Boyfriend is very unmotivated 20, boyfriend is very unmotivated

What you need to ask yourself is: Are your family's worries your worries? If you haven't thought too much about it because you are young, and you feel that it makes sense after listening to the old man's words, then it depends on whether your boyfriend can meet your new needs on the basis of "tolerant, optimistic, and down-to-earth".

Then see if your boyfriend is able or willing to meet your new needs.

And if you will, see how long it will take to reach your satisfaction? On the other hand, if your boyfriend feels very uncomfortable like this and turns his head away, it is normal! Because he's not a part-time worker, and you're not a boss.

If you really want to continue dating your boyfriend, you may need to let go of some of the feelings of superiority that come with your boyfriend's family. And you choose a man who has no background and needs to start from scratch, and it is normal to endure hardships along with it. This is an opportunity to exercise you to get out of the greenhouse.

Because the vast majority of women have to come out of the greenhouse sooner or later, it is better to go first than to be passive!

He's a Pisces, congratulations on finding such a living treasure!

The character is very high, what are you afraid of I was just thinking, is he afraid that you will leave him if he loses everything?

If you believe he's smart, or he's really smart, kind girl, don't worry, you won't end as badly as you think.

Even if there is a day, it is as you wish to see how such a wise person rises and falls, and there is finally a chance to show you his self-motivation.

Cherish the experience of life, be content with the moment, and be at ease.

May you all last forever!!

Your boyfriend's typical unrealistic type loves fantasies.

You can find a way to make him feel like he doesn't have money, because he's never been in trouble because of money, so he doesn't know the importance of money, and he doesn't know the importance of making money.

First of all, what is your boyfriend's spending?

I'm also annoyed by my girlfriend all day and tired! This kind of thing can't be rushed, you have to take your time, be more tolerant of him, you haven't suffered hardship, and if you force it all at once, you will definitely not be adaptable! If you really can't change it, forget it, as long as you control him and don't let him lose, it's not bad to live with peace of mind!

Pay attention to his consumption and give him less money!

He shouldn't have lived that kind of life without money, you try to get their family to cut off his finances**, go out to work with him, and stay outside for a year will probably not be like this.

It should be a TV series or ** I've watched too much, and I don't know the cruelty of reality yet! If he likes to watch these, you can choose some series with upbeat themes to show him. Like "Carry Love to the End", "Blood Romance" and the like.

**Words - "Gone with the Wind"! In addition, you have to encourage him to take you around the world on his own!

Actually, I think it's enough for him to be nice to you, and let the rest be.

Of course, you can manage it well, it is best, but if you can't manage it well, what can you do?

You're too romantic, if you also like romance, that's not bad, otherwise make a plan!

The time has not yet come, and when he is older and mature, he may be better.

This may be his personality I guess he hasn't suffered anymore You have to let him taste the taste of having no money and teach him slowly!