I m a girl! Because of parental restrictions, sometimes there are extreme thoughts. What should I do

There is no way, adults can only do childish things sometimes. Because many things are also experienced for them for the first time. If you have children one day, you will also worry about them learning badly, especially girls.

Second, the custom rules, you must return home before what time in the evening, the specific time can be discussed; You have to take the initiative to tell them, but they are not allowed to participate. All information about the person, place, and time must be true, and what kind of punishment will you receive if you lie about it—such as being grounded and not allowed to go out;

3. Introduce good friends to them. A piece of an appointment to come home for a meal or something.

Through these three steps, they know your life circle, life rules, and have **, and can go home on time, who wants to bother to follow you every day. Through the above steps, you can also convey a message to them, that is, you have grown up and can arrange your life rationally.

Your mother is following you and she may have serious psychological problems.

The question is complex. It involves her growth experience, whether her marriage is harmonious, whether her career is successful, and whether her communication with you is smooth. and whether you have a bad record.

Maybe you don't have the capacity to think about it that much. In fact, there is no need to think about it. You just have to be yourself.

It may be that they worry about you in everything they do because they love you, they want you to be able to live under their noses, they want you to be their good boy forever because they think it's for your good. If you think you can, find an opportunity to talk to them, or wait until you're older to move out. If you leave home now, it will not be good for you, because no matter how painful you are at home, your family will love you, but it is different outside, you will be more miserable after leaving home, and you will die in a hurry at home, and when you come home again, you will definitely be beaten.

In short, try to communicate with your parents, tell them what you think, or try to think of a way to live. It's a bit stressful to live in such an environment, but if you think about it, it's because of your parents' love, try to think about it from their point of view, and let them think about it for you.

Persistence is victory, don't think about it, I'm the same way, when you think of them giving birth to me and raising me, you know.

It depends on how old you are, you are too young to leave home and have no way to take care of yourself.

Me too, suicide, self-harm thought about everything, and one day I cut my wrists with a knife.

If you want to open a little, they are also for your good.

I'm like that too.

Read more motivational books.

Take deep breaths when you're stressed or nervous.

There is also the fulcrum of finding life.

It's a little depressed, let's find something to do for ourselves Don't think about some useless things Thinking too much is just adding to yourself Big things are not important to live How beautiful life is There are so many beautiful things by our side What reason do we have not to live well People want Dong to be content and happy.

There are so many people with bad conditions Aren't they all working hard for their lives Are your conditions worse than theirs Isn't it Want to open a little talk to friends Talk to your parents Don't be cranky by yourself Come on!

When you can't think about it, do something to relax yourself, read a book, listen to **, have a cup of coffee, and it's good that this time has passed.

It doesn't matter, it's just thinking about it, and many people think this way. I'm in a good mood and I'm a good man.

If you can't defeat yourself, you will be defeated by yourself!

Your world is grey ... Since you're so miserable. Then I support you to cut the vein.

But before that, please deposit 20-300,000 yuan into your parents' accounts. At least the old man is gone, can you take care of yourself?

What's inside?。。 When you cut the pulse, don't go to learn from the TV to find a hotel to lie in the bathtub. Please, the boss will do business in the future.

Someone like you who died with so much resentment in his life. I don't know what will change after death. People will be afraid.

So do a good deed before you die, go to a place where there are few people to die. Remember to give 110 before you die. I'm afraid no one will collect your body.

ps；I didn't want to reply to the post.。。 The whole of China doesn't know how many people like you commit suicide every day. Not surprising. It's just that night that I saw my brother persuade you for a long time. It's just not worth it for him. Because you didn't listen to him at all.

Re-ps; I'm not greedy either. But I'm afraid of death.

That's what people said to me, and I'll tell you about it.

Sometimes I just can't control my temper and I'm very short-tempered. I regret it every time I lose my temper, so I have to mentally suggest to myself before every tantrum that don't lose my temper, it's not a big deal. Sometimes you should think about the bright side.

This is known as low emotional intelligence, the ability to manage emotions and emotions. Sometimes the success or failure of a person's life is related to emotional intelligence. Really want to change. Just be with someone with high emotional intelligence and see what others do.

People and personality have a lot to do with the environment in which you live

Still reading? Maybe you can try to live in school accommodation for a while first.

No matter who there is always a time when there are troubles and helplessness, once the accumulated contradictions and troubles are not resolved and helped, it is inevitable that some bad thoughts will occur, but that extreme thought is only very short-lived, and it will generally be self-excluded, unless it happens to patients with major depression It will be very dangerous, in short, we should maintain a positive and optimistic attitude in life.

Read more books, psychology books, good movies, good literature, **, try to know yourself as much as possible.

Many times people's emotions are caused by biased perceptions of themselves and others, and it is good to be able to realize that their thoughts are extreme, and the next step is to change themselves.

Your thinking space is relatively narrow, and when you encounter problems in life and cannot solve them, you will naturally have extreme thoughts.

If you've been suppressed for too long, you really want to explode, but try to keep yourself sane, otherwise it's too late to regret it if you do something irreparable on impulse.

Actually, it's nothing, this is the price of growth, as long as a person grows, there will inevitably be pressure, so if it takes too long, the pressure will accumulate into your extreme thoughts, and at the same time, when you send the mailbox, you try your best to deny yourself, and it is not right, the idea is to be organized, but the Buddha himself is not a good way, but let you remember this idea yourself, and over time, the problem will be serious.

So my advice is: next time, if there is a next time, you might as well go out for a walk, drink tea, listen to songs, kk songs, or something, don't let yourself be so nervous, take it easy, u can do it!

Go see the psychiatrist at your school, don't be afraid, be sensible.

Maybe it's your psychological problem, but you seem to be very rebellious...When you encounter something unhappy, you may want to use death to solve everything and leave this cold world! Think death might be funny!

I hope you must put your mind right and be optimistic about the joys, sorrows and sorrows around you! No one will have a smooth life! You must be optimistic when you encounter problems! There's still a long way to go!

The best thing to do is to find a psychiatrist and talk to him often, which is a matter of time. Your past upbringing has shaped your present, and to put it bluntly, your ability to resist frustration is vulnerable. It is most important to enrich your life and improve your attractiveness, and it is highly recommended to see a psychologist.

As long as you are angry, no matter who you are angry with, you like to hurt yourself, because there is no way to hurt others, you can only vent by hurting yourself, and that emotion can go out, otherwise it will be even more uncomfortable. Now that I'm used to this, every time I watch the blood flow slowly, I feel that the bad mood also flows out together, and I don't feel much pain, and it is even very comfortable.

Because of depression, there is no suitable way to vent, and the mood is depressed. If you don't find a way to calm yourself down, you can't do anything, you can't sleep, you can't eat.

So will find some extreme things to calm yourself down, such as:

Wear headphones to listen to particularly loud sounds**, seeking inner peace in the deafening;

When I went to the playground three times, the exercise load obviously exceeded my capacity, and I was so tired that I couldn't think about anything else;

self-harm with a blade, a little pain, look at your own blood, calm yourself down;

Actually, it's all a way to vent, but that's all I can do here, and I don't know any more.

That's probably it. Above.

You want to scold your parents, and you have thoughts of self-harm, every time your parents say me, you are very uncomfortable, this is, a little bit of depression, you should.

Find a psychiatrist, enlighten you well, of course, the parent's education method is also a problem, you should also see a psychiatrist.

It's rebellious. The behavior of parents in the mind is called excessive care.

Life may be empty of space. Bai may be dissatisfied with the status quo but can't find a solution. I've been like this too.

Zhi's experience. When all the cuts are settled down steadily, it will be fine. If you really decide to suppress it, just find a way to vent. It's okay to chat with friends, listen to songs or something, or you can shout a few times happily and vent it.

1.The woman's parents have never been in a relationship with the boy;

2.The woman's parents cannot experience this era from the perspective of a boy;

3.The girl's parents don't necessarily love the boy much, or they haven't learned how to love the girl.

Therefore, Xiaomei believes that parents do not play an important role in the relationship between men and women. If you are troubled by this, it is largely because the two have problems, maybe they have different views on the matter, or the emotional foundation is not strong enough, etc.; On the other hand, if you can both really feel happy together and communicate without stress, then all kinds of situations will not be a burden for you.

The determinant of happiness is not money, let alone distance. Generally speaking, girls' parents really love their daughters and are good for their daughters, they must not take money as the only measure, as a boy, should they reflect on whether they have achieved other standards of happiness besides money? The girl's parents must have seen these soft conditions and objected.

And talking about things with money is an excuse, because this is the most intuitive, effective, and irrefutable objective fact. At this time, what the boy needs to do is to prove to the girl's parents that you can give the girl happiness on other soft conditions. Her parents would definitely change that way.

Because after all, the happiness of daughters is the greatest wish of parents.

Of course, the girl's parents consider it from the perspective of the girl and hope that she will be happy, but in the eyes of her parents, happiness is marrying into a wealthy family. Most young people think of happiness as happiness that only boys can give. Happiness is not hanging from a tree, and happiness is not only one way, for boyfriends and girlfriends, as well as for the parents of girls, this is the truth.

Of course, different people have different ideas and concepts, and Xiaomei feels that her relatives will oppose it, so there must be their reasons, after all, the elders have more knowledge than us, and in some cases we can listen to their suggestions. If it is caused by economic reasons or distance, it depends on whether the man and woman can stand the test, whether they are willing to endure poverty and the blow of time, and many lovers in real life are separated in this way. We have to face this stressful society, think about whether we can give each other happiness, whether we really believe that you can spend your life together, whether you can withstand the many difficulties in life, and if you can firmly say that there is no problem, then go on firmly.

After all, love is a kind of enjoyment, not hurting each other, if you love, please go on firmly and tell those who oppose you out loud!

Of course, sometimes we have to learn to give up, what is yours is yours, we will not get lost easily, not your reluctance, even money and distance will become a problem, and become a bond between the two parties.

This happens from time to time, usually when the girl succumbs to her parents* out of desperation. However, after many years, they will still think of each other. Although it was too late, it was a lifelong pain.

If this girl 2113 is more realistic, because her parents are more realistic and pay more attention to the realistic conditions of the man's 5261, she may be a parent. On the other hand, modern people are relatively self-sufficient. Generally, parents are very difficult to control their children in 4102.

Also all outside, 1653 rarely at home. So the possibility of change is still relatively large. There is another aspect to see how much this girl loves you.

If he loves you very much, he will break through all obstacles to be with you.

Of course it will, the daughter is the heart of the parents, the pearl in the palm, and will not hurt their daughter, the filial girl would rather be wronged than go against the good intentions of the parents, so as long as the parents do not recognize you, the girl will mention breaking up, and you will die of this heart.