The lack of communication in marriage will produce a lot of contradictions, how are Cheng Lu and Siw

In a show that everyone likes very much, a husband and wife file also makes people feel very envious, and many people think that the two people will be very affectionate. Cheng Lu and Siwen have always been liked by the audience, but the husband and wife in the talk show are very rare, both of them are very eye-catching, but the two of them finally came to an end in their marriage. The reason for the real divorce of two people is unknown, but there must be problems in the daily relationship between two people, and many times it is because of poor communication, which leads to problems.

1. Good communication is the best way to solve problems. In the process of getting along with two people, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions because of some trivial things, and these contradictions can only be solved through good communication. <>

2. Communication is to know how to empathize. The most fundamental point of good communication is to really be able to really understand the difficulties of others by thinking about the problem from the position of the other party. No one can truly empathize, but we can have empathy and try to perceive the pain of others, rather than being a selfish person, in the process of communication, two people can better understand each other.

3. Don't vent your emotions. In the process of communication between two people, the most important thing is not to blindly only know how to vent personal emotions, if you only know to vent your own emotions, it will often hurt the feelings between two people even more, and you can really sit down calmly, and two people can say each other's thoughts to each other, so as to truly seek common ground while reserving differences. It's normal to have problems, and solving them is the most important thing.

The two of them have actually divorced, and they have become good friends again, and now they get along as brothers.

Cheng Lu and Siwen have divorced, and now they have really become "brothers", the two of them are in the same profession, there is competition, communication is not good, and they often ridicule their marriage, which is a very emotional thing.

The two have divorced this year, because Siwen has always felt that she is a very independent woman and does not need the care of others, but Cheng Lu did so, but Siwen found that she couldn't accept it at all.

The two are now divorced, and it is said that there is a communication problem in the marriage, and the so-called independence of the husband and wife is a joke.

Cheng Lu and Siwen are still living their normal lives. An entertainment program does not change a person's lifestyle.

The two of them have divorced, and they have become friends after the divorce, and the two of them actually have many common hobbies.

Friends who like talk shows must be very familiar with Cheng Lu and the "talk show queen" Siwen, like their wonderful performance in "Wonderful Story", and at the same time bring a lot of happiness to everyone, they used to be a couple, but recently, it was revealed that they have gone through divorce procedures, and when the news is confirmed, people can't help but feel a little lost.

In fact, logically speaking, it is Siwen, and Sven is confused. Cheng Lu is a humorous man at first glance, and he is also the chief screenwriter of the talk show. Sven is going to have a hard time finding a better man.

Cheng Lu and Siwen were not only husband and wife before, but also work partners, one wrote jokes and the other acted in jokes, but if work is mixed into the marriage, it will be brought in more negative effects, so the two will divorce.

They didn't make trouble, the two talk show actors, since Siwen became popular, Cheng Lu was not favored, and the free marriage between the two people has always been the result of contradictions.

It's so annoying to them, especially Cheng Lu, who didn't get divorced and talked about how his wife was a queen and how successful, and when he was separated, he started to talk about divorce all day long, is there no creative inspiration? Talking too much is like a street aunt who is short in the family all day long.

It is estimated that because they are each busy with their own careers, they will continue to have problems in their relationship and cannot be solved in time, resulting in divorce in the end.

The resources of the two of them are always in conflict, and the two of them are always competing for resources, so their relationship has become very stiff now.

Why do you want to take care of the affairs of the two of you, just think about it, leave if you want to, what does it have to do with us.

Siwen and Cheng Lu were liked by everyone because they met and fell in love on talk shows, but in July this year, the two released the news of their divorce, which made everyone feel a pity. After the divorce, both said that although they had separated, their relationship mode had not changed, and they were still good brothers for life. Know how to eat a melon, talk about hot dry goods, and don't beep casually.

After the latest episode of "Talk Show Conference" was broadcast, "Cheng Lu called Siwen to remarry" was on the hot search, and many people thought that this was the prelude to Cheng Lu and Siwen, both of whom couldn't give up each other and wanted to remarry.

After listening carefully to Cheng Lu's entire talk show, we will find that Cheng Lu just firmly believes that talk shows must be funny, even if they are divorced, this is the premise, so whether they remarry or not is just a stalk to amuse the audience.

Cheng Lu's text in this issue mainly talks about a man who was forced to be independent, and obtained custody of Haiyuan after divorce, so in order to amuse the audience, he had to tell a little divorce joke, and reflected on the bunk relationship between the two marriages throughout the whole process, and also said that saying bad things about each other in public is not conducive to the relationship between husband and wife.

is a passing mention about the current situation, mentioning that when you are bored, you can only use wine to drown your sorrows.

In the five minutes of Cheng Lu's performance, every sentence was paving the way for the joke, and even poked himself and Siwen to participate in the husband and wife "Tucao Conference", the three couples at that time, he and Siwen divorced, Gillian and Lai Hongguo divorced, and only Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao were left who got along well, and Cheng Lu also hilariously blessed Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao.

On the whole, Cheng Lu's jokes in this issue are not particularly good, it is said that it is the level of taking two or three lights, but I don't know if the judges consider Cheng Lu's persistence in talk shows after the divorce or what, but they finally got four lights.

It is said that Li Dan has always been strict in taking lights, but why he will shoot lights for Cheng Lu this time may be because even if he is divorced, Cheng Lu wants to make his talk show funny and not miserable at all.

Lu and Siwen are Li Dan's famous talk show husband and wife, and the official announcement of their divorce some time ago also caused a lot of waves.

The two teased each other on a talk show, and Siwen was also well-known for his joke that husband and wife are brothers who sleep on bunk beds.

If you live your life as brothers, you will divorce, and you can't help but feel that the way husband and wife get along is really difficult to grasp.

Siwen withdrew from the competition, and it was visible to the naked eye that he still had deep feelings for Cheng Lu, but Cheng Lu had already let go as if he had let go, and ridiculed the divorce in last night's show, and jokingly said that the two held a complaining conference when they got married, and whether they should hold one when they divorced.

Siwen didn't want to do it, saying that he had to write a manuscript.

Cheng Lu shouted Siwen in the air, or she will do it when she remarries.

However, when I saw the state of the two, I felt that they must have made a deliberate decision, not like other couples who were angry about divorce certificates.

Remarriage is a real problem.

However, speaking of which, the couple once went to the "Tucao Conference" husband and wife special session, and invited three couples at that time - Siwen Chenglu, Gillian Lai Hongguo and Qin Hao Yi Nengjing.

This episode of the show seems to be toxic, the first two couples have officially announced their divorce this year, and only Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing are left.

Cheng Lu blessed Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing in the talk show, and also teased Qin Hao with Qin Hao's popular "The Hidden Corner", if Yi Nengjing divorced, you asked her: Do I still have a chance?

Otherwise, let's go hiking together.

Yang Tianzhen directly said in the show that Cheng Lu's profession is greater than people's hearts, and the implication is that Cheng Lu is ruthless, and he can use the divorce as a joke to amuse the audience as soon as he is divorced.

Melon-eating netizens also condemned Cheng Lu for not having deep affection.

In fact, it is not easy for a talk comedian, or a comedian, to laugh and expose the wound in front of many people, not many people can do it.

While his heart was dripping blood, he calmly teased.

Whether you really let go and face it optimistically, only you know.

Li Dan also said in the show that the creativity of comedians is to draw materials from life, and Yang Mengen, who has a high score in this episode, took the door as the right person, and the gap between the rich and the poor was the theme, and received a lot of praise.

In addition, He Guangzhi's joke about taking the subway also has a lot of resonance, and even Zhang Wei, who has not taken the subway for more than ten years, said that I have experienced everything he said.

In fact, what Li Dan said is also very realistic, a particularly typical example is Stephen Chow. Stephen Chow's early life was embarrassing, and he was not welcomed in the crew, so he created a classic masterpiece like "The King of Comedy".

Siwen and Cheng Lu have always been good partners in talk shows, from behind-the-scenes screenwriters to spit show actors, the two quickly became popular because of a bunk brother joke, and they are resident actors in the Tucao Conference and the talk show conference, after the official announcement of the divorce, many fans felt embarrassed.

In fact, in the new talk show conference, when Cheng Lu performed on stage, it caused everyone to speculate, at that time, Cheng Lu had been talking about divorce-related topics, "What if I get divorced, so I searched for a lot of topics about how couples get along", and also sighed and debated with Siwen, "In the end, I won, and my home is gone."

After the last sentence was said at the time, some netizens found the clues of his emotional instability, whether it was Siwen's expression or Cheng Lu's feelings were not as natural as before, although Cheng Lu often joked about the relationship between husband and wife, but this time it was still very surprising.

The original talk show jokes have now become a reality, which is very sad for netizens who have always liked the two, but all that can be done as a melon-eating crowd is to pay attention silently, just like the response of the two: I will still be good friends in the future, maybe husband and wife are not suitable, but friends are more suitable, looking back on the various jokes that the two have talked about before, it should be the epitome of real life.

So the core of comedy is really tragedy, and this feeling should be very strong for all comedians, talk show actor Lai Bao died some time ago, plus Cam before, and Cheng Lusiwen, who is now divorced, has indeed turned from a comedy to a tragedy.

There is definitely no possibility of remarriage, because since the two of them have divorced and participated in the show, it means that they have completely let go of their feelings for each other.

Of course, there is no such possibility of laughing, because the two of them have completely given up on each other, and the two of them will get up early in the morning to joke, which means that the two of them have completely let go of this relationship.

With this possibility, it can be seen that the relationship between the two people is still okay, and there is indeed some interaction that proves that the two people are still connected.

Zhao Xiaohui has a saying: talk shows are complaining about life. Cheng Lu and Siwen are talk show husband and wife, and many of their jokes come from life.

In my opinion, Cheng Lu's complaint is just an act of adapting to the competition system.

1. The most famous joke of husband and wife becoming brothers Siwen must be "treating her husband as a brother", when she said that if she wants a long-term marriage relationship, she must treat her husband as a brother. When you don't have so many requirements for each other, you will also find that the marriage relationship is much more harmonious. Whether it is the other party's relationship or work, there is not too much intervention, this is the purest husband and wife relationship.

At the beginning, I really regarded this paragraph as a joke, and Cheng Lu and Siwen were still that model couple. Even many people began to envy them, why did they think so thoroughly. Looking at it now, Siwen's words should be more helpless.

As the saying goes, "love can't be hidden", and true love can't be ignored. Many of Cheng Lu and Siwen's jokes are written for each other, and every time they ridicule divorce, it may not be groundless. Now that he is really divorced, he has really changed from a husband and wife to a brother, and he can really ignore it.

2. Siwen quits the competition Like most divorced couples, the man is always the first to be blamed. Cheng Lu has gone from being the earliest screenwriter to being a talk show actor today, and Siwen can be said to have entered the industry with him. But whether on or off the stage, Siwen's popularity is much higher than Cheng Lu.

This must be a kind of pressure for a man. And Siwen also belongs to a woman with a very strong personality, the two sides appear on the same stage, and there is competition in their careers, which is not a good thing for couples. After the divorce, Siwen was very relieved, and after retiring amicably, he finally had his own time to go out for a walk.

And Cheng Lu can't let go of this show, and whether he retires or not, he will inevitably be scolded. Although the two divorced, they never responded positively to the reason for the divorce. The statement released on social platforms is also the same official, and even uses the most famous "brother" joke.

3. Cheng Lu ridiculed marriage Before withdrawing from the competition, Siwen also had a joke about the divorce of the two. As a man, Cheng Lu should of course also respond. His jokes are more cautious than Siwen's, and his practical words are more cautious, for fear of hurting the other party.

At the beginning, they participated in the show with Gillian and Yi Nengjing, and Yi Nengjing and his wife, but in the end, only Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao were still fine, and the only model couple on the talk show finally parted ways. In fact, it doesn't matter who is right or wrong in this marriage, the most important thing is that Cheng Lu and Siwen have really learned a lot from each other. As Cheng Lu said, he and Siwen are "partners in life and bosom friends at work", and they are getting better and better because of each other's existence.

The two are close to each other and familiar with each other, and they broke up peacefully and became friends again. Maybe this "brother" relationship is really more suitable for them than lovers.