I m 27 years old, but I don t feel love and I don t want to be single anymore, what should I do?

In fact, marriage doesn't necessarily have feelings Anyway, life is like that, what you want is probably just a feeling of someone to take care of and care about, It's not love No feelings, it doesn't necessarily mean that you can't be together Feelings are something to be cultivated And you go on a blind date 10 times The following is just no love at first sight In fact, finding someone who loves you will be happier than finding someone you love Then again, it's better if both parties love it, hehe

In reality, there is.

Maybe it's right next to you.

It's just that you didn't notice it.

Improve yourself, grasp yourself well, express yourself appropriately, and I believe you will have gains.

Feelings vary from person to person.

Some people find their other half early, and some people don't blossom and bear fruit for a long time.

Give yourself some time and trust in fate.

What you want doesn't necessarily last long, it should come sooner or later.

Good luck

It's pretty much the same as me, hey, let it be.

Don't always go on a blind date, there are more blind dates, people will be numb, I just like to find it myself, never want others to introduce it, I believe in fate, if there is no fate, I will keep waiting!

They all have common difficulties and feelings, add QQ to chat, it's hard to explain.

Just wait, maybe one will appear by accident.

Their teachings have nurtured "independent" new women, some of whom have embarked on the path of life without marriage or child, some have put on the robes of pastoral feminism, some have come and gone like the wind in middle age, and some still consider themselves young girls until their aunts disappear. Seeing that other people's children are older, and then all kinds of envy, what do you want us to say, no one is perfect, when you reach a certain age, you have to see through some things, see away some shortcomings, accept the imperfections of reality, and have a good state of mind, you will naturally have mutual tolerance and mutual understanding to establish a good love and organize a family!

Whether to get married or not is a matter for other people, with different aspirations and different orientations, and there are many people who don't get married. Don't eat salty radishes and worry about it. As long as you have your own house and car, you can live happily.

Of course, it would be better if you could have your own biological baby. Not only will you not die alone, but you will even have a good harvest in love and career, so why not settle for it? If everything will be unexpectedly beautiful after the future, then why not settle for the future?

Wouldn't it be better if the whole person's mental outlook would still be youthful after that?

Hurry up and get married and have children, marriage is not the foundation, not people. There is no one in the world who is easy to get along with, no matter how much the person you like gets married, they will quarrel, and if both parties have strong personalities, they will inevitably divorce in the end. Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, divorce need to make an appointment to queue, think for yourself.

Each other has their own requirements, the ideal partner in their hearts is hard to find, and they are old and nest at home every day, and marriage will not fall from the sky. The chances of finding the right partner are almost zero. Make the most of your own search for a partner and go out for a walk on the weekends.

One red heart, two preparations.

Her family initially urged her to consider the issue of starting a family, but after the age of 35, she stopped urging and became an older leftover girl, until she was 45 years old, she found someone to marry, the problem is that this marriage only lasted a few months, and then it ended, it is estimated that she has become accustomed to living alone, and both parties are very uncomfortable after marriage.

There is a problem in the heart, because falling in love and getting married is a stage of life that must be taken, and ordinary people will not have such a mentality.

Of course not, in fact, many young people nowadays think like this, which can only show that you are a very thoughtful woman.

No, everyone has their own ideas, and now there are many young people who don't want to get married, and this is a normal thing.

It's not a psychological problem, it's that most young people in society now have this kind of thought, and the key reason is that life is too stressful.

28 years old is still single, it means that there are two reasons, the first may be that you have higher requirements for boys, and the second may be that you have less contact with boys around you, so this situation will occur, and it is becoming more and more difficult to like a person, let me tell you my opinion.

First of all, I just said that 28 years old and single may be more demanding of boys, when you are young, you can have a lot of boys to choose, at this time there are also many boys like you, but you always feel that none of them is good, at this time slowly you grow up, at this time, you will find that there are fewer and fewer boys around you, and your capital is getting less and less, so you are still single.

Secondly, it is becoming more and more difficult to like a person, this problem is actually mainly in yourself, it may be that you ask the other party to be too perfect, at this time you might as well change your thinking, no one is perfect, what is the most important problem for yourself? When you think clearly about the point that you value the most, it's good to focus on this point when looking for a boy, and when you understand this truth, you will find that it is actually easy to like someone.

Finally, at the age of 28, she is still single, if she is a girl, she really has to hurry, because she must not only consider the problem of marriage, but also the problem of offspring, so if you want to have the love you yearn for, you still have to find the person you like, so you need to try to like someone, find the point that you like this person, and let yourself take the first step, if the first step can not be taken, it is actually really difficult.

In fact, the requirements for the other half in our life will be a little high, but everything is not perfect, when there is no perfect person and result, we have to retreat to the second consideration, of course, this is not to let you find a random person because of age, but to find out whether there is a person, a certain point of his is more appreciated by you, so that you can slowly like a person, thus solving the problem of singleness.

You should make your personality more lively and go out to more potlucks and parties, because if you like someone more and more, it may cause you to be single forever.

In this case, you should adjust your mentality, there must be a problem with your mentality, and then contact the opposite sex more, and slowly change your singleness.

If you are still single at the age of 28, then it is best to adjust your mentality, and then participate in more social gatherings when you have time, which will get you out of singleness.

If you can live well by yourself, then you can live alone. If you don't find someone you like, you'll just be happier.

Then try to get used to being single, tell yourself that true love needs to wait, and there is no need to force yourself, so that you can live with peace of mind.

It's best to think quietly for a while, figure out what kind of partner you want, or what kind of partner is suitable for you, and then look for it.

You can try to have more social circles, more hobbies, and slowly make friends to get rid of this single life.

Change your mindset and let yourself reach out to different people, so that you still believe that your true love is not far away.

Find a time to watch more idol dramas and romantic dramas, so that your heart is full of better expectations for love.

I have two options to offer you, but I personally prefer one option.

Option 1: You can try to learn some new techniques and develop some new hobbies to continuously enrich and improve yourself. No one says you have to fall in love before the age of 30.

So you don't have to find a girlfriend, and you don't have to have a girlfriend to prove your charm and ability. You can try something new, develop your potential, stand tall, and you will naturally find the right person.

Plan 2: Find some blind dates** or go on a trip. If you feel ashamed to be 27 years old and don't have a girlfriend, go for it [I don't have a boyfriend either, but I don't think it's a shame [laughs]].

I don't want to, it's a problem...

Don't rush, try to reach out to more people.

Don't think too much, time will slowly heal your injuries, everything is fate, don't deliberately go to talk about friends in order to end singleness, maintain an optimistic attitude towards life, you will definitely meet the right person.

Calm down your mood, feelings are reluctant, live your own life, your other half may not have appeared, do you believe in fate? As long as fate arrives, you can't run, come on.

Go with the flow, don't be too bitter yourself.

It may be that you have had a failed relationship before, adjust your mentality, and continue to work hard to find a lover who suits you.

Could it be that it's too much masturbation, which leads to sexual impotence?

Is it because love has been hurt.

Time is the best healing medicine in the world. I used to think so about love, until many years later, I figured out that the so-called unforgettable love was just wishful thinking, and slowly, when I saw that person's **, I wouldn't be moved, and my heart was as calm as water. I love my life now, with him, and with my children.

There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, and there is no person who cannot be forgotten.

Don't be afraid, there is no grass at the end of the world, there will always be someone looking for you.

Who is born to change, and love as they meet.

Just let love come naturally, don't just think about loving others, in fact, being loved is also a kind of happiness.

You'll wait until someone who likes you and loves you.

What about being single, it's good to be single and support yourself on your own. You don't have to look for it again, just have a good time.

Actually, to be honest, I've always believed in fate, no matter how old you are, if you don't meet the right person, even if you are old, you may be the only one to live, even if you find someone to live with, that kind of life will not last long, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, compared to this truth everyone understands!

For the contemporary society, most of them are in pursuit of free love, and those arranged marriages are rare, so today's marriages are generally based on feelings. There is a girl near my house who plays with me to the biggest, she is a few years older than me, and now she is married, I remember that she has never been in love when she was 25 years old, let alone getting married, her family is very anxious, when she doesn't go to work on weekdays, she stays at home, doesn't go out to play, and then her family really can't help it, and began to arrange some blind dates for her, although several blind dates have not gone well, but gradually become more and more lively, willing to make more people, I also love to dress up more and more. Later, she didn't want to kiss anymore, and every time after the holiday, she would ask some people who had a good relationship on weekdays to go to some places where there were more young people, where she also met her current husband, and they are now very happy and happy.

In fact, when you go out, you will find that there are no beautiful things, but you don't find them, you have to go out, see more, find it, and then take the initiative to fight for it, have it, and you will get the happiness you want.

It's so tangled up when you look at the topic. This is really not easy to do, I suggest you think about it, why do you resist others, is there any shadow before? Or is there something psychologically wrong that you haven't been able to convince yourself?

If you don't want to be single, then you will work hard to get rid of the single, but if you don't convince yourself to accept others first, I'm afraid the road to get rid of the single will be very hard.

I don't know what you mean by resisting someone else, whether that person is a specific person or a certain person, or is it all the opposite sex? If it's the former, that's fine, it just means that they didn't catch your attention, and you don't have to force yourself to accept them, and you won't resist when the person who meets your requirements appears.

But if it's the latter, it's a bit of a problem, and if you have a kind of resistance to anyone who tries to get close to you, I'm afraid it's not so easy to get out of the list, so what if you really encounter such a situation? The most important point is to analyze why you have such resistance, as long as you can open this knot, you will naturally no longer have resistance to the approach of the opposite sex.

Of course, not resisting does not mean accepting everything, at least you have to have a bottom line, maybe you don't know what kind of person you want to look for, but the general conditions must be there, right? Whether it's honest and quiet, or lively and outgoing, the requirements of personality and appearance, the requirements of height and appearance, these have to have some of their own ideas.

Then whether you are a man or a woman, if you really meet the person who makes you tempted, you must take the initiative, otherwise even the boiled duck may fly away!

Then you have to choose to overcome the habit of resisting others, 25 years old is not young, if compared with others, by the age of 25 their children have already gone to elementary school, but you are still a single dog.

If you want to get rid of being single, the first thing you have to learn is to be in love. When confronted with a person, don't come up and resist him. Because if you don't try, how do you know it's not suitable.

You said that at the age of 25, you don't have to think about yourself, but you have to think about your parents, how anxious they should be! If you have just graduated and want to find a stable job before thinking about getting married, then it is still in the past, but if you are a part-time worker and have been drifting away for so many years, do you say that parents are not in a hurry?

If you want to get rid of being single, you must first learn to love to talk. Don't go outside and act like a dumb person, and don't dare to open your mouth when you see the person you like, so how can you have a chance to catch him? Besides, a person who chooses his other half must not want him to be a dumb person, he can speak a little, he will have more friends, and you will have more opportunities.

If you have to say that you are a stupid person, then you should not learn from those who have a sweet mouth. If you can't and don't learn, then there's no way.

Everyone should be cheerful, and remember to make a good impression when meeting for the first time, and pay attention to how you dress, how you behave. If people hate you at first sight, then you will not have any results later. Also, don't be pretentious, there's no need to say that you have to pretend to be what he likes, you still have to learn to be your truest self, because if you can disguise again, it will be exposed after a long time.

Finally, at least have a stable job. Because no one wants to fall in love with someone who doesn't even have a job, and love also requires money.