifference, should I break up?

Updated on society 2024-05-14
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Forget it, maybe she really doesn't like you, otherwise she wouldn't have done it.

    Maybe she likes ambiguous feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can choose to break up, and none of the things you said care about you and cherish your performance. It's not that I want to say that sometimes women really don't care about you, no matter how much you do, it's useless. You can only add trouble to yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love requires 2 people to tolerate each other. Maybe I'm more miserable than you, I can't even touch his mobile phone, and the same is true for QQ, he always says this, it's not good to know more, and if you can let me know, you'll let me know, I'm afraid it's too late when I know,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My opinion, friend, is; It's time for you to choose your own life, don't give up on your dreams and goals, be happy, and don't tire yourself out.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can't communicate, forget it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I've been confused about this kind of thing lately, maybe we've all been wrong......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you care about her, cherish her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think that you can only choose to break up, if you still have love for each other, you should go back to it.

    You all know that you are becoming colder and colder because of a lack of communication, so why do you have to live like this? Isn't it even more important to try to communicate at this time, and then save each other? Of course, if in your hearts, you feel that this love can be there, or it can be not, you can only choose to break up, otherwise you will only have to live together.

    Lack of communication is not only a choice to break up, but also a change in the mode of getting along.

    When two people are together at the beginning, they must have talked about everything, and now there is a lack of communication, and you need to think about why you have this problem. Because only by finding the cause of the problem can we better solve the problem. As soon as there is a problem in the relationship, he immediately says that he only wants to break up.

    It's not easy for the two to be together, so don't say break up easily. What you need to do now is to change the way you get along with each other, and there is no room for maneuver. <>

    If there is no other person in the heart, it may be better to break up with each other.

    The lack of communication may also be due to the fact that the other party does not have the kind of love for each other in their hearts, because they don't want to communicate without love. If you've reached this point where there's nothing you can do about it, you choose to break up. Sometimes two people break up peacefully, or it can be a relief for both parties.

    It's like you were together when you loved at the beginning, and now you have to be chic, and if you don't love, you will separate. <>

    You need to make sure that it's your relationship with each other.

    When you are still unsure of what the relationship between you has become, what you have to do is not to dwell on whether you are left to break up, but to figure out what each other thinks about the Zhao clan law and your own heart. Because only by understanding these things can you know what you should do and whether there is a chance to recover. I think if you're willing to get to know each other, you'll definitely be able to understand what each other is thinking.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, you can try to change the way you get along, communicate well when you encounter problems, tolerate each other, understand each other, and be honest with each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, indeed, because there is no love between two people anymore. If you force yourself together, it will only make people feel very painful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is not necessary to choose to break up, in fact, you can make some changes to balance the freshness between two people, then the relationship will become better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The two people slowly lack communication, become cold, and finally have to choose to break up? In the process of getting along, couples will find that the relationship slowly fades, and there are not so many topics between two people.

    1.One person is always complaining, the other is always perfunctory. In marriage, women often complain and men are perfunctory.

    Women give too much for the family. They keep paying the price and making compromises. It doesn't matter if they live a hard life with their other half, but they can't accept that their other half doesn't love them.

    The wife has made a lot of changes, but she rarely gets affirmation, recognition and praise from her other half. Even husbands think it's natural for their wives to pay. At this time, the wife's heart will be unbalanced and she will feel aggrieved.

    If she doesn't feel her husband's affirmation of herself, she will complain about her other half. The husband, feeling the complaint, takes a "negative response", either perfunctory or always avoids communication, is very indifferent to his wife, and in such a marriage the wife must be very disappointed, and the husband does not think that he is wrong. If the two are at an impasse, there will be big problems in the marriage.

    2.There was no fighting. Do you know what real death looks like?

    This is not a hysterical quarrel. When a person is angry with you, he still cares about you and wants to get love from you. But if you're too lazy to argue, that's a sign that the marriage is really breaking down.

    Because you've accumulated enough disappointments and don't want to say a word to each other anymore, you've both completely lost your faith. Therefore, as long as there is a response, there is a chance to repair the relationship. And the real departure is often silent, the heart is cold, and it is often quiet.

    3.I do my own thing, and I am very selfish. Marriage requires the participation of two people, but if only one person participates and supports, and only one person bears the burden of the family, then the most powerful person cannot bear it, and in such a marriage you will start with anger, feel aggrieved and painful, and in the middle, only in the later stages of complete disappointment.

    In the end, you will completely lose faith in this partner. When he doesn't care about his family at all, only about himself, you don't feel a trace of love from him. You will only suspect that you have seen him and regret that you are in such a bad marriage.

    It's a sad feeling. Marriage is about making each other feel happy and loved. If your marriage isn't happy, don't just tolerate it.

    The reason we get married is not to go through these pains, but to make ourselves happy. Unfortunately, our relationship can easily deteriorate. There are also many happy feelings in life.

    Those happy marriages are the result of business. Two people are emotionally connected to each other and influence each other in life, allowing their feelings to flow between each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes. If the two people get along with each other, they will not communicate, nor will they solve the problems between the two people, and in the end, they will be ruined, they will become cold and break up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, two people should communicate frequently, must maintain close communication, solve problems in a timely manner, and create good memories together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not necessarily. Because as long as two people make changes and manage their feelings with their hearts, the relationship will become better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. After a breakup, it stands to reason that they should be friends. Because once upon a time they were the most intimate of each other.

    But since it's a breakup, there are certain reasons, there are quarrels, there are no love, and so on. If you are unwilling to communicate after a breakup, it is likely that the other party has not stepped out of the shadow of the breakup. It hurts him a lot in this matter.

    How can we find ways to eliminate prejudices and rationalize the source of conflicts In fact, for a breakup, the most important thing is to eliminate his prejudice and dissatisfaction with you. Slowly let him go.

    After a breakup, it stands to reason that they should be friends. Because once upon a time they were the most intimate of each other. But since it's a breakup, there are certain reasons, there are quarrels, there are no love, and so on.

    If you are unwilling to communicate after a breakup, it is very likely that the other party has not stepped out of the shadow of the breakup and accompanying the divination. Ashiho hurt him a lot in this matter. How can we find ways to eliminate prejudices and rationalize the source of conflicts In fact, for a breakup, the most important thing is to eliminate his prejudice and dissatisfaction with you.

    Slowly let him go.

    In fact, after a breakup in life, there are very few people who become friends without respect for each other.

    If you want to continue to communicate with the person you broke up with, why do you have to find a way to communicate with him, or let the fighting Jane friends help persuade each other to let go and be bent lead friends, if it is an empty pants to be compounded, then you need to work hard again

    I don't want to get back together, as long as I take my personal things, she won't let me.

    Dear, that's her heart hasn't passed yet.

    Feelings are a matter of two people. They really want to give up this relationship. Tease, but she can't get by. She needs time and the comfort of her friends [than heart] [heart] [heart].

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is good, of course, socks just shouldn't break up. When two people are together, there will always be all sorts of problems that cannot be communicated. These problems sometimes arise because of the environment and background in which they were raised.

    Or it is caused by two people who have different views on the future. This is all very normal, phenomenon. Two people from different, families.

    It is not possible to be completely unanimous, or substantially unanimous, on certain issues. I can only say that it is already very remarkable to be consistent in the general direction, and as for these small directions, these details sometimes have to be thought of a little bit by yourself, don't mind too much.

    We don't usually see a lot of smug girls or big smug boys, who will live happier in marriage than the kind of girl or boy who demands perfection and detail. Do you know why? It's because they see the general direction more, and they will be more cheerful in terms of personality.

    A lot of problems can be solved by themselves, and they will not be drilled into some small details. Of course, I can also say this, boys and girls who demand perfection, in fact, they are higher at this level of life. Because they are more demanding in life, and because they have requirements, the level of their life will be higher, that is, it will be more quality.

    But the kind of big boys and girls, they don't pay attention to some details in marriage, on the contrary, they can keep more happiness, they can maintain a better optimistic spirit, and they can also pay more attention to the general direction, so they can run their marriage better, and they are generally happier. So if you encounter a problem that you can't communicate, if you want to go out, don't break up. It's not easy for two people to come together.

    Marriage and love are both things that need to be managed.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, I think you should break up when you have a problem that you can't communicate.

    There are two types of quarrels between couples, one is the first quarrel and the other is the umpteenth quarrel. But there is no couple who does not go through the process of quarrelling. When the two people were just together, the relationship was very close, and it was always easy for Senchun to resolve problems when they encountered them, so they would not bring quarrels, even if they were very angry, they would ignore the patience because the intimacy was greater than these things, so they ignored and endured it.

    But after two people get along for a long time, any small things will slowly accumulate and accumulate into a big contradiction, even if two people like each other, but after accumulation, such contradictions will converge and explode. The first quarrel between couples is often a very small thing, very small, maybe the source of that quarrel has appeared before, but there is no quarrel. The first time I quarreled, I went out like this, and many people couldn't prevent it, and they didn't even expect such a quarrel.

    When you quarrel for the first time, both people will be very angry and will feel that they have found out that the other person is such a person before. Now I have a fight with her, and it turns out that he has another side as well. The first quarrel is not so much a quarrel as growth, because after the first quarrel, the two people will become more familiar.

    Couples can't help but disguise themselves when they are together, and it's not easy to expose their bad side to the people they like. After experiencing the first quarrel, you will gradually begin to be really familiar with the relationship, and continue to run in in life, and then develop and live better. In the later life, the intersection of two people will become more and more, so the contradictions will become more and more intense, and quarrels will become a normal thing in life.

    The only difference is what kind of reason caused the quarrel. The frequency of quarrels between two people is increasing, but the problem is getting smaller and smaller, it's not that two people don't love each other. If it is a quarrel between two people, and the frequency is increasing, then there is a problem in the direction of handling some small things.

    Boys will be small and don't understand, why is the girlfriend angry? , and the girlfriend always feels that the boyfriend doesn't think about himself and doesn't think about himself. In the case of two people arguing more and more times, you might as well sit down and think carefully about whether there is a small problem in the way the two people deal with small problems.

    For example, when a girl is angry, does the boy go to each other for the first time? Or in the process of dealing with the relationship with the opposite sex, he did not take into account his own lover. It is the trivial things that often cause quarrels, but behind these small things, there are not a lot of problems.

    It's not terrible to encounter small problems, it's scary to not find out the real reason for the quarrel between two people. Quarrels between couples are becoming more and more frequent, not towards breaking up, not two people who are not what the other party wants, and no one is willing to let it be true.

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