I began to have doubts about myself, questions about the problems in my heart

If you don't let go, of course you won't give up. In fact, for yourself, you have a lot of identities to realize, and you have a lot of things to do. This is already the case, why do you want to put yourself in it and refuse to come out?

Broken heart. It's not good to fix. Even if you have a girlfriend, you will feel like a walking corpse, with no feelings for each other at all. It's too strange to love. I can't find the feeling of love anymore.

First of all, you need to build self-confidence;

Think about it another way: your mother may be encouraging you in reverse;

Let you turn your grief and anger into strength.

Believe in yourself; You can.

Eh!! Your mother doesn't understand this, the world doesn't appear because it appears, it appears because it wants to appear, as long as you want to, you can, don't mention any effort or not, as long as you think about it every day, then this thing can come true, and I believe that I am absolutely right!!

Just show her that she's using a motivational plan If you follow you, you should feel that you have a backer, and you don't work your own.

Now that you've come this far, learn to believe in him. I wish you happiness.

If you want to get married, don't be suspicious. If you don't worry, it's settled. He is not a man in the world.

Suspicion is obsessive-compulsive, and I sometimes think so, but reason still prevails and refrains from doing it.

Hello, if you have this situation, you need to do a systematic psychological examination, and I don't know if when you do these dangerous things, it is driven by delusions or hallucinations. Knowing that this is only through your brief description, we as psychological counselors cannot determine the specific cause of your situation, therefore, it is recommended to immediately go to a psychological clinic or specialized psychological hospital for psychological examination, so as to avoid delays and other more serious consequences.

Why does the brain sometimes think about a problem all the time, afraid that something is happening, and be anxious, worried, afraid, fearful? I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain, all human behaviors and feelings are the activities of my own brain, human beings (including animals) in order to survive and continue must have a sense of anxiety to protect themselves, the higher the IQ, the more these characteristics are, this is the instinct of evolution, all the worries and fears of human beings are based on this instinct, irresistible, the root of various neuroses such as obsessive-compulsive disorder is also based on this instinct, everyone's living environment, growth experience, and knowledge level are different, so everyone is worried, Fear is also different, and each person's different time may be different, in fact, this is the focus of everyone's brain at this moment (excitement), but this is irrational, people's emotional feelings rely on the brain's sensibility rather than rationality, so people who can't convince themselves are painful, not that they understand this truth rationally.

Neurosis is the instinctive reaction of the brain, just like when you are hungry, the brain will have an instinctive response to eat, so I don't think this should be called a mental illness, there should be no mental illness in this world, it is the instinctive reaction of the brain at this time, this experience, and under this condition.

Everyone will have a period of confusion in their life stages, and if you want to find your original self, or if you are lucky, you can not be so tired of seeing flowers in the fog, the key is to know how to listen to your inner ear.

The ability to understand is limited, and swallowing dates is terrifying, and even if you do what you are currently thinking, you will not be able to get real happiness, because you ignore the process of savoring the food.

Follow your first personality, plain is true, at least you pay back your wishes, you will feel at ease with your old grandmother, you will not feel floating at every step you take, with a smile in confidence, I feel that the profession of a primary school teacher is good! Trust your feelings! Come on! ~

To say something that you may not like to hear, your problem is actually very common, in a nutshell, it is "the heart is higher than the sky, and the life is thinner than paper".

In the era of less and more things, it is easy to overestimate one's ability and character, and give oneself the goal of exceeding one's own ability. In the end, I found that I was not satisfied no matter how hard I tried, so I had all kinds of negative emotions. However, due to his lack of understanding of the real society, he did not realize that his goals were too high, so he began to complain about others instead of reflecting on himself.

A successful business person once said that if you have the wisdom to make a million, you should set a goal of one million. If you only have a million wisdom and set a goal of ten million, to a certain extent, you will find that you are not suitable for the cruel world in every way, and everyone around you is smarter than you. Because people have made a reasonable estimate of their own wisdom, they have the wisdom to earn tens of millions, but you don't, so you will naturally suffer a lot.

So, wake up, young man, there is nothing wrong with being an ordinary person who has no worries about food and clothing, and after accurately estimating your wisdom and courage with a calm mind, you can then set the right goals for yourself in life. If you have a million wisdom, and set a goal of 1 million, you will have a lot easier, if you set 500,000, you will feel like a fish in water.

For example, an undergraduate student may think that high school courses are very simple. But if you only have the knowledge of an undergraduate, you have to go to the doctorate whimsically, and you will sadly find that you are the weakest one. Everyone is smarter than you, and there may be people who look down on you, which will affect your normal communication with others.

If you don't socialize well, you won't be happy in life.

Therefore, it is very important to understand your own wisdom correctly, and I hope you can calm down and understand yourself more, and then understand more about the market and the real society, rather than living in the world you fantasize about.

I hope it can help you and wish you a happy life.

ps: For the sake of me seriously typing so many words for you, if it's okay, choose me, haha

Life is your own, you choose what you like, what you really need in your heart.

You may have depression, you may have a lot of stress in your life, and you may have inner conflicts, so you might as well let go of what you are doing, walk around, and relax.

For example, if you travel or something, you may be able to find your true self.

I am also deeply suffering from this contradiction, so it is better to work hard for the happiness of my family.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, everyone will encounter confusion and difficulties in their lives, what we have to do is to face it calmly, come up with a solution, talk to friends more when you are depressed, and feel better when you say something, and sometimes some problems will be solved in the communication with friends.

If there is no doubt, people are not alive, God is to give you this doubt, to live well, to solve this mystery.

Try to let others revolve around you, instead of trying to chase other people's footprints and dreams!

Everything has a way, like a dream bubble!

You weren't born to be happy, think about it, what did your parents think you did when you were that old? They are struggling, struggling, in order to have money to bring a better life to their families, what about you?

Since you don't think it's useful to read these 3 years, why do you even think about it? It is better to take a good look at the current situation (family economic situation, personal qualities and strengths), and try to find a job to get in touch with society. If you are purposeful and want to find a job in No. 1 Middle School but are cautious and have no hope for the time being, then it is better to find a job in Kuanyufeng first, accumulate experience, and struggle for two or three years.

Remember: you're young. You have enough time to take responsibility and dedication, and you have enough time to think about something.

Failing the college entrance examination is really nothing, those students who are admitted are just a few years later than you to enter the society. Perhaps, in a few years, they will not be as good as you. After all, there is a limit to those high-level, high-paying jobs.

There will always be a few superstructures, and if you can only be a low-level character, then do it well. There's no need to be the best!

Finally, to sum up, think about your situation and pursuits, and then fight for it, it's as simple as that. Life is as simple as it should be. Don't let the college entrance examination set your life!

Get a job, find a feeling: what it's like to go from school to society.