I have a relationship problem with my girlfriend, I really don t know what to do? 20

There are really fewer and fewer people who are truly worthy of the word human being like you said, but there are still people.

There's nothing wrong with sticking to your own principles, and those who do it give up! It's sad, but sometimes you just need to cut through the mess like this! You should also feel glad that all the unfortunate things that happened also made you see this person as soon as possible, right?

Money is important, but if she can say that, it means that she doesn't love you anymore, and there is nothing to be nostalgic about...

Hardship sees the truth" is not wrong at all! There are very few young people like you who are willing to struggle, come on! Everything is difficult at the beginning, as long as you get through it! I believe that as long as I work hard, nothing is impossible, and use facts to prove her statement wrong! Prove you can!

To put it simply, when you go to school, you don't see yourself and others correctly.

What you don't think you care about is because there's no real pressure to put it to the test.

Of course, the vows of the past were true, and the complaints now are also true.

It's all about what you need, and not being too demanding, and if your lover is too nice to you, you're more stressed.

What's the matter, that's it when you meet a woman like this? There's no need. If it's really nothing now.

Then make yourself stronger through your own efforts. This woman treats you like this, which can only explain this woman's problem. If she is wrong, she may or may not be wrong.

But it depends on how the world understands it. For her sake, you don't have to knock over a boatload of people with a single rod. Why bother saying now that you don't believe in human nature.

I don't believe this, I don't believe that. It's too early to tell. You just turn the page as if this was an episode.

It can only mean that this woman does not belong to you. Maybe you didn't have this change. She doesn't belong to you either.

Why bother. Be brave. Be strong.

Find a woman who fits you well. There will always be. Why bother to spoil your heart for the sake of an unworthy woman.

Three big words "not worth it" ......It's good to do it yourself

Now it's a money society, and who doesn't want a little more money ......As far as I'm a woman, I generally want to find someone with better conditions, at least that's more reassuring, these things are actually two-sided, you may feel that the relationship is strong, money doesn't matter, but parents want their children to live a better life, and they definitely want to find a rich person. Maybe your current situation is a setback, and if you can't solve it now, you won't be happy even if you are together in the future. Of course, it's good that you have the idea of starting a business, but your girlfriend thinks that you won't make much money in this way, in a word, it's still money!

How long can the love that always revolves around money last? Barely can't get happiness, if your girlfriend really complains about you, I advise you to think about whether to stay or let go. Realistically speaking, the money in the current society is the most real, you have to see the reality!

Maybe there are still a few people in the world who treat money like dung......

In fact, you have begun to give up on yourself The only thing you can do now is to develop your own career If a man doesn't even have his own career then which woman will want you People now are very realistic Even if you have feelings and no career Do you want to drink the northwest wind The two of them stared at each other and lived with big eyes.

Who is not selfish?

That's it, woman. Sensitive and changeable.

In fact, many things are not so complicated, don't be so negative.

I understand you really.

Women are very insecure.

Material things give her a sense of security.

All I can say is that this society is such a reality

You'll find out later

So you should fight to show those who abandon you and regret that women have women's sorrows, and men have men's sorrows

Whoever makes society like this, accept it

After reading your emotion, I can't tell how sad I am.

Forget it, it's already like this, and you can't help it.

People sometimes need to be like this, the more others look down on you, the more you need to work hard, although in today's society, it does not mean that you work hard, you can get a reward, you pay and get often disproportionate, but if you even look down on yourself, don't work hard, then you don't even have a chance to succeed, don't resent your girlfriend reality anymore, in fact, the most fundamental thing is that this society is like this, so realistic, you have to learn to face it, slowly accept it, it's not that your girlfriend doesn't understand you, it's that she doesn't love you Or don't love you enough If you really love someone you won't be like her A woman If you really love you No matter what, she may complain and lose her temper But there will never be the heart to leave you There is a difference between the love in college and the love after you enter the society You will experience more in the future, and you will slowly understand after all I said that there are still women in this world who are not material Love is supreme Maybe you don't believe it Many things If you don't experience it yourself, you don't think it's right to feel wrong what others say Wait until you experience it You see you're actually motivated You said you want to open a restaurant, right, don't lose confidence in yourself, work hard, haven't you just graduated from college This year, just out of school Except for the rich second generation, the family relationship is hard, most of them are people like you, and everything has to rely on themselves, but many people Aren't they also successful You say So if you work hard, you will have a harvest Even if you fail, it is a kind of harvest Come on.

If you don't explain, just get used to this society.

First of all, you need to be clear about why you would mind your girlfriend's emotional history. Is it because you're jealous, feel like she's had feelings with someone else, or worry she'll be unfaithful to you? Or is it because you feel that her emotional journey is too much for you to accept, that she does not fit your definition of a "good girl"?

If you are jealous or worried that she will be unfaithful to you, then you need to adjust your mindset first and look at things in the relationship rationally. You need to trust your girlfriend and trust her to love you and to value your time together. If you still find it difficult to accept, then you can talk to Sun Gai's girlfriend, express your feelings, and see if you can get the other party's understanding and support.

If it's because you feel that your girlfriend's emotional journey is unacceptable to you, then you need to think about how you define a good girl. Do you think that a good girl should have no emotional experience? If yes, then you need to understand that everyone has a past, a growth process, and no one is perfect.

Moreover, your girlfriend's past is not indicative of her present and future attitudes and behaviors. You need to respect your girlfriend's past and cherish the present and future with her.

If you're a little concerned about your girlfriend's emotional history, here are some things you can try to ease your worries:

1.Let go of the past: Everyone has their own past, including love experiences. If you have chosen to be with this person, you should try to let go of her past and focus on the present and the future.

2.Communication: Have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about what happened to her. If these experiences cause her pain or shadow, you need to give her understanding and comfort.

3.Trust each other: Building trust is one of the most important factors in maintaining a stable relationship. If your girlfriend has been behaving well and has not given you any reason to distrust, then trust that she will not act to hurt you.

4.Focus on the present: Don't let yourself dwell too much on your girlfriend's past, after all, that's something you can't change. You need to focus on the present moment and create a better future with your girlfriend.

In short, mutual respect, understanding, communication, and trust are very important in a relationship. I believe that you can face each other's past together and create the future together, making your relationship more stable and fulfilling.