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It's not something you can see if you're talented, but you can see that you have a temperament, and you can tell if you're talented or not.
Temperament is a kind of self-cultivation, a unique connotation! It's not just the outward appearance, I think you should enrich what you have on the inside!
But it will take a while and it will take your persistence
1.Read more books,"There is Yan Ruyu in the book"Hawkers!
2.Pay attention to some information about fashion, clothing, and accessories.
3.Be mindful of speech and behavior at all times, and avoid vulgar gestures and colloquial language.
4.When walking, try to keep your head up, chest and abdomen, you may feel uncomfortable at first, but after a long time, you will unconsciously do this. Wearing more heels helps with this.
5.Consciously take the initiative to talk to those who have a good temperament, and the more times you will find that the tension and inhibitions will disappear or decrease, and you will also cope with it easily, which we call desensitization.
Pay attention to the above points, and I am sure you will experience the joy of transcending yourself.
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First, there is poetry and writing in the belly.
Second, concise instrumentation.
Third, stay steady.
Fourth, it is also the most lethal: myopic glasses.
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When you really have talent.
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Read more classics European classics Except for a few philosophical books, few books are interesting Read the Three Kingdoms The four famous works are either the Dream of Red Mansions The others are not nutritious and can only make people have fun Learn aesthetics, that is, traditional aesthetics, know what beauty is first, behave elegantly, be polite, don't laugh wildly, be furious, regulate your emotions, be the most calm at all times, do everything carefully through your brain first, of course, people do things first through thinking I want you to think carefully to prevent all negative situations from happening Understand what is good and evil Distinguish between good and bad, learn how to weigh gains and losses, and if you can do it, you are a saint.
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How to become charismatic and talented.
Hello and happy for you. First of all, the charm of a person should start from within. If we want to be attractive, we have to be strong.
We can read some Chinese and foreign classics according to our hobbies, and further we can read some academic books, which can not only expand our knowledge, but also exude a unique temperament. 2 5 In addition, if we don't like reading, we can also learn something about art, such as any kind of musical instrument, or learn art and the like, which can also improve our charm value. 3 5 Second, the most important thing we do in our dealings with others is the use of language.
Whether it is an unfamiliar person or a familiar person, we should speak politely and emotionally. Words like "please", "thank you", and "sorry" are essential, which will show that you are well-educated and polite, and will greatly increase the favorability of many people towards you. In addition, it is also basic not to reveal the shortcomings when speaking.
4 5 Then, we can pay attention to the outside, such as dressing, living habits, etc., and appearance is also an important option to enhance the charm. It doesn't have to be a country or a city, but at least it must be clean and tidy, so that people look comfortable. 5 5 Finally, we need to learn to learn from each other's strengths, be willing to listen to others' opinions, correct our shortcomings, and learn from others' strengths.
We are also to be loving, kind, and able to help others.
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First of all, you need to read more books and build your own knowledge structure. One point to explain is that "high education" does not mean "talented", as the so-called "heart has goods, the mind is not empty", read more books, read more articles can continue to enrich themselves, so that a man is more clear about right and wrong, reasonable, gentle, comfortable, but also able to better express himself, communicate with others.
The second is to dress up, to reflect the elegant demeanor of a talented person.
The last thing I want to say is that to be a talented man, you will definitely usher in the love of beautiful women, you will have a unique feeling for the beauty of women, and you will be able to appreciate the sweetness and preciousness of love, so that your love experience will be more realistic and full of fun. As Emerson wrote in "The Way of Life": "Culture opens up the perception of beauty."
Therefore, being a talented man should not just be a fantasy, but a down-to-earth pursuit.
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First of all, quit sex, then have a pure mind, then read more good books, and finally think more practically.
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Only through one's own hard study, mastering various knowledge and skills, coupled with one's own application in practice, so that the learned knowledge and one's actual ability are organically combined, you will become a talented person.
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Read more and experience more Talented people have a lot of experience and have done everything.
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Read more and learn from good people.
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You can only become a talented person after studying hard and working hard.
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If you want to become a capable person, you must know how to turn the experience you have gained into your own theoretical system.
For example, if someone wins the lottery by worshipping God, and this result does not continue to occur, then this experience is the result of special feedback.
But if you go to take pictures, and you can often take good-looking ** according to a certain law, then this experience is universal. When you sum up this experience and summarize a rule, it is like yes"The Law of Segmentation", then this law becomes your system of conduct. When you shoot **, you become a capable person.
In other words, can the lessons you gain be validated over time? Is it a chance event, or is it a verifiable universal phenomenon?
If you can't reflect on your experience or come up with your own theories, it will be difficult for you to build your own system of action, and you will not be able to become a capable person.
Of course, in addition to knowing how to summarize your own experience, you also need to learn to take the initiative to test the theories you have learned from others and summarize their experience. The steps in this are to observe, summarize, act, and amend.
For example, if you see other guys talking to girls in a certain way, you will gain their affection, then you can summarize the essential characteristics of their experience, and use this experience to guide your actions. After receiving empirical feedback from the outside world through action, we can revise this theory according to our own situation. Only in this way will you be able to turn it into your own theoretical system and put the other party's"Arsenic"and become your own"Honey"to nurture their abilities.
With the practice of these steps above, the final step, of course, is to continue to act. However, at this time, the action is already to deal with external problems with a new system of behavior, and you will eventually become a capable person.
Therefore, if you want to become a capable person, you must first find out your ability needs, see what kind of ability you want to increase, and then update the underlying cognition in this area, and learn and accumulate relevant experience from your actions.
Then summarize these experiences into your own theories, and let them become your own system of action, and after deliberately continuing to act for a period of time, you will gain the ability in that area.
At this time, your lack of self-confidence, your low value, your hesitation and overwhelm will all be slowly resolved in this process of action.
Do you dare to tell me that you don't know anything?
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Learning is to keep learning and working hard every day. Don't play with your phone, don't play games, learn about culture. Reading, literature, prose, twenty-four histories, the ...... of the world
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When we say that a person is talented, he must show his talent to everyone, otherwise how would we know.
That is to say, let others know that you are talented, you must have output, you have to speak, speak, write, sing, play, perform, draw, produce, ......
The way you output, the content of your output, and the specificity of your content are three important attributes of your talent. The way is the above speaking, writing, singing, painting and production, etc., while expressing your talent, you should also add a variety of three-dimensional performances of your speech and demeanor; Talent must have content, which requires you to see, listen and think more, really have your own things, and your full heart will not have no things to output; The specificity of talent is that your output content should not be the same as others, even if it is similar to the views of predecessors, you should go further in thinking, or be different from it, critically put forward your own new ideas, here do not be different for the sake of difference, but really have experience and insight to put forward differences.
The above briefly talks about the cultivation of talents, and the rest depends on the subject's own efforts.
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I'm afraid this question is a bit profound, you said that there are too many categories of talents, take a look at the book, the book has its own ** house.
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2. The second mode: travel thousands of miles. It is through practice, experience, and contact, and on the basis of experience, to obtain rational understanding and induction.
3. The third mode: reading countless people. It is to contact a large number of different people, find the similarities and intersections from different people, so as to gain a correct understanding of things.
4. The fourth mode: follow the footsteps of the successful. Imitation and following is a shortcut for ordinary people to gain epiphany, imitation and following is self-training, that is, to gain reliable understanding from training.
5. The fifth mode: master's enlightenment. The enlightenment and enlightenment of the master is the supreme form of the lowest cost and the best benefit of the person's enlightenment. All the wisdom of China is highly concentrated on the word "enlightenment".
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There are two ways to say talent, one is ability, the other is literary talent, life is reality, so it is now generally believed that those who are in the elite in an industry are talented, and to put it bluntly, those who can make real money are talented.
Of course, people with high knowledge, such as doctors, those who have studied abroad, those who are high-level in the company, and those who can lead the group to get rich, are all called talented people. In fact, it is also a manifestation of ability.
As for the aspect of literary talent, it is now mainly reflected in the fact that there is potential and talent for that kind of interest, and it is mainly a kind of kind praise.
Personally, I think that it is the most direct and popular expression of ability that is only happening today.
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