Life is boring, and the heart is confused and lonely. What to do?

In fact, life is very short,!Shake your spirit, you are the only one in this world, you will definitely get better, use your wisdom, so that your life is not boring, go to work after school or vacation, it will make you experience the ups and downs of society, and people who are less fortunate than you are.

For example, falling out of love has hit you so hard that it has affected your life, your studies, and I actually think it's your personality that has caused all this, but don't try to change your personality, it's hard to change in a short period of time.

Ask a few questions 1 Can you correctly recognize and evaluate yourself [I don't like to talk, and I have few friends] Some people think that they are better than others, and they always think of their own strengths They only see the shortcomings of others Pretentious and not worth associating with others Some people always think that they are not as good as others and are afraid of ridicule Refuse to wrap themselves tightly Fragile self-esteem.

2. You usually like to read books, read some books on interpersonal skills, you don't have many friends, it's nothing, but you have to participate in their activities, don't not go, especially with cheerful and optimistic people, see how they do it, introverts can also be cheerful.

I miss him a lot now. Will he forget me sooner? I can't go back to the past] I know and ask, although I can't forget it for the time being, but time will teach you to forget.

Oh, yes! You're missing a goal.

A goal that will keep you going.

Set a goal for yourself.

Talk to others.

If you're embarrassed to speak in reality.

You can start on the Internet.

If you don't see each other, you may be able to open up a little.

Find your own goal and make some friends.

It's nothing, take your heart and let go of some of them, some people deserve to be sad and some people don't.

Where there is loss, there is gain.

You now think about what you have lost.

Those you have all had.

It's not like you don't have nothing.

It's just that you don't understand it yourself.

Try to find it!

Don't regret that you didn't cherish it after you lose it.

Hello 'I feel that what will happen in the future is uncertain' What happened to make you think this way, can you say oh? What do you mean by love? Don't always be aggrieved and suppress yourself, communicate more with friends and relatives around you, I believe you will be happy.

That's it for reading, what will I do in the future?

Poor child, go see the outside world, read interpersonal books, go and talk to the right people, others don't play with you, you play with others, you have to be sincere and smiling, and you have to take the initiative. You have to relax, you have to think about all the good things in this world, you have to look everywhere, you have to look it up on the Internet, you have to look it up in books.

Do you know what is most important to people? It's a dream! The most important thing for you now is to find what you like, set a goal for yourself and work hard, no matter whether you succeed or not, you are the best!

This process will make you feel fulfilled and happy....I hope to have fun every day....

You have to remember him and find someone better than him! Like me!

Step 1: Accept yourself as you are, identify with him, and tell yourself that everyone has this experience, not you. We must not think about rebelling against the situation we encounter at the moment, if we resist, we will be more painful, so first accept the current state of confusion, who has not been confused if you are a hero?

Only by accepting it will we find a new way. Step 2: Calm yourself down, don't recall the unfortunate and unhappy things that happened to you in the past, and don't be in a hurry to imagine what you want to do in the future, because at this time your heart is fluctuating, you can't see many things clearly, and you can't deal with them rationally, so calm down first.

Step 3: Don't recall the past or fantasize about the future, find out your interests in a calm state of the present, and be sure to find your hobbies, what you like to do the most'Things, whether they can be done or not, find out first, and then find a way to solve them, if you can't even find it, then how to solve it? Ask yourself what you are lacking at the moment, what can make you feel truly happy, because interest is the best teacher, and interest is the foundation for successfully getting out of the state of confusion and embarking on the road to success.

Step 4: After finding your interest, start learning, let yourself become professional in the field you like, become strong, become proficient, only proficient, there will be almost no confusion in your life. And stick to it, and you will be successful in life.

What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.