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Anonymous users2024-02-111. Love and encouragement are indispensable. Timid children are generally also children who lack love. Because of the lack of love and insecurity in the heart, it is easy to be unconsciously afraid and worried.
Therefore, parents must accompany their children as much as possible from an early age, so that children can feel the love and warmth of their parents, and their hearts will be richer and more secure. At the same time, parents must encourage their children as much as possible, guide and help them complete some difficult tasks. As long as one or two challenges are successful, the child's courage will come.
2. Encourage children to read more. Reading is the ladder of human progress, and it is also the best way for children to obtain various nutrients necessary for growth. Encourage children to read more useful books of various types, make friends with the characters in the books, and follow the author to travel ancient and modern China and foreign countries.
If there are children at home, it is indispensable to collect books, and parents must reserve spiritual food for their children in advance.
3. Encourage your child to make friends. Every child needs to have their own like-minded friends who can play together and share the bits and pieces of life. When the child has his own good friends, when he encounters something he is afraid of, he has someone to talk to, and the friends are more empathetic to help him find a way, and the child's fear will be greatly reduced.
It can be said that a bosom friend is a good medicine for the timid.
4. Be a military advisor for children. The reason why people are afraid is largely due to the unknown. Because if you don't understand, don't know, don't understand, you will be afraid, on the other hand, if you have a clear grasp of things, you will not dare to do it.
Grasping this mentality, parents should learn to be their children's military advisors and help their children analyze possible difficulties and solutions. For example, if the child is afraid of the speech, the parents will help analyze the preparation for the speech, how to overcome the fear on the stage, etc., and help the child understand the speech, and the child will naturally not be afraid.
5. Help children improve their adaptability. Children who are not confident often have weak adaptability, and their subconscious will always deny and doubt their abilities, thus preventing them from facing life alone. Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents should give their children more opportunities to exercise alone, help children overcome the hurdles of fear and anxiety, create more opportunities for children to contact the outside world, let children have a platform to express their abilities, and make more new friends, which is more conducive to allowing children to give full play to their inner growth strength, purposeful life and learning, in order to achieve the goal of gradually controlling their own lives and becoming a person who adapts to society.
6. Encourage children to engage in positive self-suggestion. In life, parents should focus on guiding their children to be positive and self-motivated, and teach them to stimulate their potential through self-motivation, so as to achieve success step by step. At the same time, parents should also consciously give positive psychological hints to their children, bring positive self-knowledge and life experience to their children, and then help their children to succeed.
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