Why don t you have a higher look? But in the heart? There is only so much disappointment!

If you are sad, take a walk quietly; I was sad and slept silently. Life, all things, how can everything go well, everything goes well, pain is not the whole of life, hurt, cry, life still has to be lived, the hard thing is to endure. Hurt, gritted his teeth, learned to smile slightly when it hurt, and propped up his waist.

Life, need to be like this. Naturally and calmly, I have to continue tomorrow. Struggle!

A person's beauty is not the face, but all the past events that have been experienced, leaving scars in the heart and fading, making people strong and peaceful. Therefore, elegance is not a matter of training, but of experience. Indifference is not a disguise, but a precipitation.

In a sense, people will never get old, only their faces will grow old, and time will become more and more moving. ,,It's so well written,I read it in my heart! If one day I lose everything and become nothing.

Who will stand next to me and say, "It's okay, you still have me?" Is it buddy, friend, or lover?

The happiness on the face can be seen by others, but who can feel the pain in the heart? When you are really angry, you don't cry or make trouble, but you stay quietly and don't speak. I won't ask, I won't mention, I'll walk alone when I'm sad.

I, I won't make noise, I won't make noise, and my heart hurts and I replace it with silence. Sometimes you take others too seriously, and you end up being nothing in the eyes of others.

Lack of self-confidence and fear of losing.

Are you overwhelmed?

Everyone comes into this world with their own mission.

The reason why some people feel that this world is meaningless is because they have not yet found their mission and those who have completed their mission can leave early to find his next mission Your parents are gone, maybe their mission is to give birth to you.

And what is your mission?

To live is to find one's calling and to accomplish it ...

What is the so-called meaning of life that you are asking about? My opinion is:

Life is indeed short! Compared with the billions of years of life spans of cosmic bodies such as the Earth and the Sun, life is just an extremely short moment! In fact, life is meaningless, and the so-called meaning is just imposed by people themselves.

Isn't it often said that life is like a dream in the blink of an eye, a hundred years? When a person is approaching the end of his life, looking back on the various things he has experienced in his life is like a dream, as if they happened in front of him, vividly, and you will sigh that life is so short! Gods and horses are all floating clouds!

In fact, if a person lives for a thousand years, he will die, and what is the difference between length and shortness? No wonder Bi Shumin said that life has no meaning (but you have to establish a meaning for yourself)! In fact, this is also true.

Life is just another form of physical existence. If you think about it, if there is life and people on a planet, the planet will rotate in the same way. Man is just a passing visitor in the universe, who comes to the world and walks back again.

What's the point, you say? But since you have come into this world, you must strive to be a useful person to society, and when you find that others need you, you will naturally feel sincerely happy and satisfied! You will feel that you have not walked in this world in vain.

I think that's what life is called. In fact, a person lives not only for himself, but also for his relatives and friends, even though we may not be happy, right?

A lot of people are knocked out by this question.

Because they have no purpose, no hope, no sustenance, and you don't have either?

To live is to leave something for relatives, friends, society, and the world.

I asked myself the same question, and I thought about it for a long time and finally came up with my answer: I want to make the people who are important to me happy, I want to leave something to the world, I want to make a contribution to society, and I want to leave a little wealth for myself, my family, my friends, my society, and the world, even if it's just spiritual.

Ask yourself, do you really feel like you're useless? Will it only bring grief to relatives and friends? Quietly departing without leaving any trace in society? If you think that's the right thing for you, I don't think anyone will stop you.

This world, in fact, is not as bad as you think!

The landlord has a sentence that makes me very concerned: "This society owes me too much, this society makes me have no parents, relatives and friends look at me coldly**, let me know what it means to make people go to tea and cool, society is so realistic." "This makes me feel that the landlord resents the world. I admit that human beings are pathetic, weak, and only think about themselves, and even if they have the heart to think about others, they cannot keep it up, and if they are hurt, they will not look back to protect themselves.

However, "where there is a shadow, there must be light", even if such a human being, even if he lives in this "hell on earth", because of a kind of emotion - love, living in this world has meaning, and life has color.

I believe that your deceased parents would not want you to live with hatred, it makes no sense. Maybe the fragments of happiness are always by your side, but you pick at the fragments of sorrow. You only see the dark side of this world, but you never believe in the existence of sunlight.

Maybe there's a ray of sunshine warming it now; Perhaps this ray of sunshine will appear in the near future. Believe in it!

People spend their whole lives answering the question "why do people live", perhaps, soon find it; Perhaps, it will be a long time before it is found; Perhaps, you will not find it in your lifetime (only self-defeating people can live such a mediocre life). "I am born to be useful", everyone's existence has his own mission.

Finally, I would like to give you a quote from my motto: "Fate gives people different roles, instead of complaining, it is better to go all out, no matter how small the role can be the protagonist." "Actually, I just wanted to say:

Instead of complaining about the injustice of the world, the darkness of society, and the unpredictability of people's hearts, it is better to live with all your strength and live your own wonderful life! ”

Living is for your own pursuit, as long as you are alive, you will have something to yearn for, have hope, and work hard for the things you want, which is the purpose of life. However, in the process of pursuing, you will inevitably encounter the bad things you say, but those are not important, do not let them erode your mind. If you want to get rid of weeds in the wilderness, you should plant crops in the field of your heart.

If you give up and run away because of this, it's all stupid. In order to pursue, in order to achieve the goal, it is okay to deceive oneself and escape reality in the face of difficulties, as you said, but those are manifestations of cowardice. A strong man often chooses not to back down no matter what stands in front of him.

In short, don't forget what you're after, don't let other unimportant things interfere with it, and don't be afraid to achieve it. Defeat yourself, anything is possible!

Also, don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes!

When you say this, you must be helpless in your current living situation! Everyone has a different fate, and his fate depends on the choice of his path in life. Life is like a labyrinth, and only by choosing the right path can you get out of the predicament.

It is a common sense that people are alive and cannot be changed. Maybe you are because of the betrayal, calculation, and other things that are sorry for you because of the betrayal of the people closest to you, that heart-rending feeling must be very uncomfortable, and ordinary people do not understand. Some people do whatever it takes to pursue profits, which is an ambition developed by adapting to the surrounding environment.

But I like sincere friends. Family, friendship, and love are all things that money can't buy, and sincere communication is happiness. I want to be friends with you, if only we were in the same world.

Good people are rewarded after all, cheer up, I believe you will be happy!

Actually, we can't think like this, we do live in this world a lot of intrigues, deceit, calculations, harm others, harm others, but think about it, this is only a small part of our lives, living in this world, is more about happiness, family, friendship, love, ......I believe that as long as you manage with your heart and discover with your heart, you will see more happiness than intrigue, deceit, calculating others, and harming others. And we live in this world, not only ourselves, but also our responsibilities, our parents, our children, ......So if you try to discover with your heart, you'll find many, many happy ......Come on! I believe you can do it.

In fact, when it comes to the meaning of life or things, the meaning is evaluated later, and life has no meaning at all, but after life, people look back and make an evaluation, and the so-called meaning appears. It's like eating, you have to eat before you can evaluate whether it is delicious or not. You bind yourself, in fact, whatever you do, to live, this is where the value of life lies.

In conclusion, life has no meaning.

I think you should try to get a girlfriend! Now try a little love, and your iceberg will melt into soft water! Don't arm yourself, even if you are intrigued, deceitful, calculating others, harming others and yourself.

It shows that you are too sharp! Tiger poison does not eat children! Maybe a different attitude to life, maybe something else!

I wish you success in life, love, and career!

About who to live for: I also feel as if I am living for others, I am afraid that if I die, my family will be sad, and my children will be left alone, and I will live well for them. But if you don't have all this, you have to live well, how many people want to live but can't live, I don't know how your parents died, they don't want to leave you, you are their only hope in this world, you have to live well, for their little hope, for someone to sweep their graves every year, you have to live well, this is a reason.

About people's deception: Actually, don't care about those who treat you badly, just be yourself, you care about them means that you are not psychologically strong enough, in addition, you are a little empty, you have to find something you like to do, put yourself into it, and don't think about what others are doing. When you become strong one day, they will come to worship you!

I hope you live well, for love, for the person who loves you!

This has become a kind of social atmosphere, you can't blame anyone, who doesn't calculate like this, can't you cheat like this, can you survive?

I don't know what people live for, even I am looking for a reason to live. How many people have found it for thousands of years?

As you said, we may be happier than you, maybe we have some people who care, maybe we have people who care. But at the same time, there is something about you that we can't compare. For example, you are stronger than me.

If my parents were gone, I would have followed them with a knife. But you didn't.

What about sleeping on the street? What about being looked down upon? You have to learn to ignore.

There is no absolute fairness in this world, because you are different from me, so you have to learn to ignore, you have to be yourself and live an extraordinary life! Then, let's find out together why people want to live.

Bow your head, pray, call on God, Jesus will help you, go to church and ask the pastor to pray for you, have wisdom or not, even if you succeed, you will regret it.

There is treasure without affection, and even pleasure is boring.

There is beauty but no virtue Even love can be broken.

There is life without effort, and even youth is a waste.

The wisdom of life.

It is about learning to be humble and fear God.

Recognize the dignity of life.

The wisdom of life.

It's about the right thing you choose.

Please God.

The greatest wisdom in life.

Life is like this in the eyes of many people, so there are many women who always complain that a man will always coax himself to be happy when he is still his boyfriend, once his identity changes, after his former boyfriend is upgraded to his husband, he will never coax himself again, and he will not care if he is happy? As long as a woman will be psychologically unbalanced after experiencing this, but slowly think about it from a different angle, and suddenly find that these changes in the other party are also normal, because it is not easy to live, and now the pace of life is so fast, if your husband does not work hard, what will he give you happiness? The reality is difficult to take care of, he works hard and does not have so much energy to care about the details of life, which as a woman, he must also learn to adjust, and give the other party more understanding, as long as he has you in his heart.

I've been through this myself, and I used to comfort myself like this, but it's been almost ten years, and my relationship with the other person has not been affected by those details in my life. Although your husband did not prepare any surprises for you on your wedding anniversary, it does not mean that your husband does not have you in his heart, so don't think too much, as long as you can appreciate that he is good to you. I wish you all a happy and happy life!