Treat a friend you hate, whether it is forgiveness or hatred.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Forget about it with a smile. Because you know that he drank too much, so you shouldn't worry about it. The friends around us will not all satisfy you, there are always some practices or personalities that you are not used to, but no one is perfect, and people have their own shortcomings, if you are not used to it, you can tell him directly, tell him, don't hold it in your heart, it is you who are uncomfortable.

    Maybe he can't change it for a while, then give him time to change himself. If you get involved with him over such a trivial matter, or have a grudge against him, he may repay you in a different way. Friends need to be understood and contacted to become friends slowly, but it only takes a minute or less for an enemy to become an enemy.

    It's up to you to figure it out, I hope there is a good result and I wish you a happy day! ^

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I think hatred is still because the relationship used to be a friend, and when you really delete this friend from your mind, there will be no hatred, and it's up to you how to choose, but I don't like people who don't have alcohol and brands.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I feel that it is a blessing to suffer.

    Since he drank too much. Let him be. Again. You are friends.

    If you don't like his style. Then tell him tactfully. Right. You can help him change this shortcoming.

    And also. Don't have a heart for revenge.

    That's not the right thing to think about.

    Don't take the evil for granted.

    Isn't that right? Sometimes. Just in the blink of an eye.

    A lot can happen.

    I think you'd better understand.

    Then persuade him where he is wrong. It's better that way.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What kind of friend? It's the kind of iron. Or ordinary. Is it the kind of iron? I believe that everyone will not die of old age for such a thing haha. After all, it is rare to have a few such friends in a lifetime.

    Anyway. Something that is illegal. We're not going to do it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you know that he is drunk before making a move, then what is there to hold a grudge, if he has no intention of hurting you, then forgive.

    If you do it intentionally, you also hate him as a person and don't want to be friends anymore, then ignore him, don't talk to him, and treat him as if he doesn't exist, which is the best punishment. Or simply cut off the friendship.

    If you retaliate against him with violence or other means, you often feel bad about yourself, which is very stupid, but luckily you don't want to do that.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Just ignore him.

    The kind that drinks two taels of cat urine and has convulsions is not considered a man.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Health Song" Sit quietly and often think about yourself: don't talk about others; It is a man of aspiration who can suffer; Willing to suffer losses is not a fool; Respecting the gentleman is virtuous; Fear of villains is not incompetent; Take a step back, the sky is high, the sky is high, the sky is wide; Let the distractions be calm; The heart of a contented man is always happy; Those who can endure anger are at ease.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hate is as much a thing as love is in our hearts.

    When you hate someone, you don't feel good about yourself.

    To forgive others is to forgive yourself

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    To forgive others more is also to give yourself more ways back. Love is the most powerful in the world!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Forgive me, after all, friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Well, I don't know.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Why do you have to forgive, you can not forgive.

    Don't have any psychological pressure, and there is no need to pay attention to the moral kidnapping of others.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no right or wrong way to be yourself. The key is to look at your own choices. It also depends on the degree of injury. Sometimes the other party is very unintentional and a kind of ordinary hurt, in fact, it can be forgiven. There is no right or wrong.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This should refer to the right and wrong of carrying no hidden shed.

    Because while forgiving his friends, he was also released.

    So, when a friend hurts himself, forgiving the other person can minimize the damage!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't forgive anymore, don't forgive anymore, what are you doing with the person who hurt you?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on what it is, so don't forgive it for principle.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This still needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, to see how he hurt you, and what he did to hurt you. Let's distinguish it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Can you really get along with each other without any worries in the future?

    Friend brother picks your friend to change his mind ......Not again....Hurt you again?

    For what...Hurt you? Are there any after-effects of that incident?

    Isn't it a saint?

    Don't push yourself too hard....

    It's not easy to put dust and bury it....Talk about what to forgive.

    Be kind to yourself! Good luck in the new year!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think we should forgive easily, because only by respecting ourselves and loving ourselves can we get the respect of others for us, and even if we want to forgive the person who has hurt us, we must make your tolerance and generosity weighty and valuable, so that others will learn a lesson, and they will treat you as the same thing.

    There will always be all kinds of people in life, but there are always times when Zheng Xi can't avoid being hurt by friends, some are mental and some are physical, in short, these injuries will bring us pain, when we face harm, everyone will take different ways to deal with it, some people will endure silently, some people will rise up to resist, and they also reveal their own personalities and ways of doing things.

    There is a good saying, how others treat you is how you hurt others others, you easily forgive him, for people who know gratitude, he may feel your tolerance and generosity, for heartless people, he will only think that you are easy to talk and bully, and even laugh at you in your heart for being stupid, if you are kind, and your generosity, such people will not care, with greater harm, continue to hurt you.

    So don't forgive the person who hurt us easily, and don't forgive the person who hurt you because of the apology. Because of our generosity, we put ourselves in the shoes of others, and we will reduce the guilt of others, and we may end up feeling that we have done nothing wrong at all, and we will not cherish the relationship between you.

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