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1. First of all, you want a good first impression of others [first impression is very important] 2, let others accept you, first of all, you have to learn to accept others.
3. Have a forgiving heart and be kind to others.
4. Be optimistic yourself [Everyone loves to be with optimists] 5. Don't patronize the topics you like to talk about, you have to pay attention to whether others like your topics or not.
6. Study better, top 20 or more.
7. Don't lose your temper with your friends at every turn, or your friends will leave you.
8. Chat with others often.
If you do the above points, you will become a very popular person, although I am a primary school student, but these tricks are very useful.
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One punch at him can be a mess.
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You have to understand his hobbies, find a common topic, and don't pretend to understand.
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Follow their character.
How about everyone, you can also try to communicate in the same way as them.
Talk about topics that everyone can talk about.
Conduct yourself as much as possible to avoid embarrassment.
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Communicate with others first, then change the subject and talk about some gossip or learning.
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Hehe, after a long time, it will slowly become natural, and you should not make yourself unnatural in the first place. Maybe it's not as complicated as you think. Although some of my current colleagues are my former teachers, you don't.
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Talk about some topics that people like.
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Usually people who get along well with everyone are the kind of people who are more easy-going, and in addition, a person who is more interesting is also popular, or someone who can come up with ideas and ideas for the group is also popular.
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In the words of Mengniu boss Niu Gensheng:
Wealth gathers and people disperse. Wealth scatters and people gather.
You can use it as you learn and transform
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Chat more freely and find a common language.
Speak when you shouldn't.
The table adds the rights and wrongs of others to the inside.
Remember to echo and say bad things about others, and it will always reach other people's ears.
Say good things about others behind your back.
I'm afraid she doesn't know.
If you hate a person very much.
Just show her, but don't put it on your face.
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Generally speaking, cultivating one's communication skills should be done from two aspects: one is to improve the ability to understand others; The second is to improve the ability to express oneself. Specifically, it is necessary to do the following:
First, think carefully about where you are most likely to be in which and who you are communicating with, and different occasions have different communication requirements. For example, different communication methods should be used in companies, gatherings, meeting rooms, etc. On the other hand, the object of communication also determines the language and form of communication.
For example, when communicating with colleagues, friends, relatives, leaders, customers, neighbors, strangers, etc., the communication method should be changed according to the different people. Through this step, you can make yourself clear who needs to communicate and the occasion, so as to improve your communication skills in an all-round way.
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Let's fight together.
The more intense, the more integrated.
Make good relationship with!
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Attitude is better. Others will accommodate you.
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The first is cordiality. People who love to put on a show, everyone will stay away when they see it. Being able to put down your status anytime and anywhere and get along happily with other people is a person who is truly loved.
Whether it is a big official, a big boss, a big person, or a big star, he is willing to get close to the people around him, keep a happy mood at any time, and be willing to say some homely words.
The second point is cheerfulness. People who are happy every day will like it when they see it. With a smile on his face, he will feel happy to meet him, and this optimistic attitude will unconsciously infect the people around him, and everyone will involuntarily want to get close to him.
The third point is zealousness. Those who are enthusiastic in the group will always be respected by others. Many people are afraid of trouble for some trivial things, and will only blindly shirk, always thinking why I am doing it, and always afraid of losing, such people are not easy to be welcome.
Enthusiastic people, many people will stand up and do it when they need help; Sometimes we don't care about the benefits we lose to benefit the public, and we tend to feel grateful and respectful of such a person for what he has done.
The fourth point is humor. People who can laugh and make everyone happy have the upper hand wherever they go. Everyone loves pistachios, but who loves to be sad? Although they may have a lot of bitterness behind them, but they still bring out laughter when facing everyone, who can not love them?
The fifth point is to look good. Among the ugly people, there are also people who are likable, but if you are good-looking, take advantage of them everywhere! This is an undeniable fact.
The psalmist says, "Beauty is eternal joy." "It is human nature to like beautiful things, and beautiful people are surrounded by people everywhere, which is also a reflection of this nature.
Appearance, dressing, and dressing can make people feel pleasing to the tax, and they are also important conditions for attracting people!
The other two very important conditions are "popularity" and "affinity". There will always be some people who are born with a trait, popularity is very good, and everyone will have different reactions when they mention him, so if you have a good condition, but the popularity is not good, it will still fail. And some big officials and celebrities, if they don't have affinity, will only put on a show, and such people, although they have a high status or popularity, are still not successful.
The above traits are all traits of popular people, what have you achieved? Observe the people around you who have these qualities, and think about how such people will handle things when you encounter any situation, and I believe that you will become a very popular person...
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As long as you love to communicate and talk, you will quickly get along with people.
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See why you want to mingle with strangers, this is the key, just simple friends don't need to be so restrained, boldly want to say what they want, and speak diligently
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From the beginning of the usual talking, there is nothing to say.
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Slap them in the face and they'll all rush up and hit you! You'll be able to mingle!
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A fool who never makes people jealous.
Don't be self-righteous in anything.
If you know how to pat the horse properly, no one will hate you.
Be humorous,
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What are you doing in such a hurry?
As long as you are not born autistic, cold people.
You'll quickly blend in with your colleagues.
The way that suits you is the best.
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After a long time, it will naturally become familiar.
No matter what software you know each other, if you want to forget him, delete that software, never touch that software again, and you can forget about him.
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