Reality is always boring, especially a person s day, alas, what to do?

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not. What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart. There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining.

Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach. For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms.

Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain. Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while.

Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

I don't understand why some people always say why life is so difficult, really many people around me think so, I also want to ask, say that life is difficult, do you have parents at home? Do they love you? What is your current occupation?

Do you have a workforce? Are you a healthy person? If you have these problems, if you have parents, go and check how many orphanages there are in the world, if you have a labor force, you might as well go to the vegetable market Many vegetable sellers are grandparents and grandmothers, if you are a healthy person, you should also know that there are many disabled people in the world, maybe you still know about the Paralympics?

In the eyes of these people, do you think that they will think that life is difficult? Not necessarily. You have to love yourself first.

Maybe your parents don't love you, but please love yourself. As the saying goes, it is better to rely on others than on yourself, and it is better to love yourself than to love others. Those who are disabled, those grandparents, they are not in good health, they are old, and some of them can't walk normally, but they still love themselves, love life, and believe in themselves more.

Because they know that I am an unchangeable fact, but I can change my opinion, the imperfection is still beautiful, the brilliance is not limited to age, it is important to be good to yourself, to be happy and happy.

Second, you need to change your attitude. You don't want to be negative all the time, always think that the world is not fair to you, and your life will always be the hardest. Because if you think this way, your life will always be like this.

You have to think that life is the same for everyone, you envy the high starting point of others, it doesn't matter, you can become a high starting point yourself, you feel that others are brilliant and beautiful at all times, then it doesn't matter, some people have a beastly heart, if you are kind, then in front of them you are an angel. So you have to think about it from another angle, at least I'm still alive, aren't I? If you live, there is hope, this is the truth.

Finally, think about what you really want. You want to live in the upper class like everyone else, and be as easy as everyone else. Then be firm in your ideas and work hard for them.

Don't think that if you don't do anything, happiness will come knocking on your door. Don't even think about it, in the past, during the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, if we didn't work hard to resist the enemy and unite, then there would be no China today, and there might be no you. So, take what you want, don't wait for others to give it to you, what others give you has lost its original meaning.

Moreover, it is the things that you have worked on yourself that will make you happier because you will feel a sense of accomplishment.

The nature of life is boring, and to eliminate this situation, you must have a hobby, from which you can cultivate your own interests, otherwise you may not be able to bear it.

But if you have strong self-discipline, you may be able to self-control, personally, this is also a kind of ideal to promote, people have a desire to go a long way, so you look at China, the United States ten years ago there were many inspirational masters, from this aspect to give people the strength of life.

I think that if you live alone, you will inevitably get bored, so try to make some friends, so that you can communicate with friends or travel often, so that your life will become a meaningful life.

Since ancient times, humans have lived in groups. Both the clans and tribes of the past and the villages and regions of today reflect the fact that humans prefer to live in groups. In fact, this is not only a habit and custom that has been passed down for a long time, but there are indeed many benefits to living in a group.

Therefore, it can seem a little difficult to live life alone.

First of all, in terms of living environment and necessities, a person's life will inevitably seem a little stretched. In those places where people come together and live together, life will seem harmonious and much smoother. When you don't have firewood, rice, oil and salt at home, and you are in a hurry to cook, you can go to your neighbor's house and ask him for some to solve your urgent needs.

Moreover, it can be very insecure to live alone. Think about you being the only one nearby, helpless, no matter what accident happens, or what threatens your personal safety, you will feel lost and helpless for a while, and you don't know what to do. After all, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and if something happens, the first people who can help are people near you.

As a result, life can seem difficult for a person.

Secondly, a person's life is not only a lack of material support and help, but also a lack of spiritual support and comfort. Think about it, you have encountered something unpleasant at work, or you have met someone who has blocked you somewhere, and you are already sad and uncomfortable. I finally endured my emotions and came home, and when I opened the door, it was deserted, there were no cute smiling faces that could give you comfort and warmth, and no one even brought you a cup of tea, handed you a cup of hot water, asked why you were sad, and cared about why you were depressed.

At such times, you will feel as if you have been abandoned by the whole world, and you will really feel that feeling of loneliness and helplessness. You may cry bitterly, not only because of the depression of your mood, but also because of the catharsis of loneliness. At times like these, you will feel more realistically the hardships of a person's life.

The most important thing is that a person's power is very thin and small. When you are sick, it is so serious that you are almost unconscious, and you can only get up and call emergency for yourself**; When the sky gets overcast and it is about to rain, you may still have to worry about collecting your clothes at home? Are the windows closed?

Even if it rains heavily, you have to rush home. It is true that many things cannot be accomplished by one person. Because, the power of a person is really too insignificant, so ah, a person's life is very difficult.

Actually, I just want to tell you.

Life is our most basic thing.

If you don't pay attention to this issue.

Maybe your life is going to be bad.

So life. Love.

Undertaking. Camaraderie.

If you want to get it all.

You have to keep a good attitude.

To live vividly.

It's wonderful. Go live your perfect life.

Do you understand. The ** of life is yourself.

Make the most of your current life.

I think you'll be happy.

May good people have a safe life.

Actually, I know it's boring.

Because there's nothing to do.

You think, if only there was something to do.

Will it still be boring.

You can do some of the things you like to enrich your life.

Every day, we must maintain a good attitude, be happy, and be happy.

It's like taking everything in a good mood.

I think. It's hard to be unhappy.

For example. Listen**.

Watch TV series. Read comics.

Watch a movie. Play with the hood, fight with the play, run and run.

Play the game. Play mahjong.

Read**. Go out shopping.

Find a friend to chat with.

I think it's all good.

In short, do whatever you want.

Just be happy. Yes.

Ha ha. Happy to you.

Please do me a favor.

Don't copy mine.

This is my patent.

Thank you].

One. Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". Two.

If you think that you will be in a bad mood if you are in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning, don't fall in love with the bed, wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel....Next to the three-beat segment. Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. Four.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. Five. Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

Six. Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. Seven. Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

Eight. Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

Nine. Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are similar to you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Boredom is because there is nothing to do, first find something to do for yourself, such as going to ** open search and play today, what books to read today, etc., arrange things to do, then you won't feel bored;

Find ways to enrich yourself and do something you love.

If you are a little closed-minded and do orange sails, you will not feel bored, boring because you have nothing to do, or you don't want to do something, don't want to go to the sedan car and do it, and are too lazy to do it.

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