How to tell if the future in laws are easy to get along with?

It is said that women are most afraid of marrying the wrong person, and this is really the case.

In fact, it's not just about marrying a man, it's more about integrating into each other's family life, and now there are still many women who live with their mother-in-law after marrying, which is not related to stay together, and the living habits of the two generations are really difficult to integrate, so it's really difficult to find a good mother-in-law, a mother-in-law who understands her children and doesn't embarrass her daughter-in-law.

In fact, being a person is the same, whether it is a mother-in-law or an ordinary person, we must know how to respect each other, which is the premise of getting along for a long time, but marrying is the key thing in a woman's life, and the in-laws are not a short time to get along to understand, how can we judge whether the mother-in-law is easy to get along with?

It's very simple, in fact, whether the future in-laws' family are easy to get along with, you can see it after a meal.

Look at your mother-in-law and ask you what you like to eat.

It is said that everyone who comes is a guest, although it is the son's girlfriend's future prospective daughter-in-law, so the mother-in-law who has a good heart will take into account the feelings of her daughter-in-law when eating, so when she eats, she will ask her daughter-in-law what she likes to eat, what are the taboos, and she will think about it very thoroughly, and she will not let you see jokes without heart.

But if you don't get along well, your mother-in-law will not care about your thoughts, even if you are a person who is used to eating light tastes and can hardly bear the greasy cured taste, your mother-in-law will not care, and it will be a big dish This mother-in-law will not care about your thoughts and will not consider your feelings.

See if your mother-in-law will let you help.

In fact, you went to the future mother-in-law's house, and you haven't passed the door, you are a guest, how can there be a reason for guests to help, in fact, helping is what it means, you can help, you can help, you don't have to force it, you don't have to force it to help after you get married, why care about this.

But in the future, the in-laws will ask you to help take care of them when they meet for the first time, which can only mean that they feel that they should call you at all, if you are stupid to do everything, if you have full motivation, maybe you will suffer in the future, in fact, the mother-in-law who gets along well will not let you call you on the first day of meeting, which is uneducated.

See if your husband only listens to her mother-in-law.

When eating, see if the husband listens to his mother-in-law, let him eat whatever he wants, if the husband does not refute and will only be obedient, and will not say his own thoughts, then it means that this man is very obedient, rarely has his own speaking status, and the mother-in-law is too strong, which is also a bad thing for the future.

In fact, marriage is the life of the husband and wife, and it is enough to let the children develop on their own, but when she is so old, she is still so worried about her son, but it will make her son have no opinions, so ah, such a man and woman had better think about it clearly.

Summary: In fact, we are ordinary people in our lives, just a problem of generation gap, so there will be so much unpleasantness, sometimes mutual understanding is very important, but it is related to their own future, as a woman can not compromise, so ah when looking at the mother-in-law's family to consider more aspects, as long as you see the above points clearly, I think you should have your own answer in your heart.

This depends on what others say about them, because my mother-in-law and father-in-law have been living in the local area for many years, so the evaluation of the people around him is very accurate, but it is inevitable that the people around him will hide some real information for him.

See how she treats you when you first meet. When you first come home with your boyfriend, pay attention to whether your mother-in-law is close to you. Many mothers-in-law smile when they face their sons, but when they see their daughters-in-law, they are as cold as ice, like strangers.

It mainly depends on the family atmosphere of the in-law's family, if the family is usually very harmonious, everyone is happy, and the environment is relaxed, and the future will be very good.

See if she will often interfere with your work, if so, then she should be very strong, such a mother-in-law will be difficult to get along with, and have her own ideas.

If you go to your mother-in-law's house, your mother-in-law always gives you a look, it may not be very easy to get along, and it will be more troublesome after marriage, so you have to find your husband to mediate.

If the future mother-in-law is particularly simple and speaks very docilely, it means that she is very easy to get along with. If you are particularly able to say it, and it is hypocritical, it means that your mother-in-law is not easy to get along with.

If she goes to the house of her future in-law's family, she does not receive her very warmly, she does not speak very well, or she does not want to take care of herself, then this in-law's family may not be easy to get along with.

If your mother-in-law treats you very well and can treat you sincerely, then it is easy to get along with.

If your mother-in-law always finds fault with you, likes to sarcastically mock you, and ridicules you, it means that you are not easy to get along with.

I have been in love with my boyfriend for more than three years, and my feelings for each other are very deep, but I found that my boyfriend's mother is very strong, and this relationship can last for a long time. But you should find out whether your boyfriend's mother has interfered with the relationship between two people. If the boyfriend's mother directly interferes with the relationship between the two people, then the girl should have an understanding of whether the boyfriend's mother is against or in favor.

If the boyfriend's mother directly opposes two people falling in love, then the girl must not waste time on such a boy, after all, most boys who lack acres are more obedient to their mothers.

Although they have been in love with their boyfriends for more than three years, most girls have never seen what their boyfriend's mother looks like. After a meeting with my boyfriend's mother, I will feel that my boyfriend's mother is an extremely strong person, and I must ask my boyfriend to obey my mother when doing anything. This can also be unbearable for a girl, because the girl thinks that the boyfriend should be the girlfriend after having a romantic partner.

Let's first find out if my boyfriend's mother is against two people falling in love. If you feel that your boyfriend's mother has any affection for a girl, then don't waste time in front of the boy, because love without the blessing of the parents is futile. Even if two people have been in a relationship for a long time, it may be difficult to overcome the obstacles of the family.

Knowing that the future mother-in-law is a very strong person, she wants to preconceived to show her identity when she is not married, so after getting married, women may still be in a difficult situation.

Before getting married, girls should also properly test what kind of person their boyfriend's mother is, so as to reduce the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage. In fact, in married life, it is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, and girls must have to deal with their mother-in-law when they are faced with marrying their boyfriends and entering the marriage life of Marriage Bridge Town.

It's not good to go often. The fact that a boy can let you meet his parents is in itself a great affirmation for you, and then bringing you home shows that he values you and gives you a sense of security.

Introduction

As for what you said about your friend who doesn't think it's good to go to the man's house, I think the main bad thing here is the attitude of the man's parents towards you and the attitude towards you going to their house often. As you said, if the man's parents are very good to you, and your boyfriend loves you and wants you to go home with him, then there is no such thing as going to the man's house.

If you have nothing to do on the weekend and plan to lie down in the dormitory for a day, then going to his house with your boyfriend is also a good choice. If you don't have fun and don't have fun going to his house every time, you can go less. In short, your boyfriend's house is so close, it is not appropriate not to go for a long time after going there, and you can still go when you think it is convenient if it does not cause you a lot of trouble.

Summary. 1. The meals are very casual.

If I don't like you, then the meals prepared at home will be very casual, just like the meals you usually eat at home, on the contrary, if I like you very much and value you very much, then I will prepare a lot of meals that you like to eat.

2. The attitude is very cold.

If you go to see your future mother-in-law for the first time, under normal circumstances, your mother-in-law should be very happy, if she is not very happy, her attitude is very cold, and she ignores you, it means that she does not fancy you and does not like you very much.

3. There is no meeting gift and no red envelope.

It also shows that the man's parents do not attach much importance to you, under normal circumstances, when you go to meet the other party's parents for the first time, you will have a meeting gift, and you will prepare a red envelope, if you do not prepare a red envelope, it means that you are not very satisfied.

How do you see that the future mother-in-law will not pay attention to you.

There may be the following situations, just for reference: 1. If you don't like the meals, then the meals prepared at home will be very casual, just like the meals you usually eat at home, on the contrary, if you like you very much and value you very much, then you will prepare a lot of meals that you like to eat. 2. If you go to see your future mother-in-law for the first time, your mother-in-law should be very happy under normal circumstances, if you are not very happy, your attitude is very cold, and she ignores you, it means that she has not taken a fancy to you and does not like you very much. 3. No meeting gift and no red envelope also means that the man's parents do not attach much importance to you, under normal circumstances, when you go to meet the other party's parents for the first time, you will have a meeting gift, and you will prepare a red envelope, if you do not prepare a red envelope, it means that you are not very satisfied.

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When I met my boyfriend's mother, she was very nice and enthusiastic about me, and asked my boyfriend to ask me what I like to eat and what I don't like to eat, I just don't know if it's really good or fake.

After eating, his mother gave me a red envelope when I went back.

Being able to do this shows that the other party's parents have accepted you, and you don't have to speculate and be sad too much.