Helplessness after a breakup, what do you want me to do?

Dear landlord, I'm glad about your question I've encountered your problem once The following is my hope to help the landlord If two people are serious and really love each other After breaking up, it is absolutely impossible to become friends If two people are just playing and they will probably be friends after the breakup Can't be friends because they have hurt each other, and they can't be enemies because they love each other! It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger! Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense! If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will also want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled and couples break up due to conflicts, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers! What can two people do if they become friends?

Look at the person you used to love And now you don't love each other anymore Be friends How do you get along with each other together How do you face it That may only remind you of your past It will only hurt more Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends. But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery. We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love. A breakup is a breakup, and you must never mention being friends. If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends. Just the most familiar stranger Let time fade Everything that was once only a rainbow in memory I wish you happiness Maybe I didn't put it down I still want to be friends Welcome the landlord to continue to ask If there are inaccuracies in my own Please forgive me! Don't text him all the time Don't keep looking for him Maybe you just want to talk to him You think that's normal It's not too demanding But maybe he doesn't think that way Remember that what you think doesn't represent what he thinks Are you really liking him without expecting anything in return You ask yourself Are you sure you don't need him to reciprocate anything Then why are you sad If you really want nothing How can you feel sad So don't think that you love him so much Maybe she doesn't care how much you give for him Sometimes the love you give him may be a burden This burden will only make him want to stay away from you even more, because he doesn't want to owe you anything, worry about him for everything, worry about him, and do it for him, you think he can't do without you, you feel that others can't do it as perfect as you are, but you have to be clear that you are not the person he wants, no matter how perfect you are, you can't compete with others who don't do it, that position is not yours in the first place...

Why do you insist on squeezing on, looking forward to you!

I'm like that too. Tears flow into the sea, the hypocritical shallow singing of the world: facing the sea, the spring flowers are blooming.

If you can, go on a trip to relax, I have a friend who is. No matter how helpless the world is, we have to keep going. I don't know if you like Xiao Si or not, he said:

Time is the greatest teacher. There is a passage in "There is a passage: You have to believe that there must be your lover in the world, whether you are surrounded by light and drowning in applause at the moment, or you are walking alone on the cold street and getting wet in the heavy rain, whether it is the morning with light snow or the dusk scorched by the heat wave, he will definitely pass through the surging crowds of this world, and he will walk through them one by one and walk towards you.

He will definitely come to your side with full enthusiasm and heavy love in his eyes, and hold on to you. He can't wait to come to you, and if he's young, he'll hug you like a naughty child who has a toy and won't share it. If he is no longer young, he will be like a hunter returning from a difficult battle, lighting a campfire beside you, and then hugging you to sleep tired and relieved.

He will definitely find you. You have to wait.

I would choose to delete it, or throw it away. Breaking up, for most young people, is a chance, someone has only been in love once in their life, that is, marriage; While living in marriage, he began to grope for love; From being single in the mother and fetus to the age of talking about marriage, I met a person who was almost suitable, and I decided to live the rest of my life. There are also some people who have many twists and turns in their relationship, start a new relationship after breaking up, and break up again not long after falling in love; The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, dare to love and hate.

There are also some people who may only need 1 or 2 breakup experiences to consume all their courage and patience; He could no longer fall in love with anyone, and he could not devote all his love. Because of the breakup, he has lost half of his soul. In fact, breaking up is an opportunity for young people; This kind of chance may not have results, but it will be a rare experience in your life.

When you are old, you will feel that this life has been in vain when you recall the love and hate of your youth, and the bravery and romance of your youth. It is very normal to feel sad after a breakup, but how to face a breakup is a difficult problem. Whether you are 20 or 40 years old, you have the right to pursue love; Whether you're 20 or 40, it's going to be sad when you break up.

It's just that ending a relationship at different ages has different ways of coping. Some people spend it easily, and some people need to spend months, or even years, to digest the scars brought by their broken love.

Falling out of love is not a trivial matter, compared to the feelings you yourself experience; But if compared to your long life journey, falling out of love is a small thing, the key is how you look at it. -02 The way to break up, you should make some decisions, do not procrastinate, break up, and break up, which are some of my suggestions for everyone who has fallen out of love. There is a saying that "long pain is better than short pain".

What awaits you is a long period of pain. Every time you see the dynamics of your ex, the ** of your ex, and the gift given to you by your ex, you will touch the scene, see things and think about people; The feelings that have been in the past for a long time have resurfaced in your heart.